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writes:HiJust wondered how people that have swung return to normal monogamous sex with their partners?I'm a gangbang host and just worry sex will bore me after if I ever return to normal sex.
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reader, Garbo  +, writes (24 May 2015):
 Answer to this depends on who you ask and which gender. I know 2 women and 3 men who were former swingers, not with each other, so I'll share what they have said. One of the women says that she does not regret sex, that it was fun but she always felt empty at the end because none gave her any connection. She has adopted an orphan from Romania and has no man in her life and is lovely. The other woman says that she regrets swinging and doing orgies and as she became spiritual she thinks she should not have done it so feels awful that she can't take it back. She got pregnant by some unknown man during those times and is a single mother, lonely having hard time raisin her son. The men are little different. Two of them say that it was incredible that they found "dumb" women who would actually swing and that find them filthy which is why they are no longer with them. The third guy loved it, loved his swinging partner but says he was with her only because she wanted to do it and would have probably loved any girl if she was like that. My takeaway from these people is that, ultimately, no love is ever behind all that sex. That they chased sex as a way to be loved but now realized that none was ever there at those swinging parties. They are in late 49s and 50s and they are all terribly lonely, unwanted by anyone and unable to be with anyone.
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reader, Euphoria30  +, writes (23 May 2015):
Dear OP,
Personally, I've tried threesomes and other things like that, but I have a preference for intimate sex with one partner.
So it has never been a problem to "go back".. I actually enjoy relationship sex the most. There's something called "making love".. sex, but full of passion and tenderness at the same time. The comfort of really trusting another person, knowing he only wants your best, loves to bring you pleasure, won't hurt you no matter what. I doubt you can get this incomparable feeling of intimacy during a gangbang.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2015): Monogamous sex is the best sex there is.
The kind of lifestyle you live would leave me feeling empty, used and dissatisfied.
I don't think you will ever be happy one on one.
Even if you find the "right one" eventually you will succumb to your boredom and start swinging again.
That's a tough one.
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