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Archived questions from: February, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

It falls out when we're making love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6891 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - My Mark and I have problems making love, as every time he enters me it seems to keep falling out even though he is fully erect. I am not sure if it's because he is so small or is it I'm too big or could it be something entirely different? Regard...

She's happy, then distant, and still not interested in sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - my partner has only had sex with me once in last 3 months. it has been initiated a few times by her but then she stops and says she cannot carry on. Says she has gone off sex and i dont know whether it is off me or off sex?! we have been together...

I'm 15, he's 24... and I'm pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - im 15 and my boyfriend is 24 we have been going out for just over a year, and we had sex without any protection. i know it was a stupid thing to do and now ive just found out im pregnant. what do i do?...

Although I love the sex, I never climax...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7204 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I have never had an orgasm. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he has never been able to get me to orgasm. I love having sex with him and I always enjoy it... what can I do to help increase my chances of having an orgamsm? ...

There's three of us now: me, her and God... and things have changed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I've been in a loving sexual relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now and up until a couple of weeks ago everything was perfect. My girlfriend has recently had an "epiphany" where she started to get involved with the church again an...

He was too big... now I'm too embarrassed to try sex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7212 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - The first time I had sex, the guy was too "well-endowed" and couldn't fit inside me. We never saw each other again afterward. Am embarrassed to have sex again, because I am worried I am "too tight" as he put it. I wasn't nervous at the time and was ...

Two virgins... we can't seem to get it right...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7213 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - Hey I'm nearly twenty and still a virgin. I've been in a relationship with the same guy for almost a year now, and we are in love. Problem is he's also a virgin, and everytime we've tried sex, it hasn't worked. He says this is because I alwa...

I lied and told him he was my first - now I want to tell the truth. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - I lied and told my boyfriend that i never had sex when i really did. I didnt tell him the truth when we first met because i didnt want him to be with me just for sex. This was when i was 15 now iam 18. We are still together but he still thinks h...

Sex 4 times in 4 months. Why can't I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7214 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - I'm so confused at the moment. I have a great, wonderful boyfriend who I love so much. We have been together four months now but I have trouble understanding why in those four months, we have only made love about 4 times!! It's not him though, ...

The sex is wonderful, but I know I shouldn't be this sore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7214 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have great sex all the time but afterwards I feel sore and I sometimes bleed. I have the injection every 3 months so we never use condoms but just recently I have started to feel really sore and bleed. We have started to ...

Do girls care whether I'm circumcised?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Do girls care if a man has been circumcised because i have and i am scared to get it out. help...

Why doesn't she enjoy sex any more? Is she shy? Is she straight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7098 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - i'm in a lesbian and am in a relationship...well rather we have married. Before our wedding, my wife used to enjoy sex, in the sense that she'll let me kiss her all over but was still shy of me going down.but now she doesn't like to kiss and hard...

So much pressure & stress in our lives that there's no energy for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7074 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - i am working long hours and my wife as just started back at college. we are both under a lot of pressure, plus we have 2 young chilldren. our sex life is zero and when we are together we argue a lot. we also are in a lot of debt but we have got...

Orgies? Other men with her? Other girls with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7217 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I need to know if it is weird to think about your girlfriend with other guys. And to also know, if orgies are a good idea and what does it mean if i want my girlfriend to have sexual relations with other men ?...

I'm off sex, but not off my husband....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7207 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid.org, I have been married for 8 years to my partner of 13 years, i still fancy him but i struggle when it comes to having sex! I never feel like having sex and always make excuses when he comes near me. PLEASE PLEASE help as i am frig...

How do you do... "it"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7209 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - Hi...I have a question...I am a virgin and I am about to lose it to soemone who is more experienced than me. And I was wondering what to do besides just lay there...so what and how do I do it?...

My chat-guy lover is blackmailing me with incriminating photos...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my bf for almost 10 years now. Things were getting a bit stale between us so I decided to meet up with a bloke that i had been chatting to online. Things went well and we started to see each other regularly. We had amazing sex. ...

Sex used to be great...now it's quick and not-too-comfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7218 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - Hi, i need abit of help! Ive got a boyfriend of 2 years and at the beginning of the relationship SEX was great and we did it 5 times in a day and now i just cant seem to get wet before we start, I want to have sex with him but because im not wet ...

How do I help my gf enjoy sex as much as I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7216 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - I'm 16 and I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. We're both new at sex and she just told me of all the times weve done "it" shes only REALLY enjoyed it once and I wish she enjoyed it as much as I do. Am I doing something wrong? How can ...

What can I do to improve my girlfriend's enjoyment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7219 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - I am a 17 Male. Me and my fiancee have been together for 2.5 years. And all the times we have had sex, I have never given her an orgasm. And I was just wondering if anyone new why?...

My bf is concentrating so hard, he can't climax. What do we do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6817 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - My new boyfriend has trouble reaching orgasm with me. He claims that it is because he likes me too much and gets too worried during sex. He says he's focusing too hard or thinking too hard. I've told him gently that all I care about is enjoying...

Is masturbation harmful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7216 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - I am 22 yrs male.....I have been doing masturbating since 17 yrs old. Usually i do it 4/5 times a in a month. I think its bad for me. But i cant stop doing this.. When i see pornography I started to do it.Is it harmful for me to do it 4/5 times in ...

My folks don't want me to date, and they don't know about my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - I am under 16 years old and I just started coming to a new school this year. I met a guy and we started dating, this was my first real relationship. One night I snuck out of my house in the middle of the night and went to his house. We had a...

If she has sex with another woman, we'll break up. If she doesn't she might leave me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7218 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. We're both bisexuals (I'm a guy) and I've had a relationship with a guy before my current girlfriend but but she hasn't ever had sex with a girl. She says it would be something she...

Can we save a relationship where he lies and makes lewd remarks about my ex-sis-in-law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7215 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - I have a a serious problem with my boyfriend. We have been together about 15 months and we also live together. Lately he has been lying about everything. From little things to big things. On top of all that our sex life is also suffering. During...

I have a foot fetish. Will women think I'm weird?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - I need some input on a certain concern I have. Ever since I can remember I've had a huge fetish for female bare feet! I'm too scared to mention my fetish to women because I'm worried they will find it very weird and I'll scare them off! I'm not ...

Alone, I have great orgasms... but with a partner...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7221 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I've been seeing a great guy for almost a year now. I know I could tell him my innermost desires and he would treat them with care and understanding. My problem is this:I can't reach orgasm with a partner(not just him-any one I've had). A...

There's a lot of foreplay, but sex goes too quick for me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7226 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - Me and my partner are having big problems with our sex life. He has a high sex drive and I don't. When we are intimate with each other, we use a lot of foreplay before actual penetrative sex, to get in the mood. I thought the effect of this was ...

How to get my boyfriend in the mood..?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - I can't seem to get my boyfriend horny. I think I'm doing it wrong and I just wanted some tips on how to get him horny....

I want to do it right. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7221 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - Can you explain to me how to make love and perform oral sex as my boyfriend expects me to do it and I want to have a go?...

On the pill. Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7226 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - I am currently taking the pill and on my last week on it this month I was bleeding, when I came off it I did not come on my period and my boobs have started to get bigger which is something that only happens when I am on the pill, as soon as I come ...

I enjoy sex, but my drive has dropped to zero. Suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7227 days ago

12 February 2005 (?) - HELP!!!! My sex drive has gone from high to non-existant. I still fancy my partner of 3 years and do enjoy sex when we start, but I don't have the urge to start anything myself. Please help as I'm dying to get our relationship back on track....

A threesome with my wife & her friend was great! Now for the same with my mate...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - Hi, A few weeks ago my wife let me fufil a fantasy I had had for a long time: a threesome with her and her best mate. It was great and we all had a great time. Now she wants me to return the favour and wants me to arrange a threesome with m...

Does it..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7229 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - Does anal sex hurt everyone?...

Not sure that I'm doing oral sex right...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7229 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend doesn't cum when I'm giving him oral sex. I feel like I am bad at it. Is there a reason why he doesn't cum? and if it is because I'm bad...any tips??...

I was his "sex goddess", but lately I'm begging for it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7015 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - Hello, I have been married to my husband for 6 months and been going out for 18 months. when we met our sex life was intense and the core of our relationship. It is what bonded us..... Now after giving birth to our son who is now 5 months old, I fi...

My bisexual fiance has been keeping secrets...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7230 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm used to helping people with their problems but no good at my own. Hope u can help. Here goes.> I moved in with my fella and we have a really good relationship, well I thought we had been open, honest and faithful. I have anyhow. Some m...

Need pointers for oral...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7229 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - I have being going out with my boyfriend for some time now! We have had sex, but have never tried oral sex, and wanted to know that when we come to do this does he need an erection when I give him head?...

What if my penis is too small?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7221 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - Iv been seing my girlfriend for three months and love her too bits. But i cant have sex with her becouse i think i have a small manhood. She a virgin and and i want her first time to be special. i think im going to lose her if i dont have sex with ...

Is it possible to "wear out" a willie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7233 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - married 2 years,my husband is 40 and healthy,i am a very attractive sexual female in very good physical shape...my husband has trouble maintaining an erection so he totally prefers oral sex..i feel inadaquate to say the least..we talk about it, he ...

I love sex, but I wish I could climax!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7233 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I am a married woman with two children and love sex but i have never reached an orgasm since i was married. I further have a tendancy to "dry" up during sex and this is realy frustrating to myself. Why do i dry up and how come i cannot reach an ...

Says she's satisfied after only 5 minutes. Am I doing things right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7233 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I have sex with my girlfriend and after 5 min she says she is satisfied and wants to stop. Do you think she doesn't like sex with me? ...

Mum's read my diary! Now she's mad...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7230 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - My mother found my diary and I am 14 she has gone really mad as it says a lot of things inside the diary, about my losing my virginity and truanting school. I do not know what to do as my mother does not want to talk to me. Help Please?...

I see him every day since we split, but he says it's over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7233 days ago

6 February 2005 (?) - i went out for a nite out with all my freinds and big brother. One of my big brothers freinds came out with us. We had a realy good nite and on the way home me, my brother and his freind got a taxi. Me and mr x was in the back and we started ...

I can't stop thinking about the bloke at work... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7202 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - I've got a boyfriend at the moment and I love him a lot, but I've got feeling for some one else. It's a bloke I work with. I met him 3 yrs ago and I had an affair with him. when I got pregnant by my husband I stopped seeing the bloke at work. F...

I was pregnant once... now can't seem to get pregnant at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7226 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - I'm not sure if you will be able to answer this butI've been trying for a baby for 18 months. Nothing seems to be happening. I've been to doctors and they have referred me to a gynocologist because they think I'm having fertility problems. I'm only...

30 partners, 2 years without an orgasm. What can I try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7223 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - I have had over 30 sexual partners and have been in a relationship for over 2 years but I cannot orgasm at all. I have used vibrators in bed, role play, dressing up, and every sexual position you could possibly imagine and I have had nothing. ...

Suggestions for swallowing..?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

5 February 2005 (?) - I love oral sex and I want to be able to swallow my husband's cum but just as he is about to cum, I chicken out! I can't help thinking that I will heave and throw up. Is there any way you can help me overcome this problem?...

Find it hard to be intimate with my man without dutch courage beforehand...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7236 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - I recently got back together with my highschool sweetheart, but I'm finding it increasingly difficult to be intimate with him without a bit of dutch courage... how can I find out what my issues are and solve them, as I do want to be with him....

No feeling in my little fella

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7235 days ago

4 February 2005 (?) - I have no felling only in the head part. It takes me a long time to get hard and when i do i can't feel anything when we have sex. When i get a hand job she uses cold ice to get me hard but still no felling what is the matter with me? When we have ...