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writes:I made asked my new wife about the size of her husband's dick. She happily discribed it and how she enjoyed it. Mine is shorter. We live togather now and I envy her ex. Her children are with us and since then I have not open up to her kids. I feel that i will not satisfy her until i get an enlargement. Is it natural to feel this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks,for the answers. Another question is that everytime i ask her,to make love she says she wants to rest. She tells me to read up about women's feelings. She says that i have to do house,chores to make her happy so we can make,love easily. I asked if she did the same,to her ex,and,she says she,doesn't want to answer my question. I feel that it is,because of my situation that makes her,reluctant. She always wants to make love in the morning when i want to make love in the night and rest. Is she telling me the truth? Did she ever had those feelings in her first marriage? I want to divorce her now. Your advice will be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your honest and positive response. Much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2015): She shouldn't have told you that. If a partner asked me about an ex's penis I would say, "I'm not going to answer that question" and move on. She should have known better and it almost makes me wonder if she was upset with you for some reason and wanted to hurt you.Regardless, you have three choices:1. Divorce her (seems silly, no?)2. Spend the rest of your life worrying about your dick size.3. Get over it.It's normal to feel upset and inadequate, but you must do everything possible to get over this as quickly as possible. Seeing a counselor might help. The best thing to do is to build your self-esteem by doing things like exercising, eating healthy, etc. Be able to look yourself in the mirror and say, "I look good today". If you are worried about your sexual performance, read some books on technique (like "She Comes First") so that you can feel more confident in that aspect of your life. Finally, do not EVER ask your wife for more details about her ex(es) ever again. No good will ever come if it.
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