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writes:Dear Cupid,http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-a-date-or-just-2-friends.htmlSo I and my new friend went to that restaurant on Wednesday, before and after that he came to my place and we chatted for many hours and they were beautiful. I am now more in love with him because now I also now his beautiful soul and his golden heart but I am still very unsure he is straight, bisexual, gay or at least bi-curious. I need really some solid advices, some key questions that I could ask him without making him uncomfortable. I have no idea how to open that kind of conversations. As I also written before I don’t want to lose him but I also cannot torture myself letting go or being friends. What could or should I do? We talked about many things and of course our old relationships but because I am bisexual and never had a relationship with a guy, I also talked about my past girlfriends. He is single for one year, same like me. After that dinner he came to my place it was a peaceful and silent night he was also very open to me but I had no idea how to take the conversation to the part I really wanted to know: Is there a chance for us?Once again I need your precious advices as soon as possible.Sincerely. Reply to this Question
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reader, georgey5100  +, writes (30 May 2011):
keep up the "dates" :) next time you take him back home.... offer him a glass of wine... or a beer depending on your taste ;) ... if you feel that you can trust him... and that he's not a gaybeater or anything dodgey like that... just casually mention that you are also into men :) and see what his reaction is... however if he says that he isnt then you have to take that as final... you cant try and push him to try it... it just doesnt work and you may end up getting a black eye or worse
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