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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

Could my crush be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for about four years now, I have been very close to him, reasons being I felt we are very similar in many ways, he reminded me of myself a male version of me, he knew I liked him, but he said he just wanted to be ...

Am I bisexual or confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - i have been strictly in a lesbian relationship for a year and seven months now, and quite happy with sex and everything but now everytime i see a man walks with his undies i get turned on, feel like a bang.......am i bisexual, or am i sexually ...

Is there any point in telling my dad that I'm gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - My question is... Is there any point in telling my dad I'm gay? I have been out to my mum and friends for a long time now and I'm happy but I still feel like I'm hiding, my dad moved away before I was born and left my mum, he has had two other kids ...

Do I keep ignoring my ex and try to move on, or should I text her back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - So me and my ex broke up about a month and a half ago after 2 yrs together, and she started dating someone else a month after we broke up,which REALLY hurt me,but instead of freaking out about it,i told her that i still wanted to be friends with ...

I'm bi-curious and my friend thinks I like her but I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Im bi-curious and im kind of confused. My friend at school found out im bi and now she thinks i have a crush on her. I tend to talk to her nervously because shes one of those people you shouldnt say or do anything weird near, as she is in on and ...

I have feelings for my female friend, but I don't know how to tell her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - hello... well, it appears that i have got myself into a really really annoyingly stupid situation. see. i like a girl. a lot. she's amazing and funny and too polite and kind. and we have a banter going about a lot of things, mainly about les...

When or if do I give up and walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Dear All, Here's my problem - hoping for some views: I'm gay, 30, and I met a guy (also 30) online about 18 months ago, he's from the USA and I'm English. We were just friends though we got on great and sometimes talked on im for hours...

How do I find out if there's a chance for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-a-date-or-just-2-friends.html So I and my new friend went to that restaurant on Wednesday, before and after that he came to my place and we chatted for many hours and they were beautiful. I am ...

How do I tell my parents that I'm gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - hi, this might no be quite the right place for this but its the only place i know so :) i was wondering how to tell people im gay, all my friends know. but i need to tell my mum and my step dad and i really don't know how to. i would really ...

Guys do not respect our relationship and hit on my girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i have a really large frustration and would love some input and suggestions. i'm gay and have a great, happy relationship with my girlfriend. we've been together for two years now. she's beautiful. she's got a gorgeous face, sexy figure. she's ...

Could my environment make me gay??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - i am 16 years old, when i was 13, i liked girls very much, i imagined sexual fantasy with girls. but now, after i entrance to high school, high school for men, just men, in this school there are no girls.. i start imagine sexual fantasy with boy. i ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - ok my question is a kind of long a complicated one, im a gay, 18 year old male from ireland. so, i have this friend, lets call him john (: weve been friends since i was about 14, and he would of been one of the first people i ever came out t...

I'm gay only on the internet. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - Hey, i need some help, i don't think i'm gay or bi, i love girls, i like them. But actually i like jerking off with boys in the Internet via different chat or something like that. Few time ago i watched gay porn, now i like jerking off wih boys, i ...

I love him but I want a relationship that I can tell everyone about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - i am a gay teenager. Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 9 months and have been friends for 12years. Before we went out we both had girlfriends until 1 nite last summer when i got drunk and he made a move on me and told me he wanted to be ...

Older male dating a younger one, who was a virgin and is now seeking more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I am a 38yr old male dating a 20yr old male who was a virgin. We have had sex, though I have not penetrated him. He is still wanting to wait, and I am fine with that. We have been together for 4 months (as of last night)and he has started masturba...

Should I try something gay? I do have a girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Bi-curious's profile: I am having a big urge to have a gay sexual encounter. I have a girlfriend and she let's me watch gay porn nd gets turnd on by how I get turnd on so much by it. I've told her my fantasies and was a bit unsure about it but sed ...

I've been waiting for my best friend's relationship to end so I can ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - My most best friend in the world is bi-sexual. I've had a crush on here and liked her for a long time now. But she has a girlfriend which sucks big time. I know that a-lot of people say that a relationship with someone that is bi-sexual is not ...

I want to be with her but don't know how to go about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 and my best friend is 35 she has a 4 Yr old boy, we've been friends for years and help each other out all the time, last Saturday night I was a mess really upset, so we decides to drink etc and jus relax. We got into bed and and started ...

I feel guilty after sex with a guy, not with a girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - I don't know what to do, I need advice and guidance. Ever since I was 14, I knew I was bi, I had a sort of relationship with a girl before hand, and since then had a brief relationship with a guy. I say brief, we got intimate sexuall, not act...

I have a couple of questions about pursing a relationship with my professor.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I am interested in a professor of mine that is almost 20 years older than me. However I am in my mid 30's and not your typical college student. Over the semester, I found myself developing feelings for him and, after a few interactions about a ...

Bisexual who's still in the closet and in love with her best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - so i'm a bi.. but i'm not out... certain people knows about it like my real friends... in a place where i am staying right now has a high percentage of discrimination about gay, bi, les, tran and homos hence the reason i'm still hiding in the ...

I'm sleeping with a married man and he wants me to stay at his house. Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - I am seeing a married guy 3 or 4 times a year we meet in cities away from home in Fl and or Ca I am 69 and he is 40. When in Ca I have dinner with him and his wifr, I am goig to Ca next and he suggested I stay at his home. Good idea ?????"??...

A harmless peck on the cheek has caused my girlfriend to break up with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Im a bisexual in a relationship with a female.. I have been with her for 6 months now. Im an outgoing person, when I go out Im friendly, I talk to anyone... I have silly fun with my friends like hug, kiss (no tongue, just pecks on the lips, cheeks) ...

I had sex with a transexual, does that make me gay?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - i had sex with a transexual, it it really bugging the hell out of me.. does that make me gay?...

Is he secretly gay? Or do I just want to believe that he's gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - I'm 20 years old and I'm bisexual. I have a friend who is pretty cool with me and at first I think I had mistaken some signals I was getting from him as just mere "bromance", but I just have this feeling in my gut that he likes me but he's too ...

I am really sexually confused.and need advice.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - I will be 18 this year and I am still a virgin and the reason why is because I'm so confused and scared. So I spend time watching porn gay and straight and I am so sexually confused. I find a gay interesting first and ive been looking since about ...

My friends are not getting along with each other when the boyfriend is around. What advice will help this situation improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - my friend is a lesbian/bi (friend 1) and she has said to another of our friends (friend 2) that she doesn't like it when my friend 2 is around her boyfriend... it's now really awkward when girl 1 and 2 are with girl 2's boyfriend.... girl 2 does...

I am getting mixed signals from my best friend. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend. I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost stalk someone until that person has forgiven him. When I want to talk to him I ca...

Is this a date? Or just 2 friends going out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I need your help with a great urgency until WEDNESDAY. Three weeks ago I started to become close with someone from my office. I am bisexual but I never fell in love with a guy before and I think he is straight. We become closer an...

A friend wanted to see if her lesbian leanings were real

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I'll try keep this short as i can. I have quiet a good friend, i'll call J. we went to school together though we werent friends, i knew her through her friends as they were mine. She started talking to me about 3 months ago, and we got quiet cl...

It kills me inside every time she rejects my sexual advances...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm ...

I read her diary and found out she was bi-sexual! Should I confront her about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - I've been dating the girl of my dreams. I have been over the moon for the last 5 months because I have finally met someone who I feel real love for, and who loves me back just as much. She is gorgeous and kind and I truely have fallen head over ...

Not sure whether my best friend if giving off signals

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Hi all, i have one of the weirdest questions in the world lol. i am gay and my straight best friend is confusing the hell out of me. Basically I'm not out yet but I'm 99% sure he knows i am gay, and i have no idea if hes giving off signals. ...

How can I coax guys out of the closet and have a boyfriend again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

16 May 2011 (M) - OK, so, in March, I ended a year and a quarter length long-distance relationship to be with a guy who was in my local area, who I then got broken up with by for stupid reasons, long story xD Basically, the latter of the two was my first 'real' boy...

I'm a girl and do you think this girl likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - ok so im bi/lesbian and i think i hve good gaydar you'll understand in a second... ok so i think this girl likes me and wondering if you thought it too heres the evidence shes usually sad and moody and think its about me because she'll be sittin...

We are having huge issues lately, could this be because he is cheating on me with a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

16 May 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been having HUGE issues lately, I really don't know why they started, the things he does are kinda making me mad though. He gets mad over every little thing i do wrong, he is always angry, he has been ignoring...

Is it that hopeless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

15 May 2011 (M) - Three weeks ago I started to become close with someone from my office. I am bisexual but I never fell in love with a guy before and I think he is straight. We become closer and we are really good friends now, he is very kind to me, always talks with ...

Are the things she says hints that she really likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

15 May 2011 (F) - so i'm trying to get a read on this girl who i've been the best of friends with for years. she's living with and dating someone else, but i still believe there may be some hidden meaning behind the things she says to me. and let me go ahead and say ...

How do you respond to someone telling you they no longer find you attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

15 May 2011 (M) - So I'm a gay male that has been in a LTR with another man for over 10 years. We are both in our early 30's and are monogamous. At various points in our relationship, my partner has emotionally and mentally been exploring the idea of being with ...

On and off with my boyfriend, but have frustrating feelings and desires for a woman? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Okay, I'm really confused at the moment as to what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for three years, although we've been on and off quite a lot. I love him to bits but recently we both decided to take a break from eachother, not break up so to ...

Is it possible that my feelings may be reciprocated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - ok so im bi/lesbian and i think i hve good gaydar you'll understand in a second... ok so i think this girl likes me and wondering if you thought it too heres the evidence shes usually sad and moody and think its bout me coz shell be sitting alone an...

I'm a lesbian in love with my friend but I know she's not 100% lesbian. CONFUSED!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I'll try and make this short and try not to bore you all to death! Basically I have been in love with my friend since I was 16 (I'm now 22). We used to be very close up until around a year ago, to the point where friends and family thought w...

I want her back but how do I regain her trust and convince her I will not lie to her ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - So my ex girlfriend just broke up with me a month ago after 2 years together because I lied to her and kept the secret for a while. I REALLY want her back, but i dont know how I can get her to trust me again...I've tried telling her how I felt and ...

There is a rumour being spread about me and I need to know what to do to contain this rumour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so one night i hears from some friend that have you heard about a rumour that is spreading about you, i'm like no, but then i have some weird feeling in my stomach and have an inclination to ask, what rumour, and i am right. Somone said that...

What to think about my boyfriend's 'best friend'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - Hi a few months ago I met a friend of a friend and we became very close. We started a relationship about a month ago and things have been great. My only problem is his best friend. Now His best friend's boyfriend is one of my close friends so...

He has photos on his phone of another guy.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - Hi I wonder if you could give me advice. LAst night I had to work late and I checked my BFs phone (we are a gay couple) and seen photos from another guy which he recieved the same night. THe pics are from a guy who he met up with before we got ...

I think I might be Bisexual, but I'm afraid for others to know...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Im 15 years old. There is this feeling in me. I think im bisexual. I think girls are sexy. there is this one girl name "Abbie". She asked me out. I said yes to see what its like. Now everyone at my school is making fun of me. And this boy I also ...

I'm SO confused about my sexuality it's killing me. Is this normal? What on earth do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - I'm 21 and I have come to accept that I am gay. I've had a long term girlfriend before and was sexually attracted to her. But now I'm single I barely see girls as sex objects anymore. I am only attracted to guys. Now, I can't see myself having sex ...

My bf is now bi curious and a x-dresser....help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) - Ok so... my bf and I have been dating for over 3 years now. He has admited to being a crossdresser. I have seen it, was fun at first now hes really into it. AND now is bi-curious. We had talked about him trying a tgirl and i was alright with it....

I'm now in love with my best friend instead of my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I am a girl and i have a boyfriend( we,ll call him bob) andy best friend whos a girl ( we ll call her lucy) well the otherday lucy was round and she came out to me and i have always been bisexual and before i knew where i was we were snogging and ...