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I just want to know if I worry for nothing.

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Question - (30 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I know people are tired of the stupid "am I pregnant" questions on here but mine is maybe something different. I just started having sex with my boyfriend. We use condoms and everything but he pulls out and takes it off at the end and leaves his sperm on my belly. Will I be ok if I wipe it off right away? Sometimes some of it gets very close to my vagina. Can it get inside me? Please don't call me stupid. I just want to know if I worry for nothing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009):

Whats the point in wearing the condom if he does'nt use it to stop these worries!?!

I no its not what you want to hear but you are stupid! Your doing it illegally underaged!

You have to acknowledge that what your doing is wrong!!!

There are so many bad sides to sex its unbelievable. Why risk all of it for a few minutes of pleasure!?!

All it has to be is close enough ones, then BOOM your pregnant. Do the smart thing and people wont call you stupid.

All the best xx

Say NO to underage sex =]

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (30 January 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntFirst: you are NOT stupid. You would be a little stupid if you DIDN'T ask questions, so good for you for wanting to be safe and take care of yourself. I call that very, very smart.

It can only get inside of you if he's not careful where he shoots it. It's good that he's using a condom and pulling out. You just need to make sure that he doesn't shoot it onto your vagina, because then you have a problem. Wipe it off, you'll be fine. If it makes it onto the vagina, those sperm are good little swimmers, but they're not great in oxygen. Still, if you feel that he's failed miserably and shot off where those little sperm have access to a wet, warm route to inside of you, definitely get a morning after pill to assure that you're pregnancy-free. But, provided he's containing his cum to your stomach, you shouldn't have any problem.

Why not go get yourself some birth control so you don't have to worry about pregnancy?

Good luck and way to stay safe.

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