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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My crush and I got into the biggest fight. Before that we seemed really close. We mostly chatted online because he lives in a different neighborhood. One day his friends came online when he wasn't around. She started saying I'm a freak, ugly, that I harrass her (I've never chatted with her) and said I was jealous of their relationship one day in the main chatroom where everyone could read. Then she took it a step further by posting lies about me on the owner's page. I think her goal was to get me kicked off the site and guess what-it worked! The guy I was talking to on there and liked must have found out or heard what happened because he said something like 'oh you cyber bully'. With that statement alone it seems he talked to her about me, her saying and doing all of that was her reaction to what he said, and him saying 'of you cyber bully' suggests he possibly Encouraged her to do it! What do you think? He didn't seem upset that she did. Later on I apologized to him and sent him an email but instead of reading it and moving on he tells his friend about it and talks negatiely about me and what I did/said on his pageShould I even bother talking to him? Is what this girl did and said a form of cyber bullying/harrassment? Do you think he encouraged her to say or do that to me?
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (12 September 2011):
 His comment doesn't indicate that he influenced her to act like this, but whether he did or didn't doesn't matter. There are many things in life we will never know the answers to and over-thinking things is a waste of time.
You should not bother talking to him. You should find a new chat room. If no one is bothering you when you don't instigate conversation/contact, then move on and don't look back.
Good luck.
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