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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Why does he keep disappearing on me? Is there something he's hiding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I met someone online a couple of months back and was surprised to find that we clicked almost instantly. From our very first conversation, we were chatting daily for hours. A couple of days later, he shared that he had broken up with a long-term ...

I want my best friends wife, I already had her friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I need help.... I find my friend's wife attractive and I am afraid that I desire her.... We were watching a game few years ago and when our team scored,everybod was jumping, congrulating each other and me and her hugged each other...It was s...

How can I keep our love alive...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - When you're in a long relationship and you think your lover is falling out of love with you, what should you do to make him stay in love with you?...

My boyfriend has kept his online dating profile, is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and its going really great though he used to have an internet dating profile which he told me about but he still uses it. He says he doesnt go to pick up girls but just to check out the 'scene' to ...

He's very shy and I'm going to have to be aggressive but unsure what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Hello, people. :) I have a crush on a guy who is in a few of my classes. I can't exactly say what it is that attracts me to this guy; I genuinely don't know exactly what it is. I added him on facebook and myspace; we really do have lots of t...

Need help with an English guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - i'm an asian expat in china. i broke up with my ex 7months ago but we have a 1year old kid so we still talk but everything is just about our kid. now here's the prob. i met this english guy in a social networking site and we had been talking ...

Do I have any hope of a reconciliation for a third time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Do I have any hope of a reconciliation for a third time? In reference to my last post... cutting a long story short we met last year online, Long distance etc we split up first time coz he wasn't ready etc... I knew how I felt really loved him...

Does no sex mean no call???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hi.. this past weekend I went on my date that I met online. He was very nice, I was a little nervous.. he was very confident (he's used to dating) he said he enjoyed my company... we met for coffee, we talked, and joked. He is a straight shooter... ...

I found out my boyfriend has been cheating. Should I take him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I been with my bf for 4 months. I love him more than anything, supported him through everything, helped him a little through his financial problems. Anyway, I kinda always been a jealous gf but never checked through his personal things.(I see him ...

To blow or not to blow?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Ive done alot of cyber sex in my day (not too proud either) and lately a guy that i have been talking to for several months now is talking pretty seriously with me as in a relationship...we've never cybered but we do talk openly about sexual ...

I'm dating a guy but I'm not sure if he's after more or just another notch in his belt, how do I figure it out!? Advise please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - So I'm active on an adult website and enjoy the privacy of participating on the site without the pressure of meeting someone. I chatted with a New Guy on and off for about 3 weeks and decided to meet him the other day. We immediately hit ...

Lately I've been paranoid about my long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been really worried about my boyfriend. I feel like I have an unfounded fear... a couple of weeks ago I tried to break up with him and after I started talking to him I realized that he really does love me when previously I had been ...

The ex or the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Tonight I have set up a date with a person I met online approx 3 weeks ago..We hit it off via phone and we text when we have time. He has his own business so he works long hours, but he finds time to date. He is looking for that special woman......

I suspect my girlfriend is having cybersex behind my back, am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - It's a long story, I've been with my girlfriend for the last 6 months, we have an internet relationship and we have met up about 10 times (we live an hour away from each other). We love each other to bits but I suspect her of having cybersex...

Any good tips for online dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I turned 22 a couple of weeks ago. I've decided to try this online dating malarkey now. basically, how do i present myself in the best possible yet most honest light, and have a chance of finding someone? i always used to associate online ...

Why won't admit he hasn't time for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I need help! I met a guy online about 4 months ago. We met up and he seemed really keen. We met up a couple more times usually on a Friday night or a Saturday night. We have never been out on a date and apart from texting each other everyday...

He said we'd talk about it when we were at his house or mine!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - okay so iv been texin this boy for almost 5months and we've been meeting but we have never spoke about our relation ship, we were texin the other night and i asked him what he wanted but when he answered he asked if we could talk about it another ...

How do I make sense of this?

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12 November 2009 (M) - How do you deal with someone online who states they like you very much and want to get to know you better they tell you they want to talk more later on in the day but are in a need to go out now. Then you see them online and say hi, they don't r...

I feel like we need to take the next step (i.e., phone calls and/or meet) but how do I initiate this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I was referred to a paid online dating site by a close friend and have met someone that I am very interested in...he's charming, funny, well-educated, etc. Because I am knew to the online dating scene, I have a couple of questions. I am...

We fell in love on the internet and want to meet. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - i've known this guy for 3/4 months and we are in love with each other and would do anything for each other. But there is only one problem. we met on the internet and we live so far away. were in the same country but about 10 hours away from ...

Should I continue with the 22 year old or with the 15 year old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Hi cupid, am a young guy of 22.am very grateful to been with you here. my question is just relationship question. i met this girl on the internet about three months ago, she's from Philippine and am from Nigeria. she's the same age with me. i love ...

Attracted to a guy on the internet - do I make a move even though we have never met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

9 November 2009 (?) - Hey, I need help with this, I don't want to confide in anyone 'cause it seems outrageous but I'm stuck with these feelings and it's really unconfortable. See, I've been chatting with this guy on MSN for about a year or two now, and we were frie...

Hubby watches women live on their web cams and chats with them - is this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I was hoping for a bit of advice on the subject of the boundries between porn, and cheating. I would especially appreciate a male perspective, although all answers are welcome. The problem is this. My husband, as like a lot o...

How can this girl who told me she loved me break it off so out of the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - so a couple years ago I met a girl online. I would say she's perfect in my eyes but that would be an understatement. needless to say I loved her so much. I don't know how I could when I met her over the internet. we talked every day. via text or ...

He wants to marry me but chats online to women..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Cupid Aunt, I (45) have been in a steady relationship with a wonderful guy, about 9 years older than me, for about two years. We are compatible in every way possible. He has even asked me to marry me and we have made future plans. However,...

I like her and need tips on how to handle myself, on our first date...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - i've known this girl through an online social site for 3 months. she's a lesbian and is also the first and only girl i have ever liked, and even though we have never met but my gut feeling tells me that if we both pursue further we might end up ...

Should I meet an Online Friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

7 November 2009 (F) - Advice on Meeting this guy... I met a guy pretty randomly online about 3 months ago. He IMed me, and we just sort of introduced ourselves and we started talking. We kept talking acouple times a week, we would get on webcam and talk, but the so...

Is this a stupid idea or can love really be worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

7 November 2009 (M) - hia all, i havnt been on here in ages and also accidently posted this as a forum message, not a question because i had forgotten how to use the site lol. recently i have met a girl via a site you wouldnt think you would meet on and we have been...

Should I see my ex and finally find out if this is real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I looked for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then. I don't know why I looked for him, he was my high school bf and ...

How can I forget the emotional abuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i met this guy off the internet 9 years ago. we chatted online and e-mailed each other for about a year. he would say sweet romantic things to me, and i thought he loved me. we went on a date, and had an argument about money. he stood me up for our ...

I might want more... Eventually

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - hey. Well straight to the point. I've been talkin dirty over the net to this guy i've known for quite a long time. We've been good mates for a couple of years now. So, We're planning to get down and dirty, sometime soon in the future. But i ac...

Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me...

Why do I find it hard to make conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - hi, in the past i have had boyfriends, but nothing has ever come of them. i have also met two people who i met online, we got on great chatting, and when we decided to meet up it just was a disaster, mainly me, i found that in person i couldnt talk ...

Suddenly he just wants to be friends. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Ok - here is my problem. I met a wonderful man about 3 months ago - we shared alot of information - by email, texting and talking on the phone. He asked me out on a date and alot of questions about how I felt about his current situation (having ...

Does this guy want me only if my friends like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - im really not sure what to do.. i met this guy online and he lived outa state at the time. We were talking for like a month or so and every thing was fine we were getting along great.. he's been here for a week and a half, ive met him and everything ...

I am supposed to be meeting this man for the first time, but he restarted his online dating profile!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i met a man on an online dating site almost three mnths ago and we have been txting by phone ever since. he made big deal bout deactivating his account because he didnt need it anymore coz he fond me.of course i didnt believe that and gla i didnt ...

My husband says I am over-reacting to his online affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been together for 15 years and we have 2 little girls we only recently got married in March, we have grown up together he's been my best freind my lover my everything. 5 weeks ago i came home from work to find him asleep on ...

MEN: What are some suggestions about activites for a first meet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i am meeting a man saturday night that i have been texting or the last 3 months. he is living an hour away and is going back home that night. i really need some suggestions as to what we could do on that night; where to go, etc. a few answers fom ...