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writes: hi, this might no be quite the right place for this but its the only place i know so :)i was wondering how to tell people im gay, all my friends know. but i need to tell my mum and my step dad and i really don't know how to.i would really like advice from anyone who has actually done it please, but any help would be great :)thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011): I just want to wish you luck... I've gone through this when I came out to my dad....so, good luck dude
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reader, topher747 +, writes (30 May 2011):
topher747 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks alot, you all really helped
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (30 May 2011):
i'm with Cindy on this, sit them down togther and tell them. They might be shocked, they might be expecting it but once its done, its done. They will love you in the end.
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reader, trublonde +, writes (30 May 2011):
I am straight, but I have many gay and lesbian friends. Coming out to their parents was the hardest thing they ever did. But I can offer you some advice that I have learned from them. Just be honest with them. You are their child, they should love you for you, not the people or gender you love. Sit them down, and just tell them, Mom, Dad, please don't be upset or say anything for a moment. I just have this pressing on my heart, I need to tell you something. I hope you support me as your child, even though you might not agree with it. I am g ay. I love men..... ect. Sorry if that isn't what you are looking for. Hope I helped.
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