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writes:Every time I think about my boyfriend I get wet thinking about him and the things we can do. But when we are together, I get nervous and can't get wet. It's really embarrassing, and I don't want to offend him. I'm a virgin, so I think I'm just really nervous... but how can I get past it? How can I get really turned on in person and not just by the fantasy? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 May 2015):
 Tell B/F: "Hey, Hunchy-bunchy, you know I'm not very sexually experienced... but when I think of YOU and ME getting it on.... I'm like a torrential river "down there"..... Would you like to see if I/we can keep this going if/when we get between the sheets? How about NOW????"
That should work....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2015): HiHave you known him long? You have to feel comfortable enough with someone to do these things with them and if you don't feel you're ready, wait a while. If you are close though and this is just first time nerves, if I were you, I would tell him what you have just told us. Tell him you get wet thinking about him. He will be ecstatic. But then let him know that when you are with him, the nerves take over. I can guarantee you, he will be more than happy to help! Get him to take things slowly. Until you suddenly feel like taking them faster! An old boyfriend of mine used to kiss me for ages until I started to get turned on. This could take a while, but it always worked. During this time, what I thought about wasn't always him. Not a crime! And very common. Have some fantasies that you know are going to get you going that you can think about in the early stages. Once you get used to him turning you on, thoughts about him can take over if that would do it for you. I've only had one boyfriend/partner who turned me on just by being him. It made me wet thinking about him, standing next to him, whatever, so if this is the same for you with your boyfriend, then I don't think you're going to have anything to worry about! He'll enjoy being the one who gets to coax you out of yourself. Good luck and enjoy!
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