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writes:Hi I wonder if you could give me advice. LAst night I had to work late and I checked my BFs phone (we are a gay couple) and seen photos from another guy which he recieved the same night. THe pics are from a guy who he met up with before we got together a few years ago. i feel upset and when I got home he was saying how much he loves me etc....I do love him and trust him, though this makes me concerned. A few weeks ago I told him that I knew he watched a fair bit of porn and that I could live with this as long as he didnt tlak to 'real' people. I know I shouldnt have checked but in a way I feel i Should have as I am very committed to this guy and need to know these things.What would you advise? Greatly appreciate any input
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reader, jp23  +, writes (15 May 2011):
 You can do one of 2 things, option one: I would make up something like ohhh, I was going to take a picture of my self on your phone and put it as your screen saver, and I took a picture and as I was looking it up I came across this guy, he looks so familiar, do I know him? My mind is drawing a blank, but anyways I just thought it was weird he sent a picture to your phone that's all. Not giving specific details. and you would actually have to take a pic of your self on his phone for that to work lol. or, or you could ask him if you could see his pictures on his phone, if he asks why just say I was just wondering if you have any pictures of me, or so and so. Make up something lol.option two: do nothing, trust him for face-value. Do you think you can fully trust him and believe that this guy is just his friend. If it is just his friend why has he never brought him up to you in the past few yrs? was it just a simple picture? or sexual. when was the last time your bf updated his number, could this guy have already had his number? could ur bf be seeing him? do you think that your bf would lie to you? try to keep track of where he goes for the day. when does he get off of work and back home usually in a day.
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