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Archived questions from: October, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Can a man commit to just his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

30 October 2014 (F) - wow... its been a couple years of being a part of this site.. i look back at the past questions i have asked. lol... but here i am again. i have feelings that my amazing husband is cheating on me. is here such a thing of a man to be committed to one ...

Is our sex life suffering because of what he's doing on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

30 October 2014 (F) - My husband comments on my clothes if he thinks I look sexy in them, then there are days he doesn't even notice anything about me. Another issue is, he gets turned on by me, starts getting intimate, touches, undresses me, he gets sexually aroused,...

Violence and lack of respect in our marriage -- how do we work on this on our own?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

30 October 2014 (F) - Once in awhile my husband and I get into some real physical fights, which is NOT acceptable, I know that. Last night it started with my husband coming home after travelling for a week (I was alone with my toddlers), and he noticed a crack in the ...

I'm in a badly sex-deprived long term marriage!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

29 October 2014 (M) - I've been married for 22 years, and feel terribly sexually starved by my partner. If I don't ask (often beg, demand or cajole) for sex, I'll almost never get it. Once I tried waiting for three months, to see if she would think of it. She didn't! ...

How can I deal with the pre-cum that occurs, despite my best efforts to deal with fact I'm easily aroused by pretty girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

26 October 2014 (M) - hi, i am single man, 29 years old. i never had a sex or even any kind of relationship. please i don't know why i easily get erection. so, i got this idea— when i see a nice girl or think about sex, i relax my body and my penis just to prevent erec...

My husband is being secretive with his cell phone and is not affectionate any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

25 October 2014 (F) - I am a lady aged 41, my husband is 44,being together for5 years now,our relationship was perfect the past 3 yrs,but now he is secretive especially on his cellphone,he can't even put it down when he goes out or to bathroom, when he charges it, is ...

How do I bring up trying to have a more spicy sex life? My husband isn't very open!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

25 October 2014 (F) - I am trying to spice up my sex life with my husband. I yearn for a exciting, sensual, heart thumping sex life with my husband. I would be so turned on if my husband would masterbate in front of me while I masterate for him. How do I even begin to ...

Is this a normal part of aging for men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

22 October 2014 (F) - My spouse is a few years older. We have an active sex life, but however, there are times that he has a hard time reaching an orgasm. Is this a normal part of aging for men? Is there any lubricant or any recommendation that will assist him in ...

I no longer fancy my wife

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

22 October 2014 (M) - Hi all, I am in my 50's been married 25 years got two great kids , grown up, mootgage payed blah blah but just hate my life My wife does a lot, cook, wash, iron that's it, a housemaid She is lazy, layback, won't communicate with me. My life is c...

I love my husband but I've fallen out of lust with him. Will the feelings come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

21 October 2014 (F) - Hello everyone Thanks for offering advice I've been married for 10 years like everyone we've had a few ups and downs but the bottom line is we love each other very much and I'd say my hb is my best friend, again like many relationships ou...

My wife's libido is low after having our baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

20 October 2014 (M) - I am sorry if this is an old issue - I have looked over previous thread but everyone is unique eh? Two years ago I married my wife who is considered by all who meet her, male and female, to be a particularly attractive and 'sexy' woman. Las...

I think my husband is preparing for a divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - Can someone advise me please? Ive done nothing wrong and he is the one giving me the silent treatment, but he left a receipt out for solicitors fees. I think he's divorcing me!!!(he;s been working out figures too and leaving them around, not hidd...

Is there anything that can be done to increase the friction when my wife and I have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - I am a married male in my early 40s. When my wife and I have sex she gets so wet and slippery that after a while there is almost no friction. The other night I couldn't even feel anything to the extent that I lost my erection. I had to pull out ...

After I married her I found out she had worked as a hooker. Can I make this marriage work? Or should I divorce her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - A year and half ago i happen to know a girl through her relative. She was living in (Country 2) and i was living in (country 3). But we both were from (Country 1) She was there since she was 8 or 9 living with her parents and two siblings. ...

Is it possible to stay married, and be happy, even though you are not romantically interested in your husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

17 October 2014 (F) - My husband and I are trying to work things out after many months of suffering because of my affair. I have hurt him so bad that I realized he loved me after believing we were just living as roomrates which I got so used to. My problem is that ...

How can I get him to understand that we not in the same place sexually, so that I can put an end to my affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

16 October 2014 (F) - I'm only interested in advice, not judgement. If you don't have anything constructive to say, you should not even bother responding. My husband and I been married for 8 years, and have a 5 year old. We were together for 2 years before that. ...

Should I tell my wife about the dream where I slept with another woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

16 October 2014 (M) - I had a very explicit and elaborate dream in which I had sex with a woman who was not my wife. I would never dare tell my wife such things except that this particular dream wasn't sexual in nature. The sex part was just a small (but important) part ...

How do I tell my LDR husband that he should have limitations on contact with other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3718 days ago

15 October 2014 (F) - Hello everyone ;) Hello i have long distance love affair. He lives in iceland and i live in the uk. Were been 5 years known each other he came here back and forth just to see me and then now Recently i visited there and got married. We decide...

I got married less than a month ago and I think it was a mistake! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

14 October 2014 (F) - I just got married less than a month ago and I am having all of these feelings and thoughts that it isn't right. That I made a mistake. He isn't the one. I feel so lost because I have been with him for over 5 years... since I was 19 years old. Don't ...

My husband says he's cool with me having relations with other women. How have others handled a similar situation as this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

13 October 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have had many ups and downs but despite these we are still together and communicate with one another very openly and honestly. Lately things have been a bit rubbish and he hasn't been very attracte...

Torn between my ex husband and the other guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 October 2014 (F) - I am torn between my ex husband and my new guy. Here is the story, My life overal was not too bad but I have been unhappy from some issues which my ex wouldn't do anything about it. The main issue was him being over passive and his family over ...

I have a lot of anger towards him. We both shout at each other a lot. How can this be resolved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - My husband has been shouting at me and sometimes hitting me and calling me lots of names. I have put up with it, now I feel like a very angry person and I shout back at him a lot and I can not speak to him nicely and even when he tries to be nice ...

Why does my husband continue to destroy me like this? What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

11 October 2014 (F) - Please please help me, im so hurt, demoralised and depressed, i really am breaking down. Ok, so, we've hardly spoken for 4 weeks now. I only speak in reply to him when i am spoken to, that way, he cant accuse me of prying or accusing him!! After 20...

I feel really angry because he treated me as a lesser person!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3725 days ago

10 October 2014 (F) - My husband has gone to visit his mother in a different country, I know she does not like me and wants her son to stay with her,as then he can pay for his family there. Before he went he would say he misses his country and his mother. He would be on ...

My wife can't cope with me being a nude model.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

10 October 2014 (M) - I often see posts from guys saying their wife/gf wants to be a nude model or stripper and wondering how and if they can handle it, but I have the opposite problem, and I've not seen it here before. I'm a guy in his early sixties. For the past couple ...

Am I holding on to this marriage for nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

10 October 2014 (F) - I was 8 months pregnant with our third child when I found out my husband was cheating on me. We reconciled I though. After I had our daughter on his birthday 2 weeks later he left me and moved in with her ( He did support us financially the whole ...

Why did she marry me if she had no attraction for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

9 October 2014 (M) - Wife suddenly tells me she has no attraction towards me... According to her this has happened 2 years ago. She stayed on to hope things will improve. I am devastated. She never really pull up major quarrels with me till she drop this bomb ...

He only lasts 3 minutes in bed so what did he do for 30 minutes with the prostitutes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F) - I'm still suffering emotionally and mentally in finding out about my husband going to prostitutes across 2 years , he was visiting a brothel , he says he was going about 1 month and says we had problems , then he says that it's because he was ...

I'm really down over a family sex affair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

8 October 2014 (F) - I was working my normal Sunday shift and was able to get out early. When I came home I saw my sister in laws car parked in my driveway. I thought it was odd she was at our house,then thought it was probably my brother who was there. I went inside ...

Do I have a problem, and should I confront my husband about it? Am suspicions that he's cheating, but have no proof.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 October 2014 (F) - A few months ago I posted about my husband coming home from a branch office visit for day (the branch was closing down) and I saw long scratch marks down his arms and small bruises around his wrists. They scabbed over and the marks were there for ...

Does it make me a bad wife to exclude my husband from my social life and travelings?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 October 2014 (F) - Doesn't make a bad wife that I don't want to travel with my husband anymore, and more...I don't really want to involve Him in my socialiZing anymore also. We are married for 23 years. I married very very young right after high school, had a ch...

If I have a healthy libido then why does my husband need to masturbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - I have discovered that my husband has started masturbating and lying about it. I feel puzzled because I have a healthy libido and he knows it. Why would he do this? Is this a sign of trouble ahead? We have been married for two years. ...

Does there come a point when you think there is more bad than good in a marriage? Can things actually turn around when one person is adamant that he is always right and blameless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I guess I am scratching my head with my situation and really could do with some objective input. I'm married to a guy who is 13 years my senior. We have been together for 10 years and are complete opposites. When thi...

Married 7 years and cannot conceive. Have some to dread lovemaking. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - hi agony aunt, I've been married for 7 years and yet to conceive. I use to have a very high sexual libido but not any more. I now dread my husband's touch and talk of love making ,its affecting my marriage. what do i do?...

My Gf is not talking to me, and am I studying for the right reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

2 October 2014 (F) - I was seeking some guidance In regards to my relationship and study which I've just started. I started my first day of college yesterday, I loved the work but I don't like the college life because I'm too old, I'm a 24 year old woman sat with 1...

Living with my husband's family is putting stress on our marriage!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

1 October 2014 (F) - Hi Aunties,My relationship with my DH went from us being happy and ignorning all of the conflict around us, to him and I arguing about his parents. We live with his parents and sisters so we can save money for a house of our own. His father holds ...