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writes: Hi, i need abit of help! Ive got a boyfriend of 2 years and at the beginning of the relationship SEX was great and we did it 5 times in a day and now i just cant seem to get wet before we start, I want to have sex with him but because im not wet enough we dont seem to do it, even when we do have sex its not for very long and we do the same things every time which can be quite boring. We both work full time and dont have alot of time together and under circumstances we both live with my parents. Is there anything you could suggest that would make our sex life better? Thank you
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Chris, writes (22 February 2005): I have a few suggestions that could help.The first is to ask a question - have you really talked to your boyfriend about this problem? I know it can be awkward but you need to go through it with him.Tell him that you love and you want both of you to have as good a sex life as in the beginning. Talk to him about what you like - has it changed since you started seeing him?If you don't get wet anymore, have you tried using lubes to keep you wet and help out during sex? Perhaps suggest going away for a night or weekend somewhere that you can both be alone together. Have a romantic meal and do things that usually turn both of you on (sexy nightwear etc). Then let the mood take you where you want to go. If there's always been something that you'd like to do then tell your lover. Tell him how much you like him but don't be afraid to tell him what you'd like. Do you masturbate and if so what gets you wet during that? Perhaps you can use that to help you get your drive back.But the most important thing is to talk to him and explain your situation. If he really loves you then he'll help out and hopefully you'll soon be having a better sex life than ever.Hope this help
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