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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 20 years old and I'm bisexual. I have a friend who is pretty cool with me and at first I think I had mistaken some signals I was getting from him as just mere "bromance", but I just have this feeling in my gut that he likes me but he's too scared to accept it. He's in the closet (I guess, he says he's straight) but I'm very confused because with me he's very touchy-feely and he stares at me at times and he teases me a lot in a playful way. The reason I'm confused is because whenever a gay person is mentioned he overreacts and exagerates about how he thinks gay people are gross. He text messages a lot with girls (although I've never actually seen him with one) and he "brags" about how many girls like him. Can someone please share their opinion with me? What do you think, is he secretly gay? Or am I just too into him that I want to believe he is?
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reader, aaringurl  +, writes (22 May 2011):
His gay. And you should know he's into you. Just don't let that get into your head. Just be you and act like everything's normal. Wait for him to give in, swear, the dam's breaking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2011): This sound a lot like one of my friends with the overreacting when 'gay' or anything to do with it was mentioned. From what I'v read, I'm getting the vibe that he is gay, and most likely in denial. He is probably trying to fight his true feelings for the same gender in many ways, and may even be insecure about how others will accept him. I'd say he is touchy with you to test the waters......t try and confirm these gay feelings.
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