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writes:I know this is probably one of the most asked questions, but I would still like to hear other peoples opinion.I have a long distance relationship with this guy, and we've been together for quite a few months now.But anyway, I don't know what to do about our relationship anymore.I usually talk to him everyday, but I'm always the one talking to him,and he says stuff like "I didnt see you were here" or "I'm talking to a lot of other people, so I'm kinda busy" It doesnt sound like much, but it really bothers meAnd also he is playing a lot of online games, he is actually kinda addicted to it, and he seems to take it very serious (like getting feelings for the people he meets on the game.. especially other girls)He flirts with those girls he meets online a lot, and tells them how cute they are and sometimes ask them for sex, but he tells me it's just a joke.I don't know if I can trust him and if he really cares about me as much as I care about him.I think about him all the time, and I wish he would realize how much it actually hurts not knowing if he loves me as much as he says he does, and not giving me the attention I need.Another problem is that HE gets jealous whenever I talk to other people, and I keep telling him there's nothing to worry about, but he doesnt believe it and gets mad at me and telling me I should stop hiding things from him.I really don't know how to handle him.If i talk to him about it, he puts the blame on me and tries to make me feel bad, because apparently it's only my fault..Any good advices on how to change this?
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reader, Pitsis21  +, writes (18 September 2011):
The guy doesn't really care about you...if he did he would put aside the game, i am addicted to gaming as well from 5 years old and now I'm 18... Thing is I've met a girl as well now and its this classic distance thing and i play very rarely when I'm talking with her cause i really want to talk with her.We have other kinds of problems and as i see it its not gonna last for long and I'm not happy about that.Anyway the dude you are talking to doesn't really care now its up to you.Good Luck
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 I am in a LDR and they are a hard thing in general. In my opinion let go, he seems to be playing games with you. Don't contact him for a while (I know that's hard to do) but try it and see if he contact you. If not then just let him go and find someone who can appreciate the wonderful person that you are.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 Discontinue this "relationship"... and I guarantee that the "problem" will disappear......Good luck...
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