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36-40,
*aycee28
writes:I am trying to spice up my sex life with my husband. I yearn for a exciting, sensual, heart thumping sex life with my husband. I would be so turned on if my husband would masterbate in front of me while I masterate for him. How do I even begin to ask or bring it up? Keep in mind he is not very open with me...for instance I sent him some naughty pics of me to get him excited or so I thought and he never even acknowledged them:( HELP!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 October 2014):
 Rent/buy a porn video and make him watch with you naked(bet him he won't get aroused)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 October 2014):
 I think he didn't acknowledge them because he knew you were asking for something that doesn't exist in him or it's not necessary for him. He feels that just being himself should be exciting enough for you. He feels inadequate that you always need that extra stuff. If he won't do bdsm, 365 positions a year, tantra sex then just use your mind and your own imagination. Pretend you are a call girl and he's a shy customer. Pretend you are a different woman every time.
If he shuts down and stopped having sex with you then it's a different issue. Otherwise I think it's lucky to have a man who's happy in bed than a man who's not satisfy with just one woman, or looks at porn a lot. So cherish that fact he loves the way you are.
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