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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

I'm trying to get pregnant -- help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, My husband and I just started trying to get pregnant and a friend keeps telling me that it is going to take a long time as it took her about 9 months. Iwent online and printed my ovulation calendar and practiced before and during m...

I just want to know if I worry for nothing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I know people are tired of the stupid "am I pregnant" questions on here but mine is maybe something different. I just started having sex with my boyfriend. We use condoms and everything but he pulls out and takes it off at the end and leaves his ...

What are the side effects of the morning after pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - What are the effects on your body after taking the morning after pill? Does it make you throw up or anything?...

What date did I fall pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend who thinks he is the dad is in prison. My midwife worked out my due dates and the baby could have a different father, who is black called W. She worked my due date out to be 16th June... So when would I ...

Should I give this man up or continue to be a goofy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm currently in a relationship but it seems like every time he wants to be free he tells me "I'm not messing with you any more" but then when he wants to come home it's "oh baby I love you". 9 out of 10 I'm pregnant but I don't think I can ...

Would I be wrong for not telliing on her???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My niece is 14 and says she is pregnant. What should I do? I really don't want to tell on her but I just want to make sure she gets help what should I do???Would I be wrong for not telliing on her???...

He wants me to be his next baby mom.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - Hello, I'm 17 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend since Febuary 22 2008... and it's going on a year. Okay now we have had sex already but we don't have sex very often like maybe 2 times a month and he has a baby. Let me tell the story - ...

Still haven't had my cycle yet and I'm beginning to fear I'm pregnant.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - Hello I'm 14 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend on January 15 2009 and today is January 30 2009 and I still haven't had a cycle. I'm starting to feel a little different. I really believe I am pregant. Yes I have told my boyfriend and he is ...

Trying to get pregnant and having symptoms not sure what they mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have been trying to get pregnant, I don't know if I am and i just got off of my monthly over a week now. My stomache is getting a little bigger I have been eating a little more then I used to. I just started bleeding again what can that mean?...

He says he does it because he just has that "need"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I am just starting my 6th month of pregnancy and my libido is through the roof! I also have been having severe migraines and nausea. Even though I want to have sex my husband doesn't want to make me sicker or hurt me. I know he "relieves" himself ...

I'm worried I can't get pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have been off my pill for 6 months and I am 20, still get periods, me and my partner have sex 3 times a week maybe more but I am worried I can't get pregnant any more. I did when I was 17 and I really didn't think it was right at the time but now ...

I am pregnant and don't know who the dad is? One is white, one is black

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend who thinks he is the dad and is in prison. My midwife worked out my due dates and the baby could have a different father, who is black called W. I slept with them both within a day of each other (as I...

My husband looks at pics of really young girls, how can I stop him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) - my husband looks at pics of really young girls, what can i do to stop him? hi every one, for most people, I have a perfect relationship, and to some extent i believe it. me and my husband are in our 28-29s and been together for 3 years. he watche...

How will I know if I'm having real labor pains?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - how will i know if i am having true labour pains instead of braxton hicks contractions??...

Will being sick with a fever and strep throat hurt my baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Will being sick with a fever and strep throat harm my baby? i am about 7 months pregnant.?? what can i take to feel better faster?...

Am I freaking myself out, or is pregnancy a possibility?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Alright, so i was on birth control pills for a year, and towards the end totally lost track and screwed up, i stopped taking them for about a month and a half. my period lasted extremely long, [almost 2 weeks!] and 3 days later my boyfriend and i ...

A baby coming soon and a dog who's afraid of loud noises! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - so many of you know i am pregnant... well the baby is getting closer to its due date and i was talking to my doctor and we came across a problem. I have a rotwiler shepard mix dog. She is an older dog about 11 years but still... she is a rescue ...

July 31st I signed my name...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - That night I could not sleep, I had every emotion going through me. Emotions of fear,anxiety, and anticipation corralled into a single moment of the imminent birth of the child that I carried in my womb for these many countless months. I feared the ...

Dry humping scare... could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have a feeling the answer is going to be a definite 'no' here, but I thought I'd better check because I'm quite anxious about this. I spent the night at my boyfriend's and things got pretty heated in bed, he was wearing his shorts but I was stark ...

How long should I wait to get on birth control with a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a few days ago wants me to get on birth control. I've gone on it before and it's great! But to me that a huge thing to be sleeping with someone and just relying on the pill. Plus, I have to look out for myself. How long should I wait ...

Help!!! Pregnancy problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Hey! I'm 13 weeks and 4 days pregnant with my first child. Recently I have been experiencing period like cramps that last for about a minute or two then go away. They occur about five times a day. There is no blood or clear fluid coming out, but ...

What are the pros and cons of giving a baby up for adoption, and the pros and cons of keeping it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I waited until I was 18 before I started having sex with my long term boyfriend of two years. I made that decision, because I did not want to leave any burden upon my parents if I was to become pregnant. My now fiance and I plan on marrying in ...

DON'T share your wife with anyone!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I was married with my wife for 3 years we had no children. We went to the doctor but of no use, they said my my sperm was not fertile, my younger sister and I are the only "children" of my family and my mother is dead. My wife suggested we adopt ...

Protected sex but fear of pregnancy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend and I had sex about a week ago and again 3 nights ago. Both times I used a condom and 100% sure that I never came. But she's worried that she might be pregnant because she just went ill, she has sore breasts, and her period is late. ...

Sperm bank problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm going to cut to the chase, me and my wife have been in a domestic partnership for about 3 years, we had talked about having a baby through sperm banks once she was in her last year of school which is next year, well she couldn't wait and ...

I told her if she had a termination we were over!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months and she recently found out she is pregnant, she wants to terminate. She's also only 22 and says she's not ready to have a child. When she told me I didn't talk to her for a week then told her I ...

First my period is late, then it comes, then it stops, what is the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - i have a question ; in few weeks i thought im pregnant cuz i didn't get my period for 15 days but then now i get my period but it stop it what is that mean that i have a bby in my tummy but its dead or something wrong with me cuz this mornign i have ...

I'm pregnant, boyfriend doesn't understand I want an appartment of my own...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend has been living together for almost 1 yr now. I do love him, but I think we should get seperate apts. I dont want to break up with him but he thinks I does. By the way, I am 7 months pregnant with my first child, his second ...

What are the pros and cons of breast-feeding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - hi im due to have my second child on the 14th feb im a lil nrvous again even though ive done it be4 which i gguess is only natural i was just wondering what are the pros and cons about breastfeeding i brestfeed my first one but i really dont know...

My fiance really wants a baby, but I don't want to see her in pain!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hey um I'm 20 years old my fiance is 17. I was her first + vice versa. We are very much in love, getting married next year, but our (ok, my) problem is that she REALLY wants a baby. I want one too and now is not a bad time, but I hear its very pai...

Best friend commited suicide

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - hey everyone, this isn't much of a relationship question, but somewhat. My best friend in the whole world just commited suicide! i couldnt get to his house to help him and talk to him because i am pregnant, this is extreamly stressfull a...

Could I still be pregnant or is this just normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship but everytime we meet up we have sex. We met up and decided to not use a condom. He didn't "cum" inside me but could i still be pregnant as i have missed a period or is this just normal?...

I really want to have a baby with my BF but my family will freak out.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have only had sex once. And yes, we had protection he had already came in the condom and it broke, i had to have emergency contraception aka the plan b pill but i want a baby soooo bad. im only 13 tho... i will be 14 in june, i ...

Afraid to get my hopes up but are these possibly signs that I'm pregnant?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I have been trying for a child with my husband for the past 10 months. We havent had any luck at all. I have had sore breasts for the past two weeks and my period is due on tomorrow. The last period i had, was very light and was slight for one day ...

We want to have a baby but he had a vasectomy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I need some answers I just got married in Dec and we are wantin to have a baby but he has had a vasectomy so what are the chances of that happening or will he have to get that reversed before we can have a baby?? please help me with this thank you...

I need some (non-abusive) abortion advice, please.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I guess i am remaining anon because i am ashamed... Im 16 soon 17 in my first year of college studing for my A levels live a life with good people in it such as my friends and a very lovely boyfriend. Ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now...

Married but pregnant with my exes child, what should I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I have been in this relationship with my husband since I was 17 years old. Last year we started having problems nothing too major, but big enough for me to reach out to an old friend. Long story short I broke up with my ex to be with my now husband ...

I want to be pregnant and have a baby too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I really hope someone can help, I'm about to give up on motherhood! Everywhere and everybody is getting babies, and it breaks my heart to be near friends that have them. Even my brother had an unplanned pregnancy (not married) its so unfair! they ...

When are my "safe" days???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a boyfriend that I have been dating for 3 years and we started having sex like one and a half years ago. My problem is that I still don't know my safe days so am forced to use emergency pills which I believe are not advisable to use ...

My horrible story please read

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...

He just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like ...

Am I worrying for nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Ok last month my period was laste for 5 days but then I gain I always do that but never later than that. The first 2 to 3 days I had enogh to wer pad but then it wasent enoght to we're a pad it was like that for 2 days.I had never done that so I ...

How do I tell the guy I like that I'm pregnant to an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I am pregnant from an ex and have since moved on. A friend from the past just showed up back in my life and I really like him. Unfortunatly, I am not showing yet and he has no idea that in three months I am going to pop. I don't know how to tell ...

Her inconsistencies are driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great t...

Is it ok to have sex & orgasm when pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

21 January 2009 (?) - Well you see i am 20 and i just got marries and i am having my first baby i am 13 weeks pregnant and i am as horny as hell. I want to have sex more than ever but my partner says he doesnt want to hurt the baby. is it safe to have sex and an orgasm ...

Depo contraceptive injection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I had one shot of depo contraceptive injection in july 2008, it ran out in september 2008. Me and my partner have now decided we want to try for a baby. What are the chances of this happening soon? It is more likely as I only had one shot of the ...

He prefers Asian porn better than having actual sex and I'm sooooo frustrated!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - My bf likes Asian girls and he lusts for then on the internet(porn) and it makes me uncomfortable when we have sex. He only likes me cuz, I look asian (mexican) my eyes do.. And I just don't know.. What should I do.. I'm not comfortable with this at ...

Advice on her to let her see I can be responsible to raise her baby with her.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Here is my situation. I was dating this girl for about a month now she was pregnant already from a guy she was with before me which I am fine with and am ready to raise a kid. By the way this guy beat on her all the time. So a couple days ago ...

Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy? I was advised not to have sex for the first trimester (by my doctor) due to a previous miscarriage. I'm now in my 12th week of pregnancy, does no sex mean no fun on my own? Is masturbating still ok? Ple...

I want another baby and my partner is dead set against it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I have known my boyfriend for 13 years. During this time he has had 3 children by 3 different women and I have been married twice with one child, so we have both had our problems. Now we have got together and plan to get married. My issue is that I ...