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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Health category)

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Why do I feel bad about placing my mom in a home when I have done all I could for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I take care of my parent I have been doing this for some years now.My mom legs are off do to diabetes I have other sibling but I get no help.In thinking of placing her in a home but I feel really bad I feel like I am abandoning my mom ...

Single Mothers: does it ever get any easier in the absence of your child's father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - This is a question for any single mothers out there: does it ever get easier without your children's father? My problem isn't regarding financial support, but the emotional side of the situation. My son's father has been absent since his birth. For ...

What can I do about my hunch that I should leave my great Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - I've been with this girl for 5 months -known her for 8-. I was dubious of having a real relationship with her at first because I didn't feel as much for her as I did for other girls I've been in love with, but things just happened and here I am. ...

Failed past relation. Then online friend. How can I regain my health and get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - i'm 23 years old female, felt in love for 4 years with a cheating guy. many cupids here helped into knowing that i was in a kind of abusive relationship, and it took me a lot of courage to actually let go of my boyfriend. i had a male friend who ...

Is there such a thing as commitment phobia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm just out of a 4 years relationship that really broke my heart. My boyfriend left me saying he was mixed up, and needed to do soul searching. It has been a week since we are separated and with no contact. I am just beginning ...

Three years together and my Gf has asked me to pay ($5000) towards a medical procedure she wants. What would you do if in my situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

27 July 2015 (M) - I'm in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for the past 3 years. She's always been independent and has never asked me for anything. For the past couple of months however she has been thinking of getting a surgery that insurance won't help wit...

At this rate I don't want to have sex with him. What can I do about our volatile on or off relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3410 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I am 30 and my boyfriend is 29. We are in an on/off relationship. He is always the one initiating the breakup when he gets upset or feel attacked/disrespected. We don't live together and we have sex about once a week more or less. We've been back ...

How can I not feel stupid and intimidated anytime I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

25 July 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, can you give me some advice? thanks :) How can I not feel stupid and intimidated anytime I talk to him? I think my self-esteem is low, I am not confident enough and that's the reason why I feel like it when I talk or text with him. ...

Is my mother an alcoholic and if so what can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

25 July 2015 (F) - For at least the past ten years now my mom has been drinking every night. I grew up thinking it was normal (and maybe it is) to have three or sometimes more drinks a night. However, now i'm worried about it. Even when she is sick with the flu she ...

I think my ex is on drugs and he wants no contact from me but I care and wish I could help him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - (Mod Note: OP is in early 30's) I was with my ex for 3 years. At the beginning of the year I noticed a change in him. He became distant and moody and would snap at me for no reason. After a row one day he broke things off saying he didn't love me ...

Fears about having children. I am not sure I want to bring children into this awful world.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

24 July 2015 (M) - Dear cupid, My wife and I originally got married with having kids as a possibility but 100% sure. We have since changed our minds back and fourth several times throughout the years. She went for years thinking that we would and then just a fe...

What is the point in remaining married really?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Hello cupid, I am a 40YO female struggling with the meaning of marriage. We originally wed 8 years ago with the thought that we might decide to have children together. Now I found out I have PCOS which makes it hard but not impossible to have c...

Girlfriends anti depressants may be ruining our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

22 July 2015 (M) - I'm sorry if this is not the right place to post but I need help in understanding what my girlfriend of 3 years is going through. I don't know where else to go. Last year a death in my girlfriends family had a huge affect on her and I have b...

My relationship is making me feel unconscious, mentally foggy, and extremely unhappy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - I think my relationship is making me feel unconscious, mentally foggy, and unhappy and just out right not myself anymore. I have been with my partner for 2.5 years and things were great in the beginning. I thought we had the same vision in l...

Do I have any future with this man? Can he be helped? A relationship without sexual love and intimacy is not something I could live with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - Hello there! I am a 25 year old woman dating, for 3 months, a 36 year old man who I absolutely adore. We're very much into each other. He is kind, charming, chivalrous, gentle, strong-minded....everything one could want in a man. The only iss...

How can I stop worrying about the future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - How can I stop worrying about the future? I graduated with a 2:1 degree last November but in a subject that I don’t want to do anymore and won’t help me get a well paid job (Film). I have goals I want to achieve in the future, me and my boyfriend...

Are there no gentlemen left? ? My dating has left me not interested in sex, though I have had sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and I've got this problem with boyfriends. I only had four of them when I was in HS. "Matthew" was a relative of a friend and he was nice, but he annoyed me because he would just show up at my house without calling first or else he would...

Is this rebound sex for an ex-lover or something else? I want to stop seeing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - SO I have this situation that is a little bit odd, not wanting to be judged, just trying to understand from other people's points of view: SO the back story goes something like this: Six years ago I had a sexual relationship with this guy while my...

They all met new guys but I didn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I went out with my friend and my sister last night and some other nights. We all hoped to meet new guys. Well I didn't and they did. So we're somewhere and I am all alone and they are talking to these new working class guys that got themselves ...

Failed my driving test again. So why do I freak out on my test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I failed my driving test 2nd time with 4 serious and 6minors!! I go pieces when I have a test. I lay awake all night on the night of my test, I just couldn't sleep:( I couldn't start the car without stalling. I couldn't even leave the test c...

How do I tell my Bf to find someone better? I don't think I am good enough for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I have always had insecurity issues and body image issues since I was younger. Also living in a house with constant mental and emotional abuse can take its toll. However I have a boyfriend and it's close to being a year for us. He is the most a...

All my friends do sleep randomly with anyone. I don't because it concerns me. Am I too sceptical thinking it's dangerous?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - Is it dangerous to sleep with anyone randomly? Because all my friends do that and nothing happens but I'm very sceptical? I need answers because I'm struggling....

Together 4.5 years. How do I pick myself up and cope with him moving on, after our recent breakup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - I have no idea how else to deal with this. My ex fiance broke up with me 2.5 months ago after 4.5 years together. There was no cheating or lying or anything else; just, I guess he grew apart from me. I was ready, absolutely ready for us ...

My friends want him gone. Am I crazy for trying to still accomodate him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - So here's my situation. I've been in a relationship with my bf for 2 1/2 years. We have been friends for almost 10. I thought we could make it work but we both have issues and we've come to a point where I broke up with him because we weren't ...

My fantasy of a three-some with my wife is on my mind. And it will not go away. Any advice from those who have tried to have a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) - I have a long time fantasy that wants me to see my wife having sex with another guy. I have been reading Q and A's on this forum for a long time. I have read everything that very nice folks here have to say about threesomes not being a good ide...

Should I forget about sleeping with her because I ccan't protect myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - I want to have sex with a girl but I think she practises safe sex and have had girls and guys before. I don't know what to do because I don't want to get anything because she's slept around and I know she doesn't use condoms. So should I try for...

Due to have sex tomorrow, should I just accept that he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - Okay. I'll try and keep this short and sweet. I'm 18 years old and I am a size 14 in the UK, however in some shops I am a size 12. Size 14 in the UK is now considered as plus size (even though I have no idea why) so technically I am classed as a ...

Is something wrong with me? I don't seem able to have an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I think there is something wrong with me. I am a girl, 17 years old. I do not orgasm. EVER. I had a boyfriend who touched me and I touch myself too. But I never seem to orgasm. I used to watch porn. The porn watching started when I was ...

Apart from seeing the doctor and taking the medication Dr recommends and all I've tried: What else will get rid of my recurrent thrush?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Hi, For almost a year now I have been struggling with long term thrush symptoms. Sounds silly but it's driving me insane and affecting my sex life. I have been to the doctors about this on more than one occasion as try just tell me to buy the ...

Why am I still so angry about his relationship? It feels like he won. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Several years ago I fell for a good friend I'd had my whole life, but who was living in another country. We began an LDR that lasted 8 months. It ended when he struggled to support me emotionally, as I had some mental health problems at the time...

Based on his past actions, am I being too judgemental here, or is this a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - I have been chatting to a guy who was married for 15 years and has been divorced five years and who has two thirds of childcare responsibility as his ex wife has a mental health condition. He told me he had an affair when the two children wer...

He is in very regular contact with his ex. What do you think of his reasoning and actions???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. I visit my boyfriend once every 4-6 weeks. I have two issues I'd like your opinion with. Thanks Aunties and Uncles! 1. On my recent trip to visit him, I discovered that ...

How can I build up the strength to NOT go back to him? His behaviour has been inconsistent and confusing

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - I need some help finding out how to move on from a terrible, emotionally abusive relationship which has destroyed me. I have been involved with a guy for around eight months. When we first got together, he told me he was kind of involved with so...

My older sister will need to know I'm moving out. But how do I break the news to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and i plan on getting a place together once he gets done with harvest. We will be saving up before hand and are working. While living together both of us will be going to school, im currently attending already. The hard part is that ...

Stuck in a rut. Looking for a job. Also have debts to pay. How can I get out of this rut?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) - I am a 23 year old single mum, recently came out of a long term relationship with my child's dad. My child is 5 so I fell pregnant not long after leaving school, I have been a stay at home parent plus studying too. My studies have now ended, n...

How do I break up in a way that will minimize the pain he will feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) - Hi everyone Well my situation is i've ended up in a relationship that really doesn't satisfy me and i don't know if i should try to make it work or just get out of it as soon as I can. I am 23 and he is 26. I met a guy and he seemed nice, in...

How can I be expected to stay in a relationship where my feelings are blunted or ignored?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - I am really struggling with my relationship. I feel whenever I do something nice for my boyfriend he doesn't really respond or appreciate it at all. For example if I make a post on facebook where I let known of my care and appreciation for him in ...

I need help from girls understanding my crush on my doctor!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - hello all, I am a 16 old gurl that went for a doctor visit for 4 times, he is nice, loving and gentle doctor. now and these days, I think about him much and wish to go for a visit. is that normal? am I in love or I love the way he touches me? Please...

Insecurity over my body will interfere with dating, advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - This isn't a relationship question but a question about body image and confidence. Through most of my teenage life I had a big weight problem and was very heavy most of those years. My stomach has always been big. When I was only 20 I got ...

What are the reasons or justifications to share, or not share, one's sexual past with a significant other?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

9 July 2015 (F) - Would you share your sexual past with someone who you're in a committed relationship with, or do you think it's best to leave the past in the past? Similarly, would you want to know about your significant other's past or would you prefer not to k...

I am starting to think no man will accept my body but I can't do anything about it so what is someone like me to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

9 July 2015 (F) - I've been seeing a man for the past few months and a few nights ago I was foolish enough to get intimate with him. After two days of not hearing from him, I attempted to contact him and he texted me saying in a nutshell that I'm a really nice wo...

He has done this before only to be ok once finances are ok. what should I do I am devastated. How to tell if he is just running from stress again or is this the real thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

9 July 2015 (F) - So things have been tough here, and we are both stressed my boyfriend of five years whom I live with just told me that he was getting himself an apartment and letting the house go in forclosure. He told me that because I lost my job that I am going ...

How do you overcome commitment issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3352 days ago

9 July 2015 (F) - How do you overcome commitment issues. I never really had problems commiting in the past, my last relationship was a disaster. It lasted five years and was wrong in every aspect he cheated I took him back, we had a baby things went well for aw...

Married just over a year and since then we argue a lot. What has to happen to resolve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

8 July 2015 (F) - I've been married for just over a year now and whilst most of the time things are happy, when my other half and I fight it gets really bad...much worse than it did before we were married. I find when we argue he antagonises me a lot and as a res...

My health issues are making me uncomfortable thinking about having sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3429 days ago

8 July 2015 (F) - I'm 43 and have an issue that maybe not a lot of women talk about but it is affecting my self confidence a lot! Basically, due to perimenopause and dropping hormones (not childbirth) I have been diagnosed with a mild bladder prolapse and possibly ...

My wedding day was wonderful and since then I've been crying. When can I feel better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

8 July 2015 (F) - I was wondering if what I'm feeling is normal... I got married almost 4 months ago. I'm not one who particularly enjoys weddings and hated the entire process of organising my own. I wanted an intimate party but as my husband has a big family...

We live together. But she goes to visit her Mom at weekends. Why do I miss her so much over the weekend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

8 July 2015 (M) - I am 25. I been with my girl friend for four years. We live in the Same house but she goes to see her mom every weekend and when she leaves I get sad. I feel like i want to cry and I don't want to go out side. I don't know what that is, but I neve...

We are both out of work and he says he is aggravated and has issues with his son. Is that enough to cause him to not want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

7 July 2015 (F) - Is it normal for guys to be distant and not want sex when they are stressed? We live together and are both out of work. He is also having issues with his son.He just says he is aggravated. Not sure how to handle this. He says we are around each o...

Why is my wife spending so much time sleeping, while meanwhile our sex life is non existent?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

6 July 2015 (M) - My wife recently went away for a few days with friends. While she was away, we chatted on the phone everyday. However, for the past few months she's been sleeping all the time and she's also put on weight and she's still gaining. Her weight doesn't ...

Can this marriage still work after what my husband told me? He loves me, but not my changed physical appearance

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

6 July 2015 (F) - I have been with my husband for 5 years. After having two children and dealing with my weight issues this past year, my body has definitely changed. My husband sat me down a couple of nights ago and I knew something was wrong. He told me he didn'...