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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My bf cannot get over my past. and he almost all the time asking me how my past sexual encounters where like and wht positions did i do with them and did they kiss me in certain places he just wants to know so much details.. but after he knows the answrs to his questions he gets all bothered about it.. and in some cases it becomes a problem.. Why is it that he needs to know? and why does it bother him so much?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): Retroactive jealousy. Men get it much more than women, for understandable evolutionary reasons.
It causes problems but it's still completely normal to feel it. There is no way to stop the feelings, a person just either deals with them or does not.
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (23 April 2011):
He is jealous about these guys, and jealous that you did so much while he probably did not. He is wishing you had never kissed or been with another guy. Most guys feel like this, but most of these can see past this. He has an obsessive retroactive jealousy and obviously the more he asks the more hurt he is going to be. I don't know how to solve it, but it will eventually become a serious problem. Counselling maybe? I honestly don't know a solution, but I'm informing you of what he has.
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