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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Exactly a year ago, I met a guy at my college. He is European and he is 7 years older than me. We met because he asked my best friend to introduce us. I knew the guy is a big player and he knew I have several guys too. We hung out for a few days before we started having sex. It is the best sex I have ever had. We both are really hot for each other. Just recently he started to develop certain interest for my life and asking me personal questions. We are not friends and we do to hang out unless it is to have sex, which is pretty often. We both are very open with each other with our sexuality. We text a lot and the sex just keeps getting better. I feel like he is trying to make a move because he says things like "I think we started our relationship backwards, but we still have time to do all the things we missed along the way, like going to the movies etc.". He has need asked me out or anything, and things are going pretty slow. I kind of want him to make a move because I feel like he is starting to like me and so do I, I just don't want to be the one to admit it first. What can I do to make him do something? I thought about telling him I want to stop having sex with him, but he would wonder why, and I really do not have a reason, I just want to bring him closer. I know he really enjoys having sex with me and I drive him crazy, but he still talks to tother girls. I don't know way is going on I have never liked a guy before and I can't keep this out of my mind. I know he thinks of me because he always texts me first and for some reason he checks in with me. Im really confused and this is taking up more space in my mind that I want it to..
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reader, xgod +, writes (27 March 2012):
 What you should do is start cuddling after sex. Begin talking about your favorite things: movies, actors, colors, flavors, flowers, etc. Try not to focus on clothes or expensive brand names, because most guys could care less about the brands of clothes you wear. Talk about things you experienced when you were a little girl. Big moments when you realized something about yourself, the world, or society. Don't ask him about his interests for now, just talk about yours, UNLESS he starts telling you about his interests as well!Eventually, start asking him what he is interested in. Let him talk, don't interrupt when he pauses to think, but add your interest or comments when he mentions something you like as well or would like to try.All the while, you should be hugging and kissing and holding each other. What will happen is that your connection will become more wholesome and satisfying. Eventually, your relationship will become more than NSA or FWB.
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