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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

My childhood crush just added me on FB! Should I strike up a chat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - It was like, "OMG, is this true?..'' or "maybe I'm dreaming or somethng".. etc.. I opened my FB account and saw a single friend request.. I used to think who it might be, and guessed that maybe it was just someone from my old school whom I do...

We fell in love while he was in Afghanistan, but he left me shortly after he got out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I meet my boyfriend online almost a year ago. He was stationed at that time in Afghanistan and it was a rough time for the both of us. Waiting 9 months. I supported him all this time with letters, packages etc. We became closer and I started ...

Will more women be interested if I lose some weight?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I am a guy who was always on the smaller, scrawnier side. I could eat Ding Dongs and drink soda all day and I weighed 165 at 5'10" at age 17. Long story short, I am now 6 feet tall and 210. I think an ideal weight for me is about 190. I th...

We flirt all the time, then he goes silent on facebook. Does it mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - So I work with this guy and we flirt all the time and are friends on facebook. So I sent him message saying it would be nice to know him better but he never responded, however he is rarely on facebook what does it mean any suggestions?...

What do I do? Would it be bad if I did have sex with him next time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - I met this guy online and we've been talking for a month now. We had finally met last week, and have hung out two nights since. The first night we met, he took me to dinner and we hung out at his house after. We were cuddling on the couch watchi...

I have been talking to a guy for 11 months and he has gone out and had sex with someone else. I feel betrayed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hello i met this man on dating site we talked for 11 months, i saw him through webcam, i talked to his family through the phone he was supposed to visit me . But i told him that i will move to his country for study but then soon the war broke out in ...

We haven't met in person but I don't want to mess with what we have!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - The other day when I said I was alone, she texted me back saying that Im not alone, cus I have her. She says that she enjoys talking to me every day. I am really looking forward to the day we meet in person, but I dont want to mess with whats so ...

Where do I find the courage? Should I message him? What should I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - OK, I really like this guy and ive liked him for ages. i mean years. i havent spoken to him much at all, well, maybe a couple of conversations a few months back. several months ago, i added him on facebook, but i still cant find the courage to talk ...

The love of my life has been online cheating. I've never felt sadness like this before. Please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - Last night my heart was broken. I found out the girl that I planned to marry and live happily ever after with, has fallen for some online with someone else and spends hours each day flirting with and getting emotionally close with him. I'm in shoc...

Any tips how to talk to this kind of guy and make them more open to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Shy and geeky guys, please help I met this very nice guy through online dating. We had two dates and it seems that he is very shy and geeky. He kept talking about work and his coworkers. Most topics I brought up he can eventually brought back to ...

Should I move on? am I being played? He's re-opened his dating profile. What could possibly be going on in his head?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so upset and confused. I really appreciate any and all advice that you guys offer me. This might be a bit long, but I will really appreciate it if you stick in there and help me out. Thanks ahead of time. I've been dating my b...

Three weeks into the relationship. What present would not "spook" seeing as it's early days?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - Hi All, A quick question something I haven't come across before early on in the dating process. I have been dating a girl for 3 weeks, we met online and chatted on the phone etc for about a month before this. We have since had 4 /5 dates. It's her ...

Am I romantically over-reacting? I am having trouble coping with the absence of my girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - im in a distant relationship, i love my girlfriend so much, she is my first love, i used to chat with her on facebook everyday for hours, dreaming about our future, singing to each other, living happy moments of love, treating and standing by each ...

Am I wasting my time with this woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - I met a woman 3 months ago on a dating site. It has been a very intense relationship whereby I've not seen much of her and have been regularly dumped by text! I don't even know where she lives - she's like an MI5 agent - she reckons she's had ...

Sent a girl a dirty pic. Things are weird. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - I am sort of new top this online dating thing. I met this girl online and we hit it off real well. We started chatting via I'm and some of our chats got explicit. She sent me some photos of her bare legs (waist down) in the past. Last night, s...

He disappears on the weekends..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - have been talking seriously with this spanish man on fb..who seemes too good to be true..is the most charming , sensistive man i have ever spoken to....he say's he's fallen for me and would like to meet me in London , as i'm from the uk and he's ...

Can people fall in love over the phone? Or is it because we knew each other before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Why do guys fall in love with girls? There was this guy that I had worked with about five years ago, and for the past three years we pretty much haven't talked at all. I was dating one of his friends at the time when we had worked together, so he ...

Has anyone ever had any success in online dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Has anyone ever had any success in online dating? I would like to know your story. I recently decided that I should give online dating a chance but honestly all I've seen so far are guys trying to get into any girl's panties and that is turning me ...

How do I advise my sensitive friend who is rushing into another relationship using a new puppy as the justification?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - my dear friend has been on the lookout for a girlfriend since his wife was caught cheating on him 3 years ago. he has had countless failed relationships since and always talks about his ex to me and even saw a therapist recently who told him that ...

How could we make this a successful relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - I am a boy of 25 yr. I met with a lady of 40 yr on a social network about 9 months ago. We soon became good friends and we spent all the time sharing our thoughts, experiences and almost whole personal life although we hv abt 8 hr time lap. She is ...

Does Internet dating actually work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - I thought I'd share my experience - I guess I'm probably not alone. I've generally not had a problem in getting first dates with women on dating sites: although my looks are fairly average at best I've got a good profile and can write witty emails. ...

Online dating..men who say they don't want children

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - Hi All I have a bit of a silly question..... Recently I decided to take the plunge into the scary world of online dating. I didn't know what I would find or if it would work for me (at present, it hasnt - mainly old men, people who are uneducat...

Haven't met yet, but she's told me something personal. Not sure what to think!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - Ive been texting this girl off a dating site (we haven't met in person yet) for over a month now and I really like her but I dont know how she feels about me. It is a bit hard to gauge emotion through text message. We talk almost every day and on ...

I may have messed things up...Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - So, I met this guy online. We'd been talking for about 3 weeks because he was on leave when we first started talking. He's now back from visiting home and we met about 3 days ago and I ended up liking him WAY more then I expected to once I met him ...

My sexting friend has made it clear he's going to have sex with other girls until we meet up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - I recently started talking to a guy i used to go to school with and we been flirting and sex-txting back and forth. He says he really likes me but however he lives quite a bit away. We have talked about meeting up again and seeing how we get on but ...

How to tell if he's flirting in online chat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - If a guy is using emotes or smilies online when talking to you, is that flirting? For example this guy I like said how he was going to get a higher level than me in this game we play online together. So I said "Your still a noob :P" Then he said ...

Sticky "love triangle" If she doesn't know, should I tell her? That her ex is bi? That he asked me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - ok so im gay, been out for a while now so short story: a bi guy "came out" to me i guess last year long: This guy would come to my school to visit his girlfriend, but we'd socialize to (i didnt know him before he'd come to visit her, nor did I eve...

I'm trying to not act desperate but I want to talk to him so bad. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4816 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - So everyone, I used to be part of this online dating site. I was never active on it so therefore my profile was on "hiatus" meaning I couldn't really request, message, or talk to people. I could only just add them to my "favorites". I talked to this ...

He seems oddly reluctant to meet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - Dipping my toes into the single life after a 21 year realationship..ouch, its harsh out there ! I'm on this site and a guy checked me out, we started emailing and then finally we did the phone thing. Its been 9 months although he lives 2 states ...

Internet love Highway

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13 September 2011 (F) - Well where do I begin, at the beginning I suppose. Oh the wonderful, world wide tinternet. You can find anything you want on it. How to, Where to, When to, Why, the liat is enless. I came to web world in my 40s, always said would never bother with ...

Should I email him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I am current registered on an online dating website and had a first email from a guy the same age as me within a couple hours of registering. We were emailing back and forth for seven days - we appeared to have a lot in common and were getting...

Did my crush encourage this girl to cyber-bully me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - My crush and I got into the biggest fight. Before that we seemed really close. We mostly chatted online because he lives in a different neighborhood. One day his friends came online when he wasn't around. She started saying I'm a freak, ugly, that I ...

Attempts at online dating are hurting my self-esteem. Advice, please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

11 September 2011 (M) - I am newly single after a long-term relationship (19 years) ended and now back in the dating game. I have never been the most sought after guy at the party, but I've attracted attention of women in my time. I don't have classic good looks, but ...

How can I feel better? I'm sad about the breakup after I refused him more than we were doing sexually,

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I was in sexual relationship with a guy 6 months back. I'm 16 and he is 23. I agreed for sex because I was depressed after my break-up and I wanted to get over my ex. It was online relation. We used to sex chat. We never did it in real. He want...

His age information isn't matching up with the background check!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

9 September 2011 (F) - I really really need help and advice because I'm so confused at this point. I met a guy online and at the time, his profile said he was 30 and now a year later, he's 31. I believed him. But today I was talking to a friend about stalkerish thing...

Is he trying to let me down gently or does he really want "friendship"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

8 September 2011 (?) - A guy contacted me on line. We corresponded for about 3 weeks and the conversation was good. I asked if we could meet up and things kept getting in the way; first it was my family commitments, then it was extreme weather, then it was his work. H...

I lied to my online friend and I am worried she will find out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - Hi there,, I met a girl online a good couple years ago and we got on quite well, problem is, I lied about a lot - Including my age. I'm 18 now but according to my alter ego I should be 20. Now usually this wouldn't be a problem but after a while of...

What the hell am I supposed to do to get through her trust issues? I want to be her hero and save her from this nightmare...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - Okay I'm gonna jump right in and say it. I've fallen in love with a girl! And here's my problem. This girl, we'll call her Rose for the time being, has some serious problems. I met her over the internet and I know that some of you will be like " D...

My mind says do not go back to my abusive ex. My heart says yes. what should I do? Should I just stay friends and avoid relationships for a while?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants me back. What should I do? He is 26 years old, I'm almost 17 years old. Our relationship was of 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. We met online. I broke-up with him 3 months ago but we still remained in contact on ...

I am so lonely in my marriage. what do I need to do to get through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - i have ben married for a number of years. Due to health(hers) intercourse with her is out. She no longer has anything to do with me ( in bed)at all. i am so lonely it hurts. For 2 years now i am so fafthfull it is unreal.i would like to talk to someo...

What are my options for the future, in view of how he speaks to me and lies to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I have been trying for the past 2 years to cope with the knowledge that my husband had been deceiving me for 5 years by joining internet dating sites and cheating on me. My dilemma this time is the other night he was telling me that we dont tak...

How long do people chat online before they actually meet eachother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 September 2011 (?) - How long do people chat online before they actually meet each other? I'm new to this online dating thing. A guy contacted me on a dating website and we've had a good correspondence going for about 2 weeks now. After the 2nd exchange with hi...

LDR thats getting hard to handle, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

2 September 2011 (F) - I know this is probably one of the most asked questions, but I would still like to hear other peoples opinion. I have a long distance relationship with this guy, and we've been together for quite a few months now. But anyway, I don't know what ...

I want her attention again! What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - i met this girl for the first time a couple of weeks ago at my friends place...she turns out to be my friend's sister's friend. She is very pretty. A day later she just added me on facebook, and since then she had been chatting with me every single ...