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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

He's been having long private secret lunches with drinks with a co-worker! Is this forgivable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Please help me. My husband has been having private lunches with a woman 10 years younger than him. The lunches turn I to four hours with drinks and no other coworkers are included. He has been doing this for four years and kept it a secret. We ...

I'm more in love than her should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (M) - I Love my wife very much but she does not love me like I love her. She says she may never love me that way again. Should I just walk away? It hurts to love someone who won't love the same....

Help me with comfort and strength! My marriage is so troubled!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3281 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello guys. I am one stressed woman . For the past year i hv been suffering from post natal depression after i gv birth last year. No i am getting back to normal but my relationship is stressful, my husband has been cheating on me go the past year ...

He said he's, "marrying me because I want it and he doesn't".Is marriage still a good idea, in the circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Im 28 years old and yave been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We have a 10 year old and a 6 year old. We are best friends and cant be away from each other for more than a few hours a day. We are in love. He never proposed but gave me a ring on my 2...

My husband hates me while I'm working, then doesn't care about me when I lose my job! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3284 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I'm a newcomer to this country and I'm having troubles with finding a new job and my marriage. I got here few months ago, found a job which was my dream job since college. Bad news, got laid off weeks ago. It is a terrible feeling not having a job ...

Is my husband abusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - He never hit me, true. But I came to realize that even though I am not afraid of him, I do (or refrain from doing) certain things to avoid his reaction, be it impatience, lecturing or anger. Let's start with anger, he yells when he's mad. I hate tha...

I don't have a job and my husband makes me feel bad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3286 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi I can't find a way out of this situation. My husband and I were so in love but first we moved in together everything went south... I stay at home because I cant find a job and he is the only one working so because we had the same studies I feel ...

Was my husband addicted to talking n texting escorts while on the other side showing. Blissfully happy husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Please give me some advice. My husband and I have been happily married for eight years . We are very close we talk about everything we have a great relationship our sex life is great. In fact I usually want to have sex more than once a week and ...

How dare my husband ask for a threesome after he had an affair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, earlier this year I found out my husband had an affair. We are working it out, however, my husband has asked me to have a threesome. I feel like it's a common fantasy for men but at this time of working things out, I don't know what to ...

What can I do? I'm feeling trapped in my own relationship. His depression is wearing me out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I decided to pour my heart out and tell my partner exactly how I feel. His depression and his secrecy of our relationship from his ex is getting too much for me and I had a moment of weakness and my emotions just outpoured. He promised how he ...

What needs to happen to effect some improvement in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

16 November 2015 (M) - Dear cupid, It's been 3 years since we married, and we are together for about 6 years. I confess I wasn't very thrilled when she pressured me to get married. I guess I don't see the point in one getting married when a stable and healthy relat...

Has my wife had an affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

16 November 2015 (M) - Well to cut it short basically im married and have been for 5 years. One day my wife left my house as she says she was getting a few bits and peices from the shop and yet was gone 3 hours. On return she couldnt wait to get out the house to go to ...

How do I make peace with my father in law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

14 November 2015 (M) - My wife and I have two kids (4yrs and 1yr). We separated a year ago. We were having constant arguments which turned physical a few times. We have recently started to communicate. We both have taken our times and have gone through separate ...

I can't shake the feeling that I met the wrong sister first!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3295 days ago

12 November 2015 (M) - I have a moral issue I need help dealing with. The story begins with my current wife. We met in massage therapy school, you could say we were really "hands on" in class, and started dating early in the first semester of school. Before we were off...

Is there a future past my husband's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - I never thought I'd be in a bad marriage, but I am! After only 4years! Last month I found messages from my husband to other women telling them he loved them. Naturally I left him and after a few days came back to him to talk it through and for our ...

Do I leave my abusive husband? I want to but I'm also afraid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3295 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - My husband has been abusing me for 4 years, he even went to prison for his abuse before. I am now at the point where I have lost all my self esteem and confidence and he is really trying to break me down now very badly. I feel so weak and like I c...

I have trust issues and I believe my husband doesn't tell me things but now a co-worker is coming between us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3299 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - I should start by laying out some of the facts- Fact one: My husband and I have been together for ten years. Fact two: I believe without hesitation that he loves me. Fact three: I have some pretty deep rooted trust issues. I have done so...

Is there any hope for us, despite how badly he's treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3298 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - My name is Kate,I'm 42 and my husband,Stuart is 31 .We've been married for 8 years now but we've been a couple for 13. We don't have kids because he never wanted any.Our relationship has always been difficult due to our age gap as well as our ...

I want some me time and some us time but my husband doesn't seem to get it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3299 days ago

8 November 2015 (F) - Hello everyone. I'm in need of some advice on how to handle or approach this situation that I found myself in. First off, I'm married to a very wonderful man. He's a true gentleman with a heart of gold. We have two beautiful amazing daughters ...

I asked my wife about the size of her ex's dick and now I am unhappy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3245 days ago

8 November 2015 (M) - I made asked my new wife about the size of her husband's dick. She happily discribed it and how she enjoyed it. Mine is shorter. We live togather now and I envy her ex. Her children are with us and since then I have not open up to her kids. I feel ...

I'm comparing myself to husband's ex and have feelings of falling short!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

6 November 2015 (F) - I'm new and have one main issue that's been going pretty much since I started dating my hubby a few years ago. He is sweet, smart, hard working, adores me and has never done anything to make me feel insecure. In full disclosure this is strictly an ...

Why does my husband always defend his mom but won't back me up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3298 days ago

5 November 2015 (F) - Hello aunties, The past year has been stressful, hurtful, and downright annoying for me. The reason I am experiencing these emotions is because my husband has been neglecting to acknowledge my feelings but sticks up for other women who are go...

I just want him to show he still cares, is there still hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

5 November 2015 (F) - I really dont know where exactly to start. My husband and I have been married for almost four years but have been together for 11 years. We have two children together a five year old and a 11 month old. Im a stay at home mom and my husband works a ...

How do I out all the evil without losing my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

4 November 2015 (M) - my problem started last christmas when the guy my wife used to go with moved in next door to her sister, he was her first ever lover when she was 16 and as far as i was concerned he lived in london and had done for 20 odd years this was not the case ...

I think my husband is cheating with a co-worker and I no longer believe anything he says

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

4 November 2015 (F) - Last December I was in the car with my husband and the girl from his works office rang. They were talking for a bit then I heard what sounded like, dont forget to get me something nice for Christmas. My husband said she didn't say that and said, ...

Marriage problems and cheating and now I am torn between two options. How can this be resolved?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - I had an affair starting July 2014 got caught Feb 2015 Admitted affair to my husband of 26yrs. We talked and I decided I would move in with other man. But he made me wait until Mar 2015 so it was awful for my husband with me in the home until th...

I can’t see myself with anyone else. But I need to move on. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - Where to start? 40+ years old. Married for 18 years. During my marriage there were a few strings of infidelity. A lot of my family in and out of the house. We took care of a lot of people but never was able to focus on us. I know this a...

My husband just left after bad mouthing me to our children. Any advice for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - My husband just left after bad mouthing me to our children. Ive been unwell for almost 3 weeks.. my cough has turned into bronchitis. Ive been feeling horribly miserable. When i first started out with the cough, i was still working out and ...

Can you suggest for me a good way to go forward, so that this situation here gets little easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

3 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I am in a middle of a triangle love which is a deep one. I can't decide what should I do now. I love a girl, who is of my age. Some unfortunate things happened with her 5 years ago. When she was 15, she was committed to a relationship wit...

What are my options? My husband has been calling me horrible names and acting like an jerk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - Hi Tonight my husband called me a "f^^^ing lazy c^^t" , says i never want to do anything, and that he was going downstairs, sleeping downstairs and moving downstairs for good. I told him he cannot speak to me that way and if he wants to live dow...

Why can't my husband please me? What is with all the porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

2 November 2015 (F) - ok here it goes i need some advice on this please i dont know what to do? I have been with this guy for a long long time and things werent ever that great or so i became to realize. WE never had sex that much and it didnt bother me that much cause i ...

Wife's drunken antics took a turn for worse, and yet I am somehow the bad guy. What did I do wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

1 November 2015 (M) - To understand the question I'm asking, I must go over in detail what has transpired for the past couple weeks. My wife and I have been married for 6 months, and have been together for 5 years. She has been married before, and had a son with a person ...