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writes: I have had over 30 sexual partners and have been in a relationship for over 2 years but I cannot orgasm at all. I have used vibrators in bed, role play, dressing up, and every sexual position you could possibly imagine and I have had nothing. SometimesI get really close but I just can't seem to relax. What should i do?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, TP , writes (18 February 2005): Like the previous advice tells you, masturbate and find out if you can orgasm. If you have never had an orgasm, get a blood test, Your anorgasmia (lack of orgasm) may be caused by an injury or abnormal growth on the anterior pituary gland. Once the lesions are surgically removed, you will soon become orgasmic. And like the second advice tells you, get a fantastic lover, maybe you had men who were no good in bed?! Good Luck!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (6 February 2005):
 You have already said the answer to your problem and that is that you do need to relax. It would be better if you could somehow forget about having an orgasm at all because all you are achieving is putting too much pressure on yourself to have one. Are you meaning that you have never had an orgasm vaginally? That is normal for many women and can be very frustrating but again the same thing applies; you need to relax and be with the right person who understands your desire to achieve an orgasm. Do you experience orgasms through masturbation? If not, you need to spend time getting to know your own body to see what turns you on, the special areas to touch that may heighten your arousal.Take the pressure off yourself by learning to enjoy the intimacy that making love offers. Don't go all out to have an orgasm, enjoy all the sensations you experience and the rest will hopefully follow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2005): They must have all been crap. Find a stud. My girl-friend says I am and she doesn't have any problems at all. ( I think she fantasies a lot but hey, who cares, as long as I get what I want). I don't do a lot to her, she just gets turned on by merely looking at me. So, like I said, find a stud who looks horny and you will be orgasming all over the place.
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