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*eleren
writes:Okay so there is this girl i met online and we have been talking and i told her i loved her she was fine with it but didn't say anything to me, so we kept being friends but three weeks ago i asked her if she liked me she aviod the question every way possible i had to be super specific on what i ment like "do you like me more than a friend, and or best friend" she said no well i had to go away for two weeks so i was unable to talk to her, when i returned she had bombed me with like 20 msges saying she missed me and had hearts, and said she loved me twice. well i didn't say anything to her about it, but two days ago i asked her if she would go out with me just joking i mean i want to but i was kidding when i asked, and she said umm... brb, so she came back and said i don't respond well to those words, and i responded isn't it as simple as no Joe i can't she said it is that simple but im not sure im undecided.When we talk and i say i g2g she like flips out starts using crying emotes saying she doesn't want me to go. stuff like that. but should i ask her again or just let it go? and does she like me or is she just messing with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): It seams like she really does care about you and she isnt sure whether she wants to take it to the next level just yet. She is probably just worried if things dont work out or if it will be more complicated once you two start going out. She appreciates your friendship and doesnt want to lose it. I think you should keep talking to her, try to flirt with her once in a while, but dont get too serious or direct. Show her how much you care about her and how much she means to you, and hopefully she will finally decide on whether she really does want to be with you and you can take it from there. Try to just be patient for now and accomodating to her feelings and emotions.
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reader, Omegahero09 +, writes (9 September 2009):
 Hm I would say that she does in fact 'like you.' Or at least, have some kind of attraction for you. Thing is though, LDRs are tricky, so that may be what is on her mind. Bring that one up and see what she says. In any case, we do know that she wants you around. Which is a good sign.
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