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writes:Three weeks ago I started to become close with someone from my office. I am bisexual but I never fell in love with a guy before and I think he is straight. We become closer and we are really good friends now, he is very kind to me, always talks with me, we go to lunch together and we even meet on weekends. Suddenly I realised that I started to fall in love and I feel hopeless because he is straight but sometimes I feel like he is also interested in guys or is this because I am too desperate.What can I do? How can I live with this pain or how can I know he feels same or not? I don’t want to lose him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): could you tell me what kind of signals for example? I have no idea. (writer of the question)
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (24 May 2011):
 well, a straight man is never going to be in a relationship with another man no matter how much you want him to.
i've been there and let me tell you, you are wasting your time. unless there are huge obvious signals from him (none of which you mention here) i would assume that any positive vibes you get from him are the fact that he likes you as a friend.
if you cannot be friends with someone without being in unrequited love with them, then you are better off not spending time with them and looking for someone who is available to meet your needs.
bumblebee hitting a window repeatedly?- dont be one cos it wont make you happy
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