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writes: Dear Cupid.org,I have been married for 8 years to my partner of 13 years, i still fancy him but i struggle when it comes to having sex!I never feel like having sex and always make excuses when he comes near me.PLEASE PLEASE help as i am frightened he might go off with someone else. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2005): I am in the same boat, my husband and I have been together for 16 years...two children and I never feel like sex. He thinks it's him...but it's not. What helped me was I talked to him about it and told him that I just don't have the urge anymore. So we work on it together. I try to do thing to get my self in the mood so that when we finally have time alone it is the only thing on my mind.( Like day dreaming about being alone with him on a beach some where.) I have also found that watching porns for time to time will get me in the mood. But mostly I try to remember all those hot nights we use to have! Talk to your partner and see what you both can do about it. And get those hormones checked. Sometimes it is as simple as talking to your doctor about low libido.
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (24 February 2005):
 The question that needs to be asked is "Why are you off sex?"Could it be hormonal, physical or psychological?Are you off it altogether or do you satisfy yourself when he's not around?If you are off full sex with him and don't want him to leave, you could give him a blow job and cook him a nice meal...
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