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writes: I have sex with my girlfriend and after 5 min she says she is satisfied and wants to stop. Do you think she doesn't like sex with me? Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Heather, writes (7 February 2005): Hi, i think you have to be honest with each other and sit down and talk to her about how you feel, there may be a reason for your girlfriend saying stop, but you won;t know until you ask her.... good luck.
A reader, Kiv, writes (7 February 2005): There are probably a thousand possible reasons for her behavior.My advice is: First, talk to her about it Outside of the bedroom. Communication is always the key. I always ask my girlfriend, "I know you enjoy it, but I really want to give you mind-blowing sex, so what can I do BETTER?" If you care enough, romance her, take her out have fun together, dance, laugh. When things get intimate, stick to foreplay . . . sensual massages, kissing, fondling, etc. Stay away from direct stimulation and intercourse until she wants to. If she does, you know she desires you. If you go for a few hours and she never makes a move, then she may be more comfortable right where she is and you have your answer. Either way, relax. Tension and Anxiety will ruin your performance in a hurry.
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A reader, fran, writes (7 February 2005): you will know if your girlfriend doesnt like having sex with you,if she wants it all the time with you then you cant be doing very much wrong. you will find that women tend to get bored more easily in sex than men. it doesnt always mean that you're not doing the right thing.
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