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female
age
30-35,
*OVERSHURT
writes:Hi I can't find a way out of this situation. My husband and I were so in love but first we moved in together everything went south... I stay at home because I cant find a job and he is the only one working so because we had the same studies I feel less fortunate to not be able to find a job and I find also his actions towards me are getting more and more disrespectful like I am his made or something ... he doesn't come home until later at night and it's been a couple of months this way.. I don't have friends in this city and we live far away from the city also, can someone please tell me how to approach this situation cause we don't talk about it ... thank you.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (22 November 2015):
If you are trying hard to find a job and you cant ,then its not your fault.But would you consider doing a course to better your chances of getting a job.[1] Attend an in class day course-which im sure you might get a grant[money].[2] Do a on-line free course.This way your husband will know that your putting all your effort in aquiring a job.However the situation with your husband at the moment will have to be discussed between you both.Tell him how your feeling.Ask his advise on finding a course or job or both.If he will not discuss matters with you.Would you consider asking him to go with you a counsellor and talk things out.Maybe he is feeling the pressure of being the only one working.Everything is so expensive that maybe he feels the strain of money worries.It would be important to sort this out SOONER rather then later. Best luck NORA B.
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