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writes:I am a boy of 25 yr. I met with a lady of 40 yr on a social network about 9 months ago. We soon became good friends and we spent all the time sharing our thoughts, experiences and almost whole personal life although we hv abt 8 hr time lap. She is married but not having good relation with her husband for many years but didnt got divorced yet because of her kids. But now we both are in love with each other and i am not able to get off her thoughts for a moment also. I didnt had any relation before and i had never felt such attraction to any girl as i want her. And she says she is also wanting me more and more. And we both want to get married but first i hv to get my career on track. B4 meeting her i had always had thought to be married with a virgin girl but now i am so much in love with her that virginity is no issue yet she says she didnt have sex for past 2 yrs. She was a virgin before her marriage. Can she be like a virgin. We love each other very much and to make our relationship work. I want to know if someone had been in such situation and wat should be the things to be considered to make a successful relationship?
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reader, soon567  +, writes (18 September 2011):
youLre getting into something that you need to step back from. She can never be a virgin again. She can be tight yes, but that wouldnt last long for you. She has kids already. Why has she got a divorce yet? Do you really believe he has did her in two years? This could be true but i wnt believe a liar and cheat as far as i could see them.
To make this work she needs to do the right thing and ask the guy for a divorce otherwise she's wasting ur time. How are you expected to share her kids? Is she willing to give them to her husband? What if her kids don't accept you?
This relationship can be painful for you.
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