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writes: My husband has gone to visit his mother in a different country, I know she does not like me and wants her son to stay with her,as then he can pay for his family there. Before he went he would say he misses his country and his mother. He would be on the skype to her 6 hours every day. And I would be ignored more or lesd. Now he is there he is ringing me and telling me to ring him back as it is expensive for him to ring. He is saying he does not like it there altough he,will stay a month. I just want to say what do you keep ringing me for, you missed your mum, you skyped her everyday for 6 hours so stop ringing me. Im not jealous I am just really angry that I was made to feel a lesser person to his mother and now hes there he is demanding my attention. And I dont want to give it. Any advice? Plus I know his mother will try and get him to stay there so they use him.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 October 2014):
 If he's the same age as you, then his parents can up to live 20 years longer. That's 2160 hours a year on skype time, times 20. If he is so afraid of his parents, then what gives him the authority to think of you as a lesser person? He probably has zero authority and assertiveness in his bone. If a person works full time then works 6 hours more at home, would you still want to date that man? They have a very unhealthy symbiotic relationship and he's so scared of breaking off of it. But he still wants a girlfriend perhaps because he hopes that you can give him an ultimatum, force him or rescue him from this situation. I don't know why you still want to be with him so I don't know if the advice is to help you cope or what to say to him back. It seems his time is so consumed by his mom that he's not ready to hear what your feelings are.
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