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writes:i met this girl for the first time a couple of weeks ago at my friends place...she turns out to be my friend's sister's friend. She is very pretty. A day later she just added me on facebook, and since then she had been chatting with me every single day without fail....we were getting to know each other more and she was enjoying it....she even started tagging me in her cartoonified couple pictures for 4 days continously...i was a bit surprised and thought that there was something.....i asked my friend's sister, she said that maybe she had a little crush on me........now for the last 2 or 3 days, she hasnt chatted with me and has stoped tagging me in her pics as well. She once told me she had a boyfriend but now shez single. I am kind of missing her already, she was good to chat with, and we were becoming good friends quite fast.....i do miss her....i dont know why she has stopped, did she expect me to move things on faster and ask her out?? or is she probably back with her bf?? im not sure...i want her attention again...plz help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2011): I agree with what has already been said. Girls get sick of all the mind games and confusion with guys, if she has had a break up with her boyfriend she may appreciate someone being more straight talking.
I would message her asking how she was and making general conversation, focus on being friends, she will learn to trust you and the attention will soon follow through.
Just go for it, atleast you can say you tried!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (2 September 2011):
 Send her a message asking how she is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2011): If you want her attention, you will have to ask for it directly. Why not ask her out on a date?
Why did she stop communicating?
She's probably embarrassed her sister told her feelings for you to you. But another reason might be is that she didn't get any feed back from you? Did you respond in kind to her? She's probably felt like she's done enough flirting to get her intentions across. It's time for you to be the romantic.
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reader, Misfit19  +, writes (2 September 2011):
I geniunley think that even if she wanted you to ask her out, her interest wouldnt of all of a sudden change...
The only way to find out what is happening is to literally just ask her, and tell her what you feel...
then you know if shes not interested, yeah you'll be upset but you wont feel like you're in the dark about things!
but you never know chances are she wants you but has been busy?
just find out before its too late, before she gets with someone x
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