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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

So men, does it have to be one or the other? Do you think he just doesn't want me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - I am a good person, devoted and loyal to my boyfriend. Problem is his porn addiction and total obsession with woman, his rude comments hurt and he knows I don't like it, but hasn't stopped. Sex is very rare and mostly he wants oral sex. I'm lonely ...

Boyfriend like swinging, me not so much. Will I be enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - The general dilemma is that my boy for three years likes to swing, or likes the idea of swinging. After a few times of play,.. I have realized that I am not so much. about 6 months after we started dating we looked into one of his previous "fu...

Wife and I don't talk anymore ,house is silent. Any ideas on how to break this behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

31 May 2015 (M) - I need an advice on how to turn thigs back to where there were with my wife. We ve been married for more than 20 years. Our only child went to college across the country and stayed there to live. So, it's just 2 of us in a house. I have to admi...

Does sex before marriage cause boredom once married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3468 days ago

31 May 2015 (M) - do having sex before marriage create boredom towards each other? that is not to get married?...

It makes me sick that I keep visiting prostitutes but I can't stop. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

28 May 2015 (M) - i:am lonely an can"t stop picking up prostitues. it makes me sick and I don't no what to do.please,please help me...

I just want my own identity. What needs to change in our marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been having so many problems lately. Financially, sexually, and emotionally and I really don't know what to do. We've have 3 kids and I'm a stay at home mom. Whenever I'm upset, I like to vent to him so I don't explode ...

Is it not as easy, as it seems, to get pregnant for some people? Anything else that could help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - My fiancé and I have been trying for a baby for 8 months now, in that time we've only conceived once but sadly that pregnancy ended in miscarriage a few months back. Recently we've been trying like rabbits to conceive again, in every position you ...

He said he can't love me because of my past, but I still love him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - i am unable to get over my ex. we started dating four months ago and it was perfect.by the end of the first week itself i told him about my past, that i had lost my virginity to my ex. all he asked me was, if it was a one time mistake or more than ...

2 years of sleeping with ex who is married. Do I walk away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Been sleeping with ex for almost 2 years. He's married. I said to him "when you get divorced we can spend more time together". He said, "you'll find someone" I said so will you, since he's been saying he's getting divorced. He responded, "I have ...

How can I get turned on in person and not just by my fantasies? I am really nervous.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Every time I think about my boyfriend I get wet thinking about him and the things we can do. But when we are together, I get nervous and can't get wet. It's really embarrassing, and I don't want to offend him. I'm a virgin, so I think I'm just ...

My husband is pressuring me for a threesome.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hi..We r married not very happily but married for 6yrs..I feel n it's true my husband was never true with me.no doubt he loves me n kids but he's very confused b character less person.since 5 yrs he's pressuring me for three some.every time he wants ...

We never have sex and fight all the time, why am I with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear readers, I really don't know where to start from because the situation is quite complicated. Let me say in end of 2013 after a nasty break up, I met a guy 2 years older than me ( he is 27years now) and completely feel in love. We spent time ...

Does the chemical BOND supposedly experienced during or after sex really exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - This BOND that apparently bestows everyone, especially women, during sex, the one that does not allow them to freely participate in casual, (and safe, of course) sexual endeavors - does it still count if you are a woman who hardly ever climaxes in ...

How do I tell my friend without offending him that he is way too touchy for my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3474 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - I would love your advice with things please, please take into account im gay and things between gay guys are much more "homosocial" than normal: a) I have a dear friend who gets very touchy feel-y. He does this with everyone, but I feel unc...

Do we have a chance of making this relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are both introverts and both don't find it easy opening up to other people. A few days ago, we woke up one morning and unexpectedly from nowhere he said he wanted to talk about our rela...

Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...

My sister slept with the guy I liked and she knew I liked him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - Hi hope you can help me out , I've liked this lad for a few years he used to come into where I worked and I used to see him on the weekends at the pub he's slept over mine a few times and we've kissed but I'd just split up with my boyfrien...

Anyone have experience with bondage and the use of needles?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and are into bondage and S and M. She mentioned the other day about getting more into the pain factor as she called it. So I asked her would she would be interested in and she had seen some videos ...

Feel betrayed, hurt, and extremely upset about her lies on her friendship/relationship with T. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little over two years, and have been together for nearly 6 years. About 7 months after we started dating I met her friend, (a guy called T), who she said was her best friend. At first I was a little put off,...

Life after swinging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - Hi Just wondered how people that have swung return to normal monogamous sex with their partners? I'm a gangbang host and just worry sex will bore me after if I ever return to normal sex....

My husband and porn..he has me..so why does he need that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - I feel so inadequate and undesired. I've been dealing with something for about a year now. I'm in a relationship for about 5 years and sex was so amazing the best I've had but in this last year it's taking a nose dive. I need some ideas and some ...

She says she don't remember her ex boyfriends sizes. Could it be?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

22 May 2015 (M) - I am with a girl for about 5 yrs. I like her very much and our sexual life was very beautiful, until 3 months before, when disaster came. Here is what happened: I had never asked her anything about her past, I knew only what she had told me herself ...

Will my compromise work? My boyfriend has become very sexually posessive, and it's starting to bother my husband.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - My husband has always allowed me to have sex with other men and this has, up till now, made for a very fun and happy marriage of almost 20 years. I have been with my latest lover for a couple of years now and am very much in love with him (and wi...

Can a 62-yearold man climax twice in a day? Is this possible? The norm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Anyone know what the turnaround time is for a 62 year old man to have an orgasm? Could he have two in one day? One in the morning and one at night? Or is the recovery period longer that he must wait to go again the next day? Just curious be...

Should I be feeling guilty? She got offended because I WANTED to use a condom

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

19 May 2015 (?) - I really am losing faith in humanity. Here goes: I’m 26, and a mature(ish) student at University. I recently got with a girl who I’d had my eye on for some time. We’d been hanging about in the same group of friends for several months and would fl...

I still love him, I like the sex but I can't move on if this carries on can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend messed me around so much that I ended our relationship. But now I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with him, and even though our sex is great, and we get on better then we ever did together, I feel like I'll never get over our...

Why does so much of porn refer to women by using demeaning names for the women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I was reading some other posts here and it got me thinking. Why does so much of porn refer to women by using demeaning names? I can't really repeat the titles as children may read her but even the biggest most popular sites have titles that refe...

Wife refuses intimacy, except for procreation. Threatens to deny access to children. I can't put up with her behaviour. What can I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

19 May 2015 (M) - It started almost the first month we were married, there was no intimacy. After years of no intimacy and no physical contact in our relationship, I was very resentful. The only time we had intimacy or physical contact was when she wanted children...

Is it time to end this relationship? He only seems to care about getting sex for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Hi guys, I am here to share a problem that I am going through. My relationship with my boyfriend is going through a very rough patch, and I want to know what exactly should I do in this situation. I am dating this guy and he is my first and a...

What did this kiss mean from my ex/FWB?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - I would really value some advice on my ex fwb, then friend, now I-don't-know-what! We've always kept in touch since the benefits ended (I got a boyfriend, but not anymore). He says he always enjoys my company, and recently we have started to go out ...

Do these changes in my boyfriend's sexual behaviour suggest he's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together six yrs recently we dont have sex often and when we did he would cum very quickly we had sex for the first time in two wks and he lasted forever until i finally gave up is he cheating and having sex else where...

I've lost interest in sex after the birth of our first child. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Hey, i need to know if it's normal to lose all interest in sex when you have a baby, as it's becoming an issue btwn me and my fiancee. We've been together 2yrs, very happy, engaged and live together. Usually sex was fun, satisfying spontane...

Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Or is he stringing me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Recently my ex came around again after breaking up with the new girlfriend we started talking slowly ... and the next thing you know we hung out together and of course that lead to sex. he...

Always young and physically perfect: Why do the porn mags and sites predominately use these type of women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Lots of questions from women worried that they don't meet mens beauty standards and the usual answers say something along the lines of men are forgiving of flaws, women are their own worst enemies etc But when one looks at the images men consume ...

I can't remember the last time I was in the mood!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3482 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - Dear cupids, This is more sex advice- I hope you don't mind! I am 19 and at uni. I feel I have the opposite problem to most people- I have no a sex drive whatsoever! Forgive the crudeness but I used to get turned on randomly all the time, ...

Should I worry when my boyfriend occasionally masturbate to other girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend knows this girl. She was a client of his.. he's a personal trainer. She is not a client anymore because he moved gyms too far away from her. She used to text him ALL THE TIME. It was fine on his part as he always kept it professional. ...

I am a virgin, but I don't understand this: How people can have sex with the same person over and over again and not get bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

15 May 2015 (M) - I am still a virgin so I have no knowledge of such things, but it seems to me that If I had sex with the same girl all the time then things would get very boring, kind of like watching the same movie over and over and over again. Assuming that nei...

He is no longer interested in me. Do I give up? Or try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

14 May 2015 (F) - HELLO EVERYBODY!!! I'm just going to come straight out and say it. I had sex (several times) with a guy who I only now realise I really, really freaking liked. The sex wasn't fantastic (for some reason sex is never that great for me), but he clim...

My boyfriend's place turns me off and I don't want to have sex with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

14 May 2015 (F) - Im struggling with my feelings toward my boyfriend of a little over a year. I feel we only see each other once a week at best, and its a dull patern of food, tv/movies, sex, sleep. I feel he doesn't listen to me talk and that we aren't really ...

My ex wants to be FWB. Should I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - Okay so I need a bit of advice. A good friend of mine, we will call him Mark, used to date me. Another friend, we will call her Amber, decided she was going to be a not so good friend and steal him away. Mark and Amber were together for about 3 ...

We had sex and he still talks to me but not about that night. Does that mean he doesn't have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

11 May 2015 (F) - Recently went on a night out with my team from work. Had a brilliant night with lots of drinks. Later on in the night found myself getting very close to my male team leader (same age as me) and we ended up having sex that night. Since then we havent ...

I feel very guilty after I watch porn. How can I resolve these problems?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

11 May 2015 (?) - Hello, I feel very guilty after I watch porn. I typically only watch it once every few months, so it is by no means a habit or addiction. I have been single for a while, and don't feel comfortable with random hookups, but I do get rather sex...

She knows I'm upset with her as I've acted off but I haven't told her why. Any suggestions please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

11 May 2015 (M) - I'm at university at the moment. My girlfriend and I have been going out since late October, before that we were seeing eachother and she went home for the weekend and slept with her friend. They never used to go out they just had sex (f-buddi...

How do I get my boyfriend's attention off of porn and on to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

10 May 2015 (F) - How do a get my boyfriends attention off of porn and back onto me cuz we have NO and when i say NO i mean NOOOOOO. sex life anymore. Plz help I'm desperate here he has a serious addiction to porn....

Been dating for 2 years. I'm 19, so why are my parents being so weird about me having sex with my Bf?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

10 May 2015 (F) - I am a 19 year old female and I've recently have been having sex with my boyfriend of 2 years. I lost my virginity to him. Yes, we are being safe and using both birth control and condoms. My parents recently found out because I have been spendi...

My sex drive is such that I want to sleep around but I know that will hurt my boyfriend, and might make him depressed. What can I do about my libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - I'm in a really uncomfortable situation. I've been with my bf for 3 years with one break. During the break I had sex with two people and dated a person online for a few weeks. I just really wanted to get something out of my system. I have ...

What can I do to make this right? Because nothing in our relationship seems right any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - My partner and I have been together three years and the 1st year was perfect but since i fell pregnant all went down hill. We used to have sex regular now its once a month, he tells me i make him ill, i'm a bad mum, i moan too much, i'm no good at ...

Straight guy getting turned on by looking at another man's junk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

9 May 2015 (M) - My girlfriend has always had a fantasy of a guy joining us during sex. Recently I finally have in and agreed but still uneasy about it. That night she found a guy through an agency. He had a huge dick and after my gf had her fun, he began to jerk ...

My Wife Is So Boring and Lazy in Sex Now - Anyone Else Have a Partner Like This?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (M) - I have been married for 07 (seven) years. I love my wife but sex has gotten boring. Don't get me wrong, if SHE would want to do it like we used to it would not be boring for me. I always try to 'get it going' the "old way" but she just makes me no...

Dating for 2 months. How should I respond to her very hesitant attitudes about sex? She's a virgin and aged 36.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

9 May 2015 (M) - My new girlfriend of 2 months is a virgin and found this out when I tried to take our relationship a little further. She started crying and said that she would find it embarrasing to have sex with me and just kept on saying that she says that whe...