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writes:I need help, asap if poss please....I need to know if it's possible to fall in love with someone after only meeting them once and talking online?also, i need tips on how to play hard to get?help on both will be much appreciated :)x Reply to this Question
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reader, TryingToFindHome +, writes (6 September 2009):
hahaha Are u shore we haven't met!? lol I'm in the same situation, I've just met this amazing girl and after only knowing her for an 1hr I really felt a connection with her, and we have briefly msg'd eachover online etc.My advice to you from a guys perspective is, don't play TOO HARD to get, the harder you play the more us guys get confused, and you don't want that special guy to be unsure with you. That said don't be a breeze or a easy pushover, just show him your interested as you naturally will, but then say next time you meet up he asks you out, don't say 'Yes' immediately, tell him you'll think about it. It show's your in control and makes him worship you more when a couple hours later when you tell him yes, it makes him feel so lucky that you said 'Yes' and ensures he'll respect you more. In my mind that is 'playing hard to get' but in a nice way.One thing I personally find really sexy, is when a girl is really flirty and forward yet the next day is cold/normal, it makes the guy go crazy for her, wanting to get back to how it was the other time/day, making him respect you and it makes him have to prove to u that he's good enough to earn a space in your heart.Good luck darling ;) Let's hope I'm as lucky as you've been/feel.
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