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female
age
41-50,
*atanya
writes:I really hope someone can help, I'm about to give up on motherhood! Everywhere and everybody is getting babies, and it breaks my heart to be near friends that have them. Even my brother had an unplanned pregnancy (not married) its so unfair! they dont have money for a child, me and my husband do. we have been waiting for this for so long! Its taking over my life thats all I'm thinking about constantly. Am I been punished? does God maybe think i wont be a good enough mom? i love children we even have a toybox for my friends children when they visit. but i want my own so badly. everytime a friend is pregnant i try to act like i'm happy but its tearing me appart! i went for an operation in nov last year, they had to remove part of my cervix cauce they descovered high grade abnormal cells in my cervix, stage before cancer. the dr says i can still get pregnant but when is it going to happen i'm 28 and desperate. i dont know what to do.
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reader, pastfirst  +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Being unable to fall pregnant when we want to, is devastating, but you have to relax.
Stress is one of the biggest reasons for not falling pregnant.
See a doctor and find out if there's a physical reason for not falling pregnant. Your husband should also be checked.
If you're physically healthy, just calm down.
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female
reader, Amethyst_Tears  +, writes (22 January 2009):
A woman can only get pregnant 30 days out of every year. Pregnancy takes time. It seems like a random thing to some people but it's actually really concieve. Just be patient and try for a year before considering other options (eg IVF). I hope you get a baby.
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