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Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy?

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Question - (20 January 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2009)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy?

I was advised not to have sex for the first trimester (by my doctor) due to a previous miscarriage.

I'm now in my 12th week of pregnancy, does no sex mean no fun on my own? Is masturbating still ok?

Please help

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (21 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntThis seems the same poster who asked, "Is it ok to have sex & orgasm when pregnant?"

For most pregnant women, unless otherwise advised by their medical professional, sex of all kinds including orgasms is fine with the possible exception of rough sex. In fact, it is believed, based on an Australian medical study, that a regular introduction of the father's semen, both orally and vaginally, is quite healthy for both mother and child. It has even been suggested that regular absorption of the father's sperm within the mother's body by either method may help prevent rejection of the placenta, and thereby possibly a miscarriage. So unless medically advised, although some doctors may also be clueless about such things, go for it.

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A female reader, Adee1 United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

Adee1 agony auntIm pregnant also into my first trimester, and the doctor told me its best not too... Until the second.. :)

and Ive had 4 misscarriages before,due to stress, sex, and the bf..

But, good luckie duckie

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (20 January 2009):

birdynumnums agony auntI am sorry about your previous miscarriage. If you were advised not to have an *orgasm or sex* by your Doctor for the first trimester, then you should talk with your Doctor and get the "all clear/go ahead" from your Doctor as a precaution before resuming orgasms/sex (and that means asking about masturbation as well). After all, we aren't Doctors here and we don't know your medical condition either!

The reason why a Doctor would be cautious would be either deep penetration or that an orgasm might start "Braxton Hicks" contractions in case they lead to more. At the same time, Braxton Hicks are "practice" contractions for your womb, so they are nature's way of preparing you for delivery. Just ask ALL these questions to your OB/GYN and get their professional opinion in regards to your own health. Don't be shy, that's what they are there for and they have heard it all before, and more! ;^)! Congratulations on your pregnancy, BTW, and Good Luck!!! XXX

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

Honeypie agony auntI didn't think it would be a problem so I looked it up for you, here is a good link.

http://miscarriage.about.com/od/riskfactors/f/sexduringpreg.htm

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

After the first trimester of pregnancy the risk of miscarriage drops massively. Once you've gotten into your 13th week you should be safe to have an orgasm (sexually or by self manipulation) unless otherwise advised by your doctor. During the first trimester an orgasm could cause problems, but once your beyond that the baby should actually be large enough to feel comforted by the rocking of sex as well as the vibrating of an orgasm, so sex (believe it or not) is not only  pleasurable for you, but also for your baby!

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A female reader, sheribaby38 United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

sheribaby38 agony auntits fine to orgasm during pregnaancy. dont be surprised if you find yourself feeling extra frisky either. its perfectly normal.

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