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writes:Hi hope you can help me out , I've liked this lad for a few years he used to come into where I worked and I used to see him on the weekends at the pub he's slept over mine a few times and we've kissed but I'd just split up with my boyfriend at the time so nothing happened I saw him out last week and he came up to talk to me but we had to leave straight away as my friend was really drunk Anyway tonight me my sister who I live with now and were really close was supposed to be going out tonight but I didn't feel well so didn't go , she came back in at 2am drunk saying I kissed this lad he came upto me asking where you was when she described him I said that's the lad I've fancied for months and she knows it , I went to bed and I heard his voice shes brought him home and they've slept together am I right to be mad she knows I like him and she's done that to me I'm so angry I just want to move out Thanks x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2015): Be glad you found out how this guy really is before you got involved with him.What is scary thou is how your sister bought a stranger she just met to your house to have sex with him.The world is not a safe place anymore.All kinds of bad things could have happened.Rape,Murder,Robbery or an std that can last a life time or even kill you.What you need to do is date first.At first I suggest meeting a guy somewhere and not even letting him know where you live.Always do a backround check on the guy.Google his name.You need to stay safe and so does your sister.You 2 have been lucky so far but how long do you think that luck can hold out?All it takes is one crazy person.Just sayin oh and I would wait quite a while before sex is even in the picture.You must really trust the guy first...and that takes more time than just one drunken night.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 May 2015):
 I have to say, what you sister did was shady. But.... HE knew who she was and HE went home with her.
He isn't some great prize you called dibs on and lost. He is a dude who will sleep with anyone willing... He slept with you, now your sister.. next it will be some other chick.
Don't call DIBS on a guy. If you are INTERESTED in a guy, pursue it, date him (if he is interested) and don't sleep with them unless he is your BF. I think you were hoping that sleeping with him, kissing him in the past meant something to him... OBVIOUSLY it didn't.
Eh, I think you dodged a bullet here..
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reader, MSA +, writes (26 May 2015):
 Your sister is blood. This guy is nothing. If he reslly was interested in you, he would not have slept with your sister. Forget him, there are better men out there.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (25 May 2015):
A man compare to your sister...hmmm...Who do you think you should love more?
Yes you like the guy for a long time...nothing happened between the two of you. Your sister took the opportunity and got what you wanted.
So why are you mad? Are you mad because you should have done something sooner?
You ever think you and him never got together because you are not suppose to? If he liked you the way you liked him, he would not be with your sister.
Do not let a man come between your love for your sister. There are plenty of men, not plenty of sisters.
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