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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Is distance going to be an issue? Is she even interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - {Moderator note: two questions from the same source combined} I'm 17 and this weekend it was my little sisters christening so we had a lot of family and friends over. So I get talking to one of my mums old friends and she introduced me to to famil...

I don't know how far my BF has gone with this other girl, but its killing me. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I'm devastated. I have an LDR of 3.5 years and we were going to meet for the very first time in July. He went out two nights ago with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin's girlfriend's feelings fluctuates from hating to lovin...

I want to study in scotland to be with my boyfriend, but so many concerns. I need some advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I am in a LDR with my boyfriend who is back in Scotland, where is was born. He is 31 and I am 18. I want to go to Scotland to study at University, and also to start a life with him. But i am not sure what criteria i have to meet to do this. And i ne...

Long distance and sex toys, will a vibrator keep me 'loose'?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - hey Cupids. Basically I lost my virginity and I am now in a long distance relationship. I won't be seeing my guy for some time now. Would getting a vibrator help me from getting tight again and if so what would the best type of vibrator ...

Vacation Love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - First of all, it´s not a question, but just a comment about my situation, althought I accept comments... I´m Brazilian and I had been in South Africa in 2009 to study English for a few weeks. There, I met a guy and we became special friends....

Is this the beginning of the end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 10 happy months. We are in a committed long-distance relationship currently and we get along very well. However, I'm concerned with the amount of time he spends "pleasuring himself." Since we are so far away and ...

What did I do or say that was so wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Ok i was supposed to be spending the weekend with my boyfriend that lives out of town. i had plans on driving and getting him, its only four hours away and he text me and told me that he couldn't come because he said something came up with his son. ...

Does my ex girl friend in the country want to re-visit our relationship, despite our breakup?

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28 April 2011 (M) - Hi, well im looking for some advice about my ex gf. Five years ago i was working in the country for 6 months on a railway and while i was there i used to go into a shop there and i became friendly with the shop owner's daughter. Anyway to cut ...

Why do I keep dreaming this lovely dream? Is it simply because I wish that would happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago. He got depressed about things in his life and as a result said love and relationships are hard work and told me that he no longer wants it. But he wants us to be friends. Im quite devastated I love him so much and ...

Can too much sexual talk or sex put off your man and his perception of you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend. We are in a LDR and we have been trying to make it work. The only thing that bugs me is that I find myself in relationships where men like to talk dirty to me and I think my relationship is turning into that. I love sex a lot bu...

Love my girlfriend... Hate my girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm ...

What is the meaning of what he said to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I met a man on facebook and suddenly started to like each other. He lives very far from here and we are realistic about the few possibilities of meeting. The only thing I want to ask is this: one day he told me something that I couldn´t understand ...

Boyfriend's medicine is making him really crabby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Hello there! I'm visiting my LDR for the first time in a few months. Recently, he's gotten on this acne medication called Accutane, and after asking him why, he told me that he was worried that I might not like what I see. I reassured him tha...

I saved up all year to see my LDR girlfriend and now she wants to come here!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - i have a massive dilemma. so im in a ldr relationship with my gf. and weve been talking about me going to see her in the summer for about 5 months. she lives in america i live in england. im on a gap year. so it comes to 3 weeks before the trip and ...

We had a row and it has left a bad feeling between us now he is back in Germany, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hi, It was my birthday yesterday. My boyfriend is in Germany at the moment with work. I have exams in 10 days. Before he left a few weeks ago we agreed to celebrate my birthday after my exams. He is having a horrible time in Germany and tells me...

He is not the same as when we first met, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - How can i put this we met on a chat line and after two months of talking over the phone i went and seen him, i told him how i felt about him and everything because we just gotten that close to each but point of it all i sent the weekend together We ...

I'm nervous. Should I propose to my long distance girlfriend? Is it even the right time to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - I'm 31 and my girlfriend is 18. We've been together for five months, talk every day. I want to propose but don't know if it's too soon. I want her to come live with me in Canada, we've had long distance and I feel that makes us even closer. I'd like ...

I don't want to risk the friendship, but she might be "the one"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 April 2011 (M) - I need help and fast. I'll cut to the chase with this one: Boy meets girl, they become great friends and boy soon falls in love with girl. Lots of complications including distance and an age gap but boy goes out of way to make romantic gesture...

My long distance boyfriend dumped me when he got depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I am trying my hardest to get on with life right now but Im finding it quite hard. My long distance boyfriend dumped me 2 weeks ago. He got depressed and as a result he didnt care about anything or anyone. Then one day he woke up and realised how...

Is it worth it to keep up this long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I've met this guy online about 5 months ago and he was very sweet and caring. He's a couple years older than me and although we've never met he tells me he has very strong feelings for me. He lives in New York though and i live in Arizona. Its very ...

LDR b/f broke up with me yet wants to keep me as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My LDR of 4 years broke up with me last night ='( He got depressed over the past month about how his life is because his friends all seem to know what their doing and where their going and he doesnt. He got totally lost in life, lately he has no...

I need to end things with my LD b/f but I don't want to come across as being a jerk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Happy Easter everyone. I’m in a bit of a fix and struggling to comprehend it myself. Will try and vocalise it the best I can. Right theres this guy I’ve known for two years now, we went out for a while and then I broke it off (because it was long ...

Is he genuine? can I still trust him? he keeps cancelling at the last minute.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i recently got back together after a short break apart.I dont see him very much as he goes to boarding school so we try and meet at weekends. Although he has started avoiding meeting up with me,he always has an excuse,when we do ...

My girlfriend has been going through a crisis in life and is unsure about her feelings for me. My life has come crashing down...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - I am new to this forum and probably wouldn't have ever posted if it weren't for one of the most painful turn of events which might change my life forever. my girlfriend and I had been going steady since dec 2007. we were exact opposites...

LDR b/f cannot let go that I slept with someone before I even met him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - I'm so confused, I don't know what to do!I need some help :( My boyfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship. We met while we were both travelling, thinking at first that it was only going to be a holiday fling. Well, 6 months d...

I'm meeting an old friend (crush) tomorrow, how can I overcome my nerves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I'm meeting with an old best friend/guy I used to go out with tomorrow for a brief reunion before he leaves to go travelling. Long story short, we were best friends during school but there was a spark between us. A year ago, we had difficulties...

Broke up with my LDR, but he seems to want to stay in touch when it suits him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (?) - My long distance boyfriend broke up with me in December. He has since been in touch and I never normally contact him first, he is usually the one to text every week or so. Now I being the polite and nice person I am, have stayed in touch because ...

I broke up with my long distance boyfriend...now he snaps at me when I call and text him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I was in a LDR for 4 years. He began to get depressed around January and then around 3 weeks ago dumped me. Said he doesnt want a relationship right now because he wants to focus on getting himself better and also love is to exhausting for him so ...

Is he a serial player or was I really special ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - hello Guys i need you honest advice please . i met a guy when i was on a business trip , he hit on me in the restaurant of the hotel and we excanged few words and our business cards but i didn't accept his dinner invitation or contacted him agai...

What should I do if he isn't putting in as much effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months long distance because I'm away at college. Lately I've been feeling like I'm putting more effort into our relationship than he is. He used to come visit me at my school often during the first ...

Infidelity, money worries, fights? can our marriage be saved?what would help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for several years, and married for a while now. We both in our 30s have kids from both our previous marriages. Background - We met a few years ago. and fell in love instantly. Everything was perfect for months. We m...

Should I tell him he still has to wait for one more year? Or should I just cut all communications to him just like what my friends want me to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy, about 4 months ago at this university and I actually like him. We hang up for a day but sadly that day has to end. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. and I have to leave the city, I have to get back home. like him. But we ...

Should I call him and ask him to be my long-distance boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I have a crush on this guy named zach but my friend likes him too. She is always talking about how they do the same things, which they don't! But he moved to new York but I have his phone number and Facebook but my friend has his phone number too. ...

I don't think I can do long distance, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half will be going away for the summer, and be living thousands of miles away for a summer job. I told him last summer that if he did that, I wouldn't be able to uphold a long distance relationship, and i got upset ab...

LDR girlfriend had sex with 2 other guys and I just don't know how I can deal with it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Hello, me and my girl have been going out for 11 months now. We are in a long-distance relationship (6 hours) we care for and respect each other greatly. And we both love each other, and how we manage to bring out the best in each other. We rarely ...

What can we do with a crazy ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hey! I'm a girl and I'm in a long distance relationship with an other girl, we started dating recently... she had a grilfriend before me of course, but she is my first girlfriend ever, the thing is my girlfriend had this trip planned to visit h...

I'm getting impatient. Is this insecurity or being non-committal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - ive been dating someone for 2 years. we see each other all summer and when he is home for holidays, etc. (im in high school, he is in college) we work together in the summers and get along great. we have the same morals and values and we love ...

I feel like the world's worst mother. I feel as if I'm losing my sons. How can I address this situation and make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - My marriage fell apart 8 months ago and I couldn't afford to take care of my 4 kids alone, so my husband has our 3 sons. Our 2 daughters are with me living with my parents. I'm not handling it very well, because I miss my boys and the guilt is doin...

Can I really trust him? Does he have a sneaky side? I found a message on his phone that has seriously upset me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - i realy need someone's advice. i have been dating my bf for 2 years known him for 3. we were best friends before we start dating, and when we did, i felt as though i was the one who was more into the ralationship for about a year. after the firs...

I am married but have no sex life because of my wife!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - I am married in long distance relationship, my wife come last year on my country to us get married .I know that she loves me, I don't have any doubt about it. her family in USA doesn't know that we got married here in my country Colombia. The pr...

What if she is genuine and it is just the way she is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Okay.. here is my question following up to my previous one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-she-avoiding-having-me-meet-her.html My girlfriend and I had been together for 7 months now and she had recently left to the UK for work experie...

He told me he enjoys staring at sexy girls, is this normal or is he doing this because he is bored of us? Or is he just trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 motnhs.i and my bf love each other like hell.recently my bf has gone to a new place to travel and to give exams with his friends.yesterday night he told that he enjoyed roaming at the malls and ...

Why would he just stop talking to me? Is it me or the distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Last summer i went on a road trip to Montana with two of my friends. Long story short, i met a boy while i was there. I've never felt something so real in my life, he made me the happiest i had been in a while. We kept in touch for six months ...

He left the country and is out of contact. Why is he being so cruel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I am desperate. He left to other country for 2 weeks to his ex, cause they have child together. I dont understand the way he told me, it caused me pain. He just sent sms before as a reply to msg that he goes for holidays and that no regrets. Now ...

He's giving me excuses for not calling. Why is my boyfriend being so distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Dear Marvellous People, My boyfriend of 2 years has completely changed towards me these days. The least thing that i say or do provokes him very much, to the extent of him not calling me for days, because we are in a long distant relation...

Should I be experiencing life and dating and not in a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long-distance relationship. He lives in Boston. I live in California. We met online in a chatroom. We have known each other and have been talking for the past three years, but have only dated for the past 2 years...

My long distance boyfriend is being too distant. Please advise.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - My long-distance boyfriend and I have been dating for nine months (due to be ten in a few days) but lately, we've been having communication issues. I have no idea what goes on in his life. He doesn't tell me anything.. And he doesn't really a...

What does it mean that he travels all that way just to see me? Is it just to see a friend or probably more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope you can help me with some ideas to the following situation. I met a wonderful man in the summer of 2009. We had this amazing connection you share with only a few people in your whole life. We have lots of similarities even though ...

Was she ever truly in love with me? Did she only want a trip to Ireland?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - Hi All, i really would love someones commenst or opinion on this matter, see what people think, just over a year ago i met a girl online, well she saw my ad on a site and contacted me, and we exchanged e mails and letters and such until we met on ...

Advice on buying sex toys.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I am seeing someone and I want to buy some toys for me to use when we video call between our visits to each other. Thing is I have never bought and used sex toys before, and I really don't know where to start or what to think about getting, can ...