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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Our relationship is falling apart since he moved away, is it even worth trying anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend went away for college to play baseball and our relationship is falling apart, is it even worth the heart ache to continue trying? We dated for 2 years in high school, then all of a sudden he broke up with me the summer before we...

How do I break up with my LDR boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - We've been together for over a year, and because of this, I believe a text might be really bad. But the problem with that is that it is a long distance relationship, so I can't meet up with him to do it. Also, we very rarely talk on the phone. We're ...

I was supposed to see a therapist. Is it time I now considered this option again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hello all agony aunts and uncles, I need your advice yet again! Long story short, I moved hours away from my finance to attend college. I was good for the first semester, but then I got really depressed (randomly) and withdrew from the fall sem...

My sad and depressed moods are affecting my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 November 2012 (?) - Hi everyone, I have been feeling sad and depressed for the past year and i don't know how to deal with it, i am always moody even my period has stopped coming regularly. I have started a new job about 4 months ago however its a long distance wi...

I'm finally ready to move in with him after a year and a half of long distance relationship. Now he says he doesn't think we're right for each other.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for a year and a half. We have been very happy and planned to move in together. He has alway said he wanted to marry me and now that i am in a place to move in with him he has said he is not sure we are ...

Why is he not picking up my calls or calling me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf is not picking up his call for past 2 days. We didn't fight and I sent him couple of messages and no response for that too. I saw him online but he is not responding to my messages. I left voicemail. We are in LDR for 2 months and...

Is it wrong to have a relationship that's going nowhere?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I met a guy online, we chatted for a couple of years on and off and eventually we met up and started dating. Before we met I was never really interested in him romantically but in person he was charming and kinda grew on me. We've been together for ...

We dated long distance for two years. After finally meeting in person, he dumps me, and I can't seem to let him go.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I was in a long distance relation for about 2 years.. I really fell for this guy however he was so mean to me. We always argued and he would make me feel so low. However we did have some good times bt the bad definitely outweighed the good. To sum ...

Firstly, have I lost any chance with him? Secondly, after confessing my feelings our friendship has become very strained. If there is no hope, how do I salvage our friendship?

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28 November 2012 (F) - One of my good friends and I have feelings for each other. The problem is, he lives in a different country and things have been very difficult between us. Even though he lives in a different country, he comes to visit a lot because he is be...

Do you think he contacted me because he wanted to move on and close this door for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I met this man over a year ago after chatting online. We hit it off. He lives in another state but he flew in to meet with me and have dinner. We had a great time and he went home. He contacted me the next day to say he wanted to come back again ...

What am I supose to do here ? Don't want to be a part time girlfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - So im having some problems lately with my boyfriend that have escalated from his new job. Needless to say at the moment i am currently and unfortunatly unemployed something iv never experienced before as ive worked since i was 15. this is a trying...

How can we make this temporary LDR work? He says he hates texting and hardly ever has his phone on, and hardly ever calls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, Due to financial reasons me and my partner are currently living at home with our families, we have been together for three years. Its quite a distance apart, and with work its hard to see each other. This is why i am confused...

How do I build the love and trust again in a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, Ive been with my partner for nearly 3 years, i love him very much and want to make our relationship stronger. Since it has been our first proper relationship we've had a lot of ups and downs. And because of these we are now living ...

This ldr is giving me seconds thoughts, I feel sad, please advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

22 November 2012 (M) - dear friends, im in a ldr with an awesome girl, she is in germany and im in canada, i met her when she was taking a working holiday in canada for a year. i love her to bits and i belive she does too, we have been together only for 6 months, but in s...

I need help badly. I'm emotionally torn. Missing my Bf after his father said things that put him into a boys home. My health's been affected. How can I cope better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - Well, me and my boyfriend are very serious. I know I'm in love. Well my boyfriend's dad and him always fight and sometime fist fight. When they do his dad usually hits first, this time my boyfriend hit first because his dad called me a "fat...

I deleted my LDR guy, did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - Well, I started to like someone long distance on skype and he used to get upset if I was not able to speak to him for a while or was too busy and seemed to care. Well recently he had been distant with me, one word answers and really cold if lucky, ...

LDR is causing problems and I don't know where my boyfriend stands

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - After a relationship with a jerk I got this amazing bf.He is everything I wanted him to be. Unfortunately we are in 'your sunset my sunrise' far away places. Earlier it was fine but now with 6 months of LDR and things are getting ugly.We didn't h...

Can you trust a man who just lied to you about who he is? I feel like we are meant to be. Am I fooling myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - OK.. today I learned that the man I was dating in a LDR lied to me about who he was, where he was from, etc... he ended the relationship 2 months ago but he has been in contact with me over these two months because he said he really misses me and ...

Is this LDR viable? He assures me he loves and adores me. I'm having second thoughts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - I met online in January a doctor in Mexico and we became friends over email, he is intelligent and interesting and was Good company. I have been going through many very difficult and unusual family Challenges and I wanted to get away for a little...

Do you think I should ask her if we could chat online sometime?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

17 November 2012 (M) - So there's this girl I met on a religious retreat last weekend. I instantly took a liking to her, and we talked a few times. After the retreat ended, we became facebook friends. A few days ago, we started sending messages to each other. I know that ...

I love him so much. But is lack of money our real problem in this LDR? Or are there other things to consider?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - First off I will say that my friend of 8 years has told me he loves me for all of the things we have in common, values, beliefs, understanding and acceptance of each others past and present we were raised similar, everything . I love him to bits, ...

How can I stop worrying about my girlfriend when she goes out? She tends to drink too much and not remember what happened....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

15 November 2012 (M) - I’m currently dating a girl who’s a senior at the college I just graduated from, and we are, for this semester, doing a distance relationship. We see each other about once a month, though I have a job lined up near the college for the spring so the ...

Do we keep the baby and give up our dreams of going abroad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - Hi, it's the middle of the night and I can't sleep. I am 32 years old, just married to the most amazing man ever: we are very much in love. Today I found out I am pregnant, despite being on birth control (how is that even possible?). Anyway...

We cant be together because of the distance, but cant bear to be apart either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - Ok so here's my question.. Do I keep trying or do I give up? I met a wonderful man last year and we began dating, it was never easy as he lives 200 miles away but we managed to see eachother once a week for a year and things were great, we went on ...

Long Distance Love---will it fizzle out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - To start out, I'm currently not in a relationship but I am in love with someone. Here's a bit of a background, I was an expat in Asia and he was an exchange student. So the story begins like this... This past summer I met a beautiful Brazil...

How Do I or Should I ask him about us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - I spent a month with a guy this summer, before he left for school. We knew each other before then, but I was seeing someone else so we kept it to friends. However we started texting after my relationship ended and we found that we both really liked ...

How do I cope with boyfriend being 4 hours away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

12 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend wants to go to university that is about 4 hours or so away, and I don't know how to deal with it!!! I have jealousy issuses and I am easily depressed so I don't know how well I will deal with this. I new ways of copeing with that far ...

Broken up with her while deployed. She says I gave her too little too late. But why is she keeping my stuff, and should I have no contact with her or text her on her upcoming birthday?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

11 November 2012 (M) - Apologize for the length of this...Currently I am on deployment and won't be home for about 6 months. I met my ex girlfriend about 2 years and a few months ago. When I first started dating her I wanted to take things slow. I had been in another ...

My boyfriend moved away to attend school and I have become depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

11 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend moved away for schooling. He is about 3-4 hours away. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. We have been dating for about 5 months. He mostly went to make sure that we had a nice future together like nice house, wedding ...

We've known each other two months and he's already relying on me financially

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

11 November 2012 (F) - Hello friends, It's only about 2 months that I am in a relationship with this guy. Since, we are coming from different countries and I know how hard it is for such kind of relationship to work, I did not take our relationship seriously. However,...

Fantasised about best friend with boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F) - I have this amazing boyfriend. He cares and respect me a lot. We are amazing in bed and tried fantasizing together as we are in LDR for over 6 months. To keep the spark alive we try lot of different stuff and are vocal about it. Few days back I w...

Lack of contact with LDR boyfriend. Am I on the back burner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

10 November 2012 (F) - I have a history with my current boyfriend. We went to high school together and we were friends because we wanted to date each other, but I had a long-distance boyfriend at the time (I left him behind when I moved from California to DC) and he was ...

Whenever I try to flirt with him, he stops replying to my texts!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

10 November 2012 (F) - Hi! It's me, an aunt that hasn't been on in quite some time! (Oops, sorry!) And now I have a problem... I've never been good at flirting. In fact, you could say I'm even pretty clueless when it comes to flirting. I don't normally flirt, bec...

I don't want to be with my long distance B/f anymore, I feel he's a liar and I don't want to relocate for him. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

9 November 2012 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship, it's been long distance for 3 months but the whole relationship has been 5 months. My boyfriend never really texts me like he used to, he's changed and acts more like in a friend who's a girl. He won't reply back ...

Why Does He Feel He Has to give love up to protect his daughter from his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (F) - I was in a LDR for almost 8 months when he finally said he had to end it because it would prevent the pain from being worst. I met this man online...and I only had agreed to even chat with him because he was suppose to be relocating to the city I ...

The boyfriend or the ex? Which one do I love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

8 November 2012 (?) - so im currently in a long distance relationship. in the past my boyfriend has cheated , i had broken up with him but later on took him back. Now 4 my ex of 2years ago are speaking once again, i've ALWAYS had these strong feelings towards him that ...

Why had he changed? Why doesn't he care for my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4429 days ago

6 November 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship with this guy for 3 months now. In the beginning he was so sweet, texting me all the time, telling me " I love you so much, ur the the one I miss u so much .. I waiting on u here no matter how long ...

Dating 11 months and he hasn't said "I love you" yet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

4 November 2012 (F) - Hi All, I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now in a semi long distance relationship, we generally meet up every other week, the longest apart as been a month so in total Ive probably seen him for 4 months in total but we contact one a...