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writes:i'm an asian expat in china. i broke up with my ex 7months ago but we have a 1year old kid so we still talk but everything is just about our kid. now here's the prob. i met this english guy in a social networking site and we had been talking on msn for almost 2 months now. the last time we talked ol was 11 straight hours and during that time i told him i have fallen inlove with him and he said he feels the same way. he's in the UK and i'm in china but he said we'd work things out. he said he'd send me a message soon and once he gets his new phone he'd set it up for international calling so he could call me anytime he wants to but it's been 3weeks now and i haven't heard anything from him. i know it's sounds funny but we haven't really met we just talk on msn but we've seen each other on cam. i don't know if he really loves me but i am so much in love with him. help what should i do i can't sleep well i can't eat well and i can't concentrate with my job. i'm 23 he's 28 and he knows i have a kid.
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reader, Bubuvn  +, writes (1 December 2009):
I just tell you please do not believe in on line relationship till you meet him in real life and you visit UK and see where he lives.
I met a cheater and lier from Rochester NY throught internet. He told me he was so much in love with me and visited me in my country twice. Finally I found out he was marrieds with 3 kids.
I hope my lesson will let you open your eyes and do not trust people on internet. He will say what ever you want to hear.
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reader, mr motivator  +, writes (28 November 2009):
You never will know his true situation and status until you meet him in the flesh
He could be married with a kid, and all of a sudden he has realised how much he has been neglecting his family.
Alternatively maybe he is short on finance at the moment
Ideally you should aim for a closer distance relationship until you know for sure that he is what he says he is
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