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writes:SO I have this situation that is a little bit odd, not wanting to be judged, just trying to understand from other people's points of view: SO the back story goes something like this:Six years ago I had a sexual relationship with this guy while my husband and I were separated. I took my husband back because he was going through some severe mental health issue (bipolar- schizophrenia- alcohol and drug abuse) then tragically, he took his own life 5 yrs ago. This other man and I were still in contact and friends. He went on to have a relationship(which I was happy about for him) and 2 years after my husband's death, I also began dating someone. We are still together and he is a great guy. The thing is, around 2 yrs ago my friend and former lover had a horrible break up. He was devastated and I was really worried about him. About 18 months ago he made a move on me and after we discussed it, I agreed to have sex with him to help him get over his ex. So now it has been going on since. I truly care about him as a person, and I do love being with him, but I am still in my relationship. This friend seems to be ok with it, and hasn't even tried dating anyone. I want to let him go, but I would miss him as well and our friendship. We never talk about feeling so I do not know if he has feeling for me other than sexually-- I know he did the first time around--he was devastated when I took my husband back. I just don't know if this is still rebound sex for him or something more.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 July 2015):
 "I agreed to have sex with him to help him get over his ex.
So now it has been going on since....."
Why, oh WHY, have I never been able to find a girl like you?????
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 July 2015):
 This is him using you for sex. Does your partner know you are having sex with your friend? IF not you are cheating on your partner with this guy.
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