A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met this foreign guy on Internet and we've been chatted online on and off for about 1 year.At first,he wrote me for asking a language partner and we just talked about life after that.I think we both know quite a lot about each other because romance wasn't involved and we were quite frank.He told me he once had a family but it didn't work out.But this year,he first invited to his country(not his own country but somewhere he works in).He honestly told me he wanted a family again and wanted to know whether we could hit it up and move on to another relationship.He admits that I'm farely young for him but I have to admit that he's that kind of guy I admire,say much older than me,challenging,manly and generous.He keeps inviting me and promises to take on all the financial problem my trip makes.Not that I literally want to get a free trip,nor I can afford the visa expense.But I'm touched.He sends me email almost everyday.But I'm a little confused,he's been working in German,US,Switzerland and South Africa,how could he not get a decent girlfriend?I mean,he has so many chances out there and he doesn't need to pay attention to a far away normal girl like me.Sometimes I hatemyself being so shallow.How could I like him back just because he likes me first and made the first move.And I didn't have any serious relationship before,it's like I'm so pathetic that I have to seek for an invisible lover online.Please tell me how I should sort it out.
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reader, AlexCM  +, writes (3 September 2009):
your not pathetic. many people use the internet too try and find a partnet!
but i must express the dangers of meeting people off the internet. and the fact that its in a another conutry.!
if you are very sure that you want too meet this guy then tell him that you want him to come and see you. if he feels strongly enough about you then he will come to you!
please dont feel you have too go to another country to see him! by sending this email you have proved you have doubts! dont doo it! good luck honey xx
A
female
reader, AlexCM +, writes (3 September 2009):
your not pathetic. many people use the internet too try and find a partnet!
but i must express the dangers of meeting people off the internet. and the fact that its in a another conutry.!
if you are very sure that you want too meet this guy then tell him that you want him to come and see you. if he feels strongly enough about you then he will come to you!
please dont feel you have too go to another country to see him! by sending this email you have proved you have doubts! dont doo it! good luck honey xx
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