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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Has anyone tried Eharmony and does it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Just wondering? Has anyone tried Eharmony? Does it work? Or are they just a bunch of guys looking to get laid like plentyoffish?...

Can we not be friends because it may hurt our partners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Im so confuse. I have this bf before, i meet him online and d relation last 5 years but we never meet personally, but we both know we do love each other. i did not try to meet him personally because i know my family will extreme mad at me if i go ...

Geographically undesireable is becoming desireable

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, Great longing and an aching heart for someone far away brought me to you tonight. I look towards the wisdom and divinity of dearcupid.org to lean on. First, I will get right to the point, then provide support details and describe the...

8 years chatting with a man almost 30 years older than me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - Hi, Aged 16 (just) I began going on internet chat rooms, it was a phase that lasted only a few months however, I began chatting with a man aged 48. We have continued chatting over the past 8 years(!) though have both long since abandoned going ...

Are all the men on the internet cheaters?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - I met a French man who lives in Rochester NY, in a dating website. He is a CEO and chairman one of big company is NY. He told me that he separated with his wife 5 years and had an unhappy marriage and already sent divorce dox to the court just ...

He's 6 years older than me but I really have feelings for him, its an online romance

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Ok so basiclly i'm quite young and i live in another country to this other guy who is 20 and 6 years older than me and he isn't a perv or nothing due to the plain and simple fact i lied about my age i look older anyways and i'm more mature so when i ...

Why was he so intensely into me only to drop me later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - What is it with guys who come on so strong in the beginning, pursue you like crazy, get your hopes up so much and then just drop you like you never mattered at all? I met someone online and I seriously thought he had a lot of potential. The f...

When does a guy you met on an internet dating website get serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I have met a guy on an internet dating site - we've only met up 3 times but all seems to be going well though it's still very early days. My question is how many dates do you think it should be before he stops looking at other prospective dates??? ...

Is my online, long distance boyfriend a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - He denied me to other women online that he doesn't have a gf. I am dating this guy online I am from another continent, he is in USA, we have been talking for more than a yr, we're in love but we have not met yet. He has been telling me to meet me ...

What should I send the girl online that I like? I was thinking flowers or a stuffed animal..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - I met this girl online and we have been chatting for almost a year now. I really care about her and I want to do something special for her. She lives about half an hour away and we have been planning to meet, but I want to do something before we do. ...

Met a girl online 3 weeks ago, we have met up, but I don't know if she is playing me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

19 September 2009 (M) - I met this girl online 3 weeks ago. She is 20 and I am 28. We talked a lot on msn nearly every night, and even though she lives 3 hours away, as we both seemed to like each other a lot, we decided to meet up on one saturday. So I went to visit her, ...

I need some advice on how to get to know her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - well to start off..i know this girl that i really like before..she was my batchmate from highschool and at the same level until graduating to 2007 but we never really had any communication i mean were not even classmates due to the fact that our ...

What did his answer on Facebook mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - Hi! Ok I am so happy well before I said things that I regret to the boy I like allot and I apologised yesterday and he replied today and said.....haha we all make mistakes..... What should I say back? Does he like me back now? Signs: Sta...

She lives so far away what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

17 September 2009 (M) - i meat a girl over the internet. We got talking and the next thing u know were in love. But she lives sooo far away i dont know what to do were only teenagers andi cant stop thinking about her. What should i do.????...

What did he mean when he said we would have passionate sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - i was chatting to a friend of mine a few weeks ago online who i have know for years but lives in a different country and we were talking about when i go over and visit him soon and we got onto the subject of sex and he said to me that he would not ...

We've been happily MSNing, facebooking, texting. Suddenly his attitude seems to have changed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hey, I need some advice please :)!! In July I met a guy at Uni, but as it was the end of term we spoke about twice and although it was flirty nothing happened. We didnt speak all summer, however two weeks ago he began facebooking and ...

I want to meet her but she seems happy with our online relationship

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hey guys, My girlfriend and I have been in an online relationship for 9 months, we've not met in real life yet, and she told me this Sunday she has a family party, and jokingly said I should come to it. In response to that I said "I could very ea...

Should I meet my phone (sex) buddy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - hey everyone, so heres my dillemna..i have been talking to this guy i met in a chatroom, over the phone for the past 4 months.we get along great.. he sounded hot and we ended up having phonesex pretty often. Except iv seen his pic and im not real...

I've fallen in love over the internet. The problem is that it's making me sick!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I have been talking to a girl over the internet for years. I have always had a very big soft spot for her, and she has always had one for me. It has always been inevitable that we would meet at some stage. After talking over the mic a couple times ...

Should I call him to confirm the date or should I wait for his call?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I had a very nice date last Friday with a man I met online. He bought my dinner, so I texted him the next day (Saturday) to say thank you and that I had a great time. In his text reply, he said we should get together again soon and after ...

He deleted my email without reading it, but I really want to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I've got a very close friendship with an old colleague and we often email each other and occasionally speak on the phone and we are quite flirty (and I think he's lovely). We live miles away from each other, so always try to catch up if either of ...

B/f talking to online girls but he says he was just being "friendly"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Is my bf cheating on me? I caught him using an online dating profile website. He said he hasnt met any of the girls he had talked to though. I read some of the messages back and forth between him and this one girl and he is def flirting with he...

Friends and family are judging my guy on his appearance.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Hi. Recently, I decided I'd introduce my boyfriend to my friends. I met him through the internet and we had an online relationship until we met some months ago. Of course all of them didn't believe such thing as internet relationships could ever ...

Flirting by text and now he has stopped. I don't know if he is in a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - I came across a class mate from uni in facebook and he and I added each other as friends, he asked me for my mobile and started to text me funny messages about how cool, pretty etc... I was and stuff, then he started asking me for details about my ...

Met him online 6 weeks ago, he wanted to take it slow, didn't know what he wanted and I ended it because I couldnt be just friends. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Dear all, I met this guy online six weeks ago and it went well. We dated but only once a week. We'd call almost every day or every other day. Every time I am at his house we kiss and hug and touch each other but did not have sex. He never...

He says we don't have a future together, but he won't let me go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Dear Friends[would really want guys to answer this] I have a situation here. I am dating [3 months now]this guy of arabic origin. He is 25 and we met on facebook. I am a 27 yr old indian girl. Things happened slowly in the beginning. It all s...

When is it time to draw the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Background: I have 2 children from a previous relationship. I have been with my fiance for 2 years and we have just had a baby together 2 and a half weeks ago. We had planned to get married, but put it on hold when we got pregnant and now...

My situation is a little confusing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - My situation is a little confusing. I met this guy 4 months ago. We like each other a lot. There is a serious possibility of a long term relationship, but no verbal commitment till date. He seems to genuinely care for me and I do too. But, I ...

How do I reconnect with the girl I love and met online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - I met this girl online last year and she is just so amazing. I told her about 6 months ago that I loved her and she said she loved me too. We would message each other all day long and we really opened up and got so affectionate. It was really ...

How can you tell peoples feelings over the internet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - How can you tell if someone likes you online? As in over MSN or something? This one guy starts a convo with me within first 10 mins every single time he signs in. Sometimes straight away. And he's always asking me about myself, and seems to want ...

She likes me? Or just likes messing around with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Okay so there is this girl i met online and we have been talking and i told her i loved her she was fine with it but didn't say anything to me, so we kept being friends but three weeks ago i asked her if she liked me she aviod the question every way ...

Met someone on the internet, but now I think he is gay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys. I feel really strange typing this, but I need someone else´s advice. Ive been chatting to an english man for more than 2 years. Ive made a big big effort to go to his country and finally we met. I went to the city where he lives. The first ...

Online boyfriend won't meet me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

6 September 2009 (F) - I met my bf on xbox live. We have known eachother for 3 years. Two months ago we decided to start dating. We talk all the time. We web cam and phone and sync with netflix movies. We are so close and know just about everything about eachother. But ...

I met a lovely man online, but he messaged my friend telling her he wasn't dating! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

6 September 2009 (F) - I meet this man online in July. We corresponded through e-mail for a month and then started dating the first week of August. We have been dating for a month now, a few times a week. I really like him and we always have a good time. We are at the ...

She's expecting more than just friendship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

6 September 2009 (M) - About one month ago I met a really nice woman online. We hit it off and have been writing several e-mails daily. I lead her to believe I also wanted to eventually become more than just her friend. Now she insists on getting together but I now feel ...

Falling in love after 1 meeting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

6 September 2009 (F) - I need help, asap if poss please....I need to know if it's possible to fall in love with someone after only meeting them once and talking online? also, i need tips on how to play hard to get? help on both will be much appreciated :) x...

Online relationship--he's become too dependent almost obsessive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - So I just told his guy I've been seeing off and on for about 4 years that I'm breaking up with him for good and that I want to try to be with someone else. It's an online relationship, and we spent nearly every day talking, even if it wasnt in the ...

Don't know how to tell mom about my internet girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - i met this girl on the internet and we got on really well with each other straight away. We now have each others msn and mobile numbers and we talk regulary. We are both 15 and want to meet up with each other but she lives in Wales and i live in ...

Do girls like when guys think about them while they masterbate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - Do girls like when guys think about them while they masterbate? There is this one girl I have really fallen for. We met online and we havent met in person yet, but she is just so amazing and she always turns me on. She is not really sexual as much ...

She's a name without a face... why would she never want to meet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

3 September 2009 (M) - ive been talking to this girl over msn for about 2 years now. started off as just good friends but in the last few months it has turned into something more for the both of us. first off this girl has been through alot over the past couple of m...

I've been lying to my online lover about EVERYTHING

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - im 29 and married for 8years.a few years ago i started chatting with a very nice man.but lied 2 him about everythn,my race, marital status and so on.i managed to never snd hm pics.we fell in love in the virtual world.nw he wants to meet me and i cnt ...

Its so pathetic that I seek an invisible lover online!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I met this foreign guy on Internet and we've been chatted online on and off for about 1 year.At first,he wrote me for asking a language partner and we just talked about life after that.I think we both know quite a lot about each other because ...

He says he's against online dating, yet has an online GF

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - I met someone online for more than a year we have been internet friends, he planned to come meet me and see what happens, he has other friends also that he plans to meet in my country. He always told me he will not fall in love online and only ...

Friend has boyfriend issues... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hey, So a friend of mine (it's true, it's not me!) is having some issues with her boyfriend. They met on the internet, and they haven't met in real life yet, however her parents are fine with it and they are meeting in the half term. Recently she's ...

Is he cheating or planning on cheating on me?

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2 September 2009 (F) - Do you think my bf has or is planning on cheating on me? I caught him using an online dating website. Basically what happened was we both met through an online dating website. We decided we would be in an exclusive relationship- this was verball...

How do I go about telling her that I have feelings for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I met a girl online recently and we've been chatt'n i then started to have feelings for her although she has a boyfriend.i need some clue's to tell'n her how i feel without being too straight forward....

How do I let her know how I feel towards her?

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1 September 2009 (M) - I met dis girl on a chat site recently.she told me lots of things about her and i seem to like her,but i nid some clues to starting a conversation to let her know about how i feel towards her.although she told me she had a boyfriend....