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writes: Hi...I have a question...I am a virgin and I am about to lose it to soemone who is more experienced than me. And I was wondering what to do besides just lay there...so what and how do I do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2005): Slowly, gently and with enjoyment. Remember you can only do it the first time "once". Don't do anything you don't want to and talk to your partner let them what feels good and what doesn't.Make sure you remember it, I remember mine and I was 26 when I lost my virginity. Very late by modern day standards but I waited until I had found the right person.Also practice safe sex!
A reader, Big boy surfer, writes (24 February 2005): I take it you are female? You say you're going to lose it with this guy, how long have you known him? Did you bring up the subject of sex or did he? If he did, has he been pestering or just been gently inquisitive as to when? This seems to be answering a question with a question, but if you know the answers you will feel more relaxed when it does happen and instinct will do the rest. As to how to do it that is something life teaches you. What one partner may like may not be any good to another. For this once I would say lie back and enjoy and tell your potential partner that you are a virgin and let him do all the work of turning you on, if he is experienced he will be able to give you climax (orgasm)before sex using masturbatory techniques. Lots of foreplay is the secret and all being well will let you enjoy your first experience. Have fun, play safe. No rubber, no sex!!! Let that be the first thing you ever learn about sex!
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A reader, Lenny, writes (24 February 2005): be yourself. This is the most important thing you can do. The rest comes natural. Let your self be relaxed and do what feels good, if your unconfortable,speak up. Dont do anything you dont want to do. If the other person cant understand than they dont deserve you. BE YOURSELF.
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