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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Was he serious about his penis size?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - To make this short a guy I liked and was fooling around with (making out and a bit of touching) joked about his penis being small. His exact words were "You know my dick is this big right?" and with his thumb and pointer finger made about a three ...

My purity ring is not stopping me feel so turned on. What can I do to slow down these feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Why am I so turned on when I see my boyfriend? I'm 15, but I've never felt like this before! I know one reason is hormones? Anyways... I've never felt like this with anyone else. It's freaking me out. Maybe another reason is that he told me I turn...

He's ONLY hit me twice recently. But should I end this relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My partner used to physicaly and mentaly abuse me. it became worse during my pregnancy , and i miscarried. After this he became better for a while and has only hit me twice in serious arguments. i still can't get over how he treated me and even tho...

I can't seem to relax my brain, do you have a suggestion please??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have a lots of anxiety, and my brain never can rest. . they recomandeded meditation to me many times. I was hoping ,it will help.. I really dont why , but meditation never worked for me. It is not effective to me, no matter what I try. I li...

She's the best Gf I've ever had. So why do I go soft at the worst moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - O my gosh. Pleas help ... Me and my girlfriend . It's the best relationship I ever had. She knows exactly how to turm me on and everything was fine. Then wen we wanted to do it... The my disobedient willie went soft on me. I know my girlfriend,...

I'm not sure I will pass a drug test!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - i have a job interview this following wednesday coming up i used cocaine about a month and half ago and now i need to make sure i past a hair drug test i only used one time only and like i said it was about a month ago...i am scared i may not past ...

What are these places on my skin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - m havin problems wth my skin. It ol starts wth an extreme pain t a certain position n after a day or so the pain stops but a small coloured patch starts to develop, it sort f changes from green to black. I once had one on my leg but i used a ...

How can I put on more weight as I hate being called skinny?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - im a 14 year old and i weigh 86lbs. before you call me bulimic,anemic,or anything else let me tell you i do none of those things. i dont know what to do people at school make fun of me and tell me im skinny. it really bugs me cuz i eat but i dont ...

What can I do to let my husband know I really care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I dont know what to think about this. My husband got a new job and has been doing this for a month now. His schedule was nice 6.5 hrs a day 6 days a week which is a little over full time. Its exhausting work and he is not supplied with the proper ...

Worried about my weight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Okay, I suppose this isnt really a relationship question, but i'm really hoping you guys will help me with this.. Im going on a trip soon with some friends, I am a size 12 jeans and I HATE how my body looks, We are going to spain so the climate ...

My breasts are significantly different in size, HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My right breast is much larger than my left and it IS noticable unless i wear a baggy or loose fitting top. I know it is normal for one to be larger than the other but in my case it's just awful. I'm 5'2" My right is busting out of my 34 D bras ...

How can I best help my best friend recover from this depressing breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is suffering through a terrible heartbreak, im trying to help her out because she is suffering so much in pain. My friend and her ex, as a couple were my best friends. My friend is soooooo sweet and she is the one to always work thin...

Penis size insecurities......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

28 April 2011 (?) - OK, so we've seen the barrage of penis size questions. Got me so curious I decided to actually measure mine. What I encountered was that it may be impossible to get an accurate measurement because there are probably 13 ways to measure it. I know ...

Could the trauma of my parent's divorce and seeing what I saw as a child be the reason I cannot connect with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - This is difficult for me to write, as it is deeply personal. When I was a boy, my parents were on the verge of divorce and I had just turned 10. My father constantly traveled for his work, and his absence and constant fighting when he was home drov...

Birth control without my parents!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I am 17 and i want to get on birthcontrol but i dont want my parents to know because i dont what them to think im having sex everytime im alone with my boyfriend. So how do i go about getting birthcontrol without my parents???...

What else relieves stress apart from masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - Ok so i think i need better ways to release my stress, i always masterbate and thats the best way but i cant keep doing it all the time....... so what else can i do?...

Boyfriend's medicine is making him really crabby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Hello there! I'm visiting my LDR for the first time in a few months. Recently, he's gotten on this acne medication called Accutane, and after asking him why, he told me that he was worried that I might not like what I see. I reassured him tha...

Partner drinks and smokes too much and its affecting his health

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My partner who is 42, drinks every night 4 -6 six cans or more. Rarely less. We have been together 2 years and he claims that he has reduced his intake. Perhaps he has, as before we got together he was single for many years and lived an alcohol ...

Took a break from the pill - when should period arrive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been on the pill (Drospirenone + Ethynylestradiol. 21 active + 7 placebos) for the past 6 months. I had never taken it before, and it was given to me both as birth control and acne treatment. The last week of March I was supposed to start a ...

I keep bleeding after sex...should I see a doctor? Or will it eventually stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - i haven't been having sex for that long and have only had sex around 8 times but every-time including the 1st and the last time Ive had sex Ive bleed afterwards and it can be fairly painfull during and after sex.. should i get this checked out or ...

My feelings have went flat toward boyfriend, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - Hello all. I think i need some advice..its always the same issues with me but they get better...then come back haha. I've been with my man now for nearing a year and Im 18years old. At the beginning of the relationship there was butterflies and ...

Birth control pill supply runs out when I'm aboard, how do I get more pills?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I've started the pill, and from my calendar that I am using to find out when I run out of my first three month supply, I am going to run out on the second day of my holiday abroad. How do I get more pills? Do I have to have a check up to get more ...

My best friend may have herpes, does this mean I could too? How can I help her through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - So my best friend just got out of this long relationship. They were together for almost 5 years. He is a good person to be friends with, but not a good boyfriend. He was really mean to her. Anyway, there is this guy that we used to hang out with ...

He says he's too lazy to love me any more. Is this real or is it his depression talking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - What does it mean when you get dumped by your depressed boyfriend because he doesnt want love or relationships anymore because he's too lazy? Is that even possible? Can someone seriously be too lazy to want love and relationships?...

My father has Alzheimers, my mother is unsupportive. Should I go overseas as I wish? They want me to stay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem with my father. I am 33. I have been living with my parents for 6 months because I had to do paperwork to go abroad. I have lived during 7 years independently. My parents are in their 70s. My father has Alzheimer's disease. He does...

He will not pay child support, but does not want me to move. What should I do? I still care about him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - my long term boyfriend broke it off with me ten months ago when i told him i was pregnant. i was desvasted. i had a melt down really coping with the fact i was dumped, later to find out he had been cheating, and that i was pregnant. well anyways ...

Help ! My orgasms are not normal !! why do I release so much sperm ?!?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - I am 22 yrs. bi male from Czech Republic living in Canada I don't know if I should call this a problem. but it's definitely causing some serious distraction lately I have these really intense orgasms. Most people can't wait to orgasm and reach...

Small hard spots inside of me. What are they?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hi,I've got small hard spots in my vaginal walls under the skin. They are not sore or anything, I'm just worried they are something serious. I dont think they are because I've had them for a while now but I'm too scared to tell my mum or go to the ...

Is it feasible that I can get my Gf back despite her attitude, my illness and my infidelity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. So this is my first post, and I was with my ex-girlfriend for about 2 years. About two months ago, I stopped taking my medications (I have bipolar disorder), for reasons I wish I knew the answer to. Now that I reflect upon it, life...

Should I tell my BF it's over? I said No. But He's still pressuring me. he wants to lose his virginity with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - I am a 14 year old virgin, but my BF , which is 15, wants to lose his virginity with me. We have been dating for not so long(1 month or so) and I'm scared that if I continue dating him, then I'll lose my virginity. At first it was a straight up ...

Gambling has taken over his life. what can I say or do? It's ruining our life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys and girls. My partner and I have been together for 11 years, we have 2 children together aged 7 and 1. We were both 17 when we got together and we had a great relationship, he did everything for me and was the perfect boyfriend. W...

I am pregnant with my history teacher's baby. Who should I tell? Cd I make out it's my Bf's baby instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! So I finally found out I'm pregnant with my History teacher's baby and I don't know what to do. I'm 100 per cent sure I'm going to keep it and I don't know if I should tell him what's going on, or if I just should tell my boyfriend I'...

Why would my doctor say I have a liver problem, but NOT to worry about it!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - I read that ALL liver problems serious? Or are there some that aren't as much of a worry... I'm just really curious as my doctor said to me 'you do have a liver problem, but it's nothing worry about'? Can he be right, or should i be concerned?...

Fiance has gained 100 lbs and I'm not attracted to him. How do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - so my relationship with my fiance is indescribable...we havent had any intimate relations since my daughter was born (shes 15months now)and frankly there isnt any effort being made on his or my part...to be brutally honest and i know im going 2 ...

It it possible we could get together again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Is it possible where 2 people who went into a relationship perfectly normal and fine, who then 3 years later both manage to get depressed get back together? Sorry let me explain that better. I met a guy online 3 years ago, we fell in love. I...

Why does he need to know about my sexual past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - My bf cannot get over my past. and he almost all the time asking me how my past sexual encounters where like and wht positions did i do with them and did they kiss me in certain places he just wants to know so much details.. but after he knows the ...

How do I ask my mom about birth control pills diplomatically??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - i need to get on the birth control pill, im seventeen. how do i go about talking to my mom about it? i really need it. ...

Is masturbation a normal thing??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - i have this problem i mustarbate sometimes i have a gf and we have briliant sex but i do and sometimes i feel watching porn and thats against my believe of 10 commandement. Wat i tink is i m too old 2 mustarbate and also tink i m not normal is the ...

Question on birth control pill

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Dear agony aunts.... I have been taking this contraceptive pills its being a week right now..., the doctor asked me to take them for around a year... But i just wanted to know its advantages and disadvantages as I don't know about it. How it effe...

He became controlling. Pinned me down. Do I get back with him, or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - i was with my bf for 8 months. I'm 17, he's 18. It was a good relationship at first. He was a great laugh, made me smile, took me places. It was great. 6 months into the relationship however, he changed. He got controlling, aggressive, overprot...

Heroin use during first 3 months of pregnancy... Should I abort?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I am 9 weeks pregnant (my first time ever, and it was unplanned), and I have an abortion scheduled for 5 days from now. Up until today, I was positive I was not going to continue with the pregnancy and was for sure going to get an abortion. Because ...

Feeling inadequate sexually and worried I'm not as good as his past girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is 20 and I'm 19. We've been dating for about a year and he's in the Marines. My problem is I feel very inadequate sexually with him. I had only had 2 partners before him and while I'm not sure of his exact number, I know it's quite a ...

I feel like he choose the weed over me. He's losing me and doesn't seem to care!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I am not a weed smoker, but my hb does. He is one person when he smokes, and different when he doesn't. I didn't know that he likes weed when we were dating, I never saw that before, but when we got married he start to smoke in the house. At the f...

It's been 7 months and I still love him!

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22 April 2011 (F) - I split with my boyfriend in Octover 2010 after a 15 month relationship as things wasnt going well and i noticed he was acting different. He moved on quite fast and got with someone else straight away, however 7 months and theres still something ...

I don't think this is a healthy relationship, how do we fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - This is very long, so any help is really appreciated and thanks for reading this. Not long after I started university I met a guy who I very quickly became very good friends with. I was really comfortable with this but then one day he asked me out ...

Do fertility tests bought online actually work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone Does anyone know if these fertility test kits that you can buy online work? I know the dna tests work but do the fertility ones do the job My man wants to know if he is fertile but wont go see a doctor Thanks ppl...

How can I make my hair thicker again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - dear agony aunts...... i really badly need your help....i am loosing my hair drastically.... my hair use to br really thick before....but its being months now that it went so badly... if it goes like this i feel im surely gonna be bald soon ... im ...

Should I be worried about these dreams and the subsequent pains?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (?) - I'm always dreaming as if i'm eating, when i wake up my chest hurts and i feel the pain goin down to my lower stomach. Wat's really happening to me? Should i be worried?...

When it comes to intimacy, I'm turned off by my BF who weighs over 300 pounds!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is over 300 pounds. I don't love him any less because of his weight (I am also 130 pounds), but when it comes to intimacy I am turned off. I feel terrible to think this way but I can't help it. He is trying to lose weight but I am ...

Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My bf and I had oral sex for the first time and we both really enjoyed it, but my question is if is normal for me fo feel discomfort and little pain everytime I pee on the clitoris part??? Like I said when we were having sex iit didn't hurt or ...