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41-50,
*inkcrystal
writes:How do a get my boyfriends attention off of porn and back onto me cuz we have NO and when i say NO i mean NOOOOOO. sex life anymore. Plz help I'm desperate here he has a serious addiction to porn.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 May 2015):
 How do you get his attention off porn and unto you?
You don't, you dump him. He is WAY more invest in pron and his right (or left) hand than he is in you. And I'd let him ride off into the sunset jerking himself off RATHER than waste another minute on a man who lives in porn fantasy la-la land.
And next time you date a guy, BE upfront about who you feel about pron, but make sure he also know that LYING about it is even worse.
If he IS really addicted you can't fix it, ONLY he can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2015): Another woman here who has been there done that. Whilst many men ( and some women) see porn as harmless entertainment . Yet many of is know that the degrading nature of porn changes men and especially their attitudes towards women including their partners
I also I vested way too many years thinking this was acceptable and believing the lies society tells to excuse this abusive behaviour ( because make no mistake , it IS abusive)
If only someone told me long ago to just get out.
A life without this crap is the only way for a woman with self respect
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2015): U could show him a little more affection by grabbing him or something. Put a little more pep in hus step. Or you could just tell him to get off lorn and have some time with u in bed.
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