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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

GIrlfriend gets annoyed when I try to spice up our sex life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - ok so i have tried to spice up my sex life with my gf however when i have asked her about certain things she gets annoyed with me. we have always had a lot of sex almost every day for over 3 years now. in the last year however she seems to be bored ...

How do I control my sexual urges? I've gone from a highly sexual relationship to one where there's no sex yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - I was in a long term relationship where I was having sex about 5 times a week, now I'm no longer in that relationship I'm finding that I'm having problems adjusting to having no sex life, I'm with another guy now but he's a virgin and we haven't ...

What does it mean when a guy wants YOU to tie HIM up?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is into restraints, or whatever it's called, where your hands are tied to the bedpost, and sometimes feet are tied to the.... bottom of the bed? wtf is it called? But anyways, he said once that he wants me to tie him up... What do...

Could circumcision be to blame for me not being able to get an erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - i have undergone circumcision last year. But now i feel that my sensation in the operated region is reduced and also the sexual drive. i am not able to erect properly during intercourse. Is the surgery being done wrong or something else? ...

Over the past few months our sex life has declined, and he is spending more time taking care of himself.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. I realize that over time, sex can dwindle a bit as relationships progresses, but I'm trying to keep the flame alive. He seems, overall, less enthusiastic. I find myself initiating sex most of ...

I agreed to an open relationship, he said we'd talk about it once I was back off holiday but still no word....should I mention it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok, so I've been seeing this guy for the last six weeks. 4 and half weeks ago, he said he could only be in a relationship with me, if he had the chance to have sex with other women otherwise he wouldn't be happy in the relationship. so I said I ...

Is it normal to want to explore women but not be interested in them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - I want your advice and insight. I'm straight, I have a boyfriend but I often have fantasies of having sex with girls and I really enjoy watching lesbian porn. It feels weird to say that, but I feel like it's true. Or...maybe it just really really ...

How do I pursue my one night stand? It seemed like he wanted more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - So I had this one night stand with this amazing guy, we cuddled afterwards and he held my hand. He spent the night and cuddled me in the morning and did it again. We spent some time talking and had alot in common. We felt connected and he blew off ...

How can I convince my long distance girlfriend to stay longer when she visits so I can spend quality time with her and hopefully get laid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - There's this girl who lives in Durban, appearantly she is kinda like my long distance girlfriend, she lives a far from where I am of which I leave in Johannesburg, she going to come in couple of days to company her friend to visit her boyfriend of ...

Blow job with a condom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I want to give this guy a blow job but I can not stand semen! People tell me to spit it out but even the thought of having it in my mouth makes me wanna throw up. What should I do? Is it OK to give a blow job with a condom so that the semen doesn't ...

For the first time, my boyfriend didn't turn me on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I am a bit worried because today for the first time i rejected my bf trying to have sex with me, I felt weird with the way he tried to start sex cause all he did was walk out of the room and come back in naked i told him i felt a bit uncomfortable ...

I cant orgasm when being fingered, is this normal? question to lesbians or girlies!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - This is a question for the girlies! More so lesbian girls/women...........when me and my ex girlfriend where having sex I never seemed to be able to orgasm when she fingered me. Is this like this for other women too? And how can I overcome this as I ...

My husband can't keep hard. Is he cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - my husband for the past 2 days hasnt been able to get his penis up, but sitting on the couch yesterday looking at me, rubbing up behind while cooking , and in tje shower he did get it up.... but when time to preform his penis wouldnt do ANYTHING, so ...

How do I make hubby last longer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I have been married for 3 months now and my husband and i have sex with a condom because we are still going to school and dont want to have kids at the moment we have sex 3 times a week but each time with foreplay our sex is about 15 mins long, he ...

Husband wants to have sex with other women and I'm about ready to end the marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - lets make this short and simple......... my husband wants to be intimate with other women. but he wants to be with me. (or so he says) i dont want him to sleep with any one but me. im 39 wks pregnant and it hurts to be intimate. we used to b...

What are the biggest reasons for divorce?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I was wondering what are the biggest reasons for divorce. Or I could call it cause for divorce. My husband is not intimate with me anymore, Is this very common after 20 something years of marriage? I know ,there are some marriage, what was ...

I'm not really attracted to him, we hooked up and I don't want to lead him on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I became friends with this guy a little while ago. We get along so well- mutual interests, great conversations, same views on life, etc. I wasn't initially attracted to him because, not to sound like a complete bitch, he's less attractive than I am ...

I can't let it go that my b/f had sex with his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Should I split up with my boyfriend? To give you a bit of background knowledge, I started seeing my boyfriend after a drunken works night out and it very quickly turned into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. At the time I was living with my b...

We broke up, I had sex with another guy, ex found out and then I had sex with him! Where do I stand with my ex now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, this is gonna be pretty long-winded, buuut hopefully, somebody will be able to help me. thanks in advance to anyone who is willing to give it a shot. ") for the past year, i've been on-again/off-again with this guy...

After 8 months together boyfriend has never made me cum

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I feel really bad writing this but I need some advice :( me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and he has never made me come once :/ i know that sounds horrible and selfish but he doesnt even try. He asks for sex and if i want it too...

Should I find my wife a younger man to have sex with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - i have trouble having sex for sometime and now my wife is not interested in sex she says its the mediciene she is taking should i find her a younger man to have sex with to satisfy her needs she has been patient but im afraid she will want sex ...

Do any of you have this fantasy? Have you acted on it? Was it fun, or do you deeply regret it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I have this recurring fantasy of me watching her get picked up by a guy at a bar or club and hooking up with him while I watch from across the room. The fantasy always stops short of sex, and never involves them leaving the bar, except ...

My boyfriend doesn't want me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't seem to want me. He has no reaction to me wearing lingerie, he never touches me, there is zero foreplay. I have done oral, hand jobs, anything i can to please him but it is never reciprocated. I am not heavy set, have been told ...

Am I just being a prude getting uncomfortable hubbie's new obsession?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hi! My husband and I have been married for 22 years and have a great sex life. Lately, he has been wanting to be in the same room as or have the possibility of having sex with another couple. He has been online searching and chatting with other ...

What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - What goes through a women's mind when a guy ejaculates prematurely? Three times in the last couple of weeks I've been with this really hot girl and each time it's ended far too quickly. The first time, we had dinner and some drinks in a few ...

He got nasty when I got ill and couldnt have sex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hi,I had terrible problems with my stomach including constant pain for a whole year and spent that time in and out of the medical centre. Then my condition worsened. For a while it looked like I was going to have an operation and I was absolutely ...

Boyfriend shouts he loves me during sex, what does this mean? And what is the difference between making love and sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hi All, I would like some opinions please!! the last two times me and my BF have had sex, it seems different somehow. He kept telling me he loved me when we were doing it. When a guy says this during sex, does it mean he loves you , or loves th...

Friends with benefits for 8 years, then I find out he is married! How do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - hi everyone, could do with some advice please, how do you get over a man who you see for 8 years as friends with benefits? im totaly heartbroken and there isnt a day goes by i dont think of him. he got married 2 years ago and never told me and yet ...

Is it unreasonable to ask your girlfriend to dress a certain way for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, I've been going out with my new girlfriend for a few months now and we've had sex a few times. While it's been great, I find it incredibly arousing when a woman 'dresses for sex' (i.e. lingerie, especially thigh-high stockings). She'...

I don't want to admit I like him first, how can I make him make a move on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Exactly a year ago, I met a guy at my college. He is European and he is 7 years older than me. We met because he asked my best friend to introduce us. I knew the guy is a big player and he knew I have several guys too. We hung out for a few days ...

I wanted to lose my virginity to another virgin, but they are hard to find. Should I use a prostitute instead?

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - Ok, so my situation is that I'm a virgin, and I always wanted to lose it to another virgin, but I'm almost 20 and girls like that are very hard to come by, this is very important for me, because I wanted to be able to be each other first. I kn...

I want sex more than once a week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I've been with my bf for 8 months now and we usually have sex once a week. I'm horny most of the time and i feel like having a conversation with him about how much (or how little) sex we have and that i need more to be satisfied. I end up ...

Problem when using new vibrator

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hey guys first time here.I cant find any info so im hoping you guys can help. I just got a rabbit vibe, every time it touches my clit i get an intence feeling then i go pee its really embarcing but it just happens i cant control it. I even tryed ...

What constitutes a one night stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - If a guy goes back to a girls house but they don't sleep together. But do some sort of foreplay, say like he fingers/feels her up and then he leaves in the morning both knowing they won't be seeing each other again, to be a one night stand? Beca...

Should I tell my fiance I had sex with someone while we were broken up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - Recently I found out my fiancé had been having an interstate affair and was broken hearted. I broke up with her multiple times in a week but each time I was drawn back. Eventually I left for a few days and in that time I had sex with another woman. ...

Not confident when having sex! Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 19 and a bit confused.I have been with my boyfriend now for quite a while.I recently stayed at his house for the first time over a few days and we felt ready to take things a bit further then before.It was actually very sweet we were mucking ...

We have a casual relationship but I get the feeling he might like me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - i met this guy last october, and we have never really talked much or anything, i actually met him after seeing my boyfriend at the time cheat on me so we didn't met under the best circumstances anyway last christmas, i went into town and he was ...

She says I suck in bed because my penis is too small and I'm not very good at having sex with her! What can I do to give her the best sex she's ever had?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - Hi I have a really big issue with my girl Basically she says I suck in bed that there is only one position that she likes that gives her pleasure but not nearly enough to satisfy her. She thinks it's because my penis is too small and since I lo...

Men..what do you want? Women..what turns your guy on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - okay guys. i need to know what really turns u on. i want to get my bf really hard n to want me. okay we are pretty adventuris in the bedroom. we have done everything i can think of including anal and threesome. we've done lap dance, strip tease; now ...

I want a healthy sex life but my b/f can't stay hard!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Ok me and my bf have been together 4 5 months now and we have a wonderful relationship and we get along great but when it comes to sex there is a problem. We are both 21, in college and still live with our parents so we don't have as much privacy ...

Is there anything that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - If you are a woman who can have vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex (not g-spot orgasms), can you please tell me whether there is anything at all about a man that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis during penetrative sex? E.g. for an av...

I want my revenge!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - I am going crazy because of his sexual past. I think its because it happened while we were broken up. I feel as though, if he hadn't messed up the way he did, none of it would have happened. We wouldn't have broken up and it wouldnt have happened. ...

All the signs say he loves me but still I am scared he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Hello there, I've been with my boyfriend for a year almost (like in two weeks we've been together a full 12 months) and I am smitten with him. When things are good they are 'perfect', he adores me, buys me everything, spends time with me, loves me...

Why are my nipples so tender when he plays with them now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - So, lately, whenever my boyfriend plays with or sucks on my nipples they feel somewhat tender and it's not as peasureable as it used to be. We've been together for a little over six months and he's the only one that I've done this with. He's always ...

I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...

I'd like to see her Wild Side!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - my gf says she enjoys sex but i feel like she never really opens up during it... she never lets me see her wild side which i know she has. in the past she was known for that certain kind of behavior and has suffered from terrible self esteem from ...

I don't want anything serious, should ask my friend for something casual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - There's a friend I met at college by the start of October 2011. We are not really close friends, but we hang out well in college. I'd say I'm the person she talks the most to in college, although the person I'm the closest to in college is another ...

My sex buddy and me kissed other people and then had sex with each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I have a sex buddy , were a little bit more cause he holds me threw the night when I have to leave he pulls me by the waist in bed just to fall asleep next to him, we hold hands and watch movies we are so close and are always there for each other. ...

Can we have sex on our wedding night when he's going to be in a cast?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I am 24 and a virgin. It's not like I didn't choose this because I wanted to give my all to my gorgeous fiance. Anyway we get married in May and I was fine with the idea of how we will spend the night and what we will get up to in the bedroom. ...

Did my girlfriend lose interest in me because we had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

24 March 2012 (M) - Well im 42 and i have been dating this 31 year old irish woman for almost 6 months now . Thing is for the past week she hasn't been showing much interest in me at all since last saturday. I am not great looking i honestly don't know why she sho...