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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

What are your opinions and reasonings on when sex should occur?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - After a while of not having sex, I recently did, with a guy who I met a couple of hours earlier. It's not something I do often, it actually takes me a while to start liking a guy enough to want to hook up, but on my opinion if I find someone I like ...

Is my Bf telling me about a crush he once had on a pretty girl, only to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - my bf recently told me about a childhood crush of his and how pretty she is and how beautiful her smile is.I m feeling insecure becausezp if she loves him too he might leave me. At times i feel my bf really loves me and is doing this just to make ...

Would my ex FWB consider a relationship with me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I'm pretty good friends with my ex fwb. We were fwb for about 18 months but we've been just friends for the last year. I had a boyfriend which is the reason the benefits ended, but we stayed in touch. This friend has always been really helpful t...

She is on my mind all the time. Should I tell her or hold in my emotions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

29 April 2015 (M) - This has been on my mind for a while now. It happened a few days ago, but I am not sure where to progress. This is a long story, so bear with me. So here it is: A few nights ago, a large group mixed with work friends and others who I did not kno...

A close friend told me that my boyfriend isn't a good guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - A close friend of mine recently told me that my bf isn't a good guy!he said he s very mean and took his friendship for granted and took advantage of his friendship. he is telling me not to have a relationship with him as he might cheat on me or take ...

How can I politely deal with people who offer their advice on whether we are having a boy or a girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Ok, so my fiance I have been thrilled to be expecting our first child. We dont want to find out what we are having because I cant wait for that moment when the doc says "its a..." when it is born, but I have had a lot of people who dont seem to get ...

Unrequited feeling for a guy. Will I ever find a guy who really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I am 20 and I had an unrequited feeling or is that what you call it at a guy i know for 8 years. All my life i have known, that I had liked him a lot but I was unable to confess and hid it all this time. Instead I find joy and happiness just w...

Should I walk away? Should I send the note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - After 4.5 years of friendship, J and I began a relationship over Xmas which has largely been conducted online, because of her employment. I'm 32 and am plenty experienced, but this is the first time I feel I could be falling in love. Just recen...

Yes, there's depression (being medicated). And the desire to be more positive. So how do I get a more positive outlook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - How do I get a more positive outlook on life? I am twenty years old and I am struggling with severe depression. I currently work in administration with no hopes of furthering my career as my job contract ends here soon, and before that I have alw...

Why is it that everything in my life seems to become complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Is it in My life that everything seems to be complicated? I either i have bad luck or i am doing something is wrong some where. Ever since my mother passed away when i was 16 years old..it has been a bumpy ride. Okay i have good intentions fo...

I am crushing on my best friend's boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - So I'm a terrible person. Today, I couldn't stop thinking about my best friends boyfriend. Today, was the worst day ever because I haven't ever felt so much good and bad. We were all hanging out and ever so slightly we'd periodically look o...

Did I do the right thing by canceling this trip to see my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I just reunited with a friend of mine from years ago.He wanted me to come and visit him in a another state I felt ok about it but this morning I heard a voice telling me this trip I won't be taking my first thought was to run like hell ...

Was my BF jealous that I gave these guys a dance lesson?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I am a dancer. Recently I was asked to demonstrate some dance moves to some kick boxing students (most of them male) who take classes at the same dance studio. They were curious about the dance program. I was fine with it. I do not see anything...

Friendly or flirty, how to tell the difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Hello there I have been a member of a Facebook group for a few months. The group is for people who are interested in history and has a couple of thousand members. It's a great place to chat to people about our interests in history, share p...

Was my friend right to assume that I wasn't invited to a mutual friend's party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Shouldn't my friend have invited me to a mutual friend's party? Our mutual friend and I had some misunderstandings about a party she was holding, she asked me and my boyfriend to come over to what I thought was a couples date, and my boyfriend was...

Three months. What can I do to forget him? why did he cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3489 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - How do I let go? Its been three months.. I still miss him. I mean he left, he cheated, and we go to the same college and live like across the road I can see when I am walking to school or leaving my apt if he's there. I get a sense of happine...

Discovered that my soon to be ex got drunk while he was supposed to be caring for our child. He'll deny it. How do I confront him with what I've discovered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for quite awhile now. Anyhow to make a long story short I have 4 kids, one of which is with him. Last week I was on vacation with my parents. He had our child and I had a friend babysit my other kids at my h...

Shall I move out now in a hurry because of my partner and her friends or shall I stick to my mortgage idea for next year?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

24 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend wants to move in after two years of relationship, I would absolutely love to but u don't want to do it just because her friends and cousins are. All her friends are moving out, living in private rent, wasting £600 per month in ...

I feel so heartbroken, even though I broke up with him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - So I've has a whirl wind 7 months. From the minute I met him he swept me off my feet and made me feel like the most special girl In the world! So what was the problem? His ex of 8 years who he has a daughter with, who left him and is now en...

I'm not ready to move on if there is still a chance I can get back with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I don't know what to do, I have this ex who wants to remain friends. So far I have obliged and I'm confused about whats going on. He keeps flirting with me and wanting to hang out with me, calls me the same nickname and has told me he'd be ...

How do I cope with feeling totally isolated and alone? My fellow students are selective about things they invite me to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3491 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - Dear readers, I feel that my life is in a mess at the moment, both personally in romantic relationships, "freindships" and in my college work. I am studying an animal related course which is incredibly difficult, it's a very difficult...

He's supported me as a friend. How do I find out if he also views me as more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - He is single. I'm going through a messy divorce. he has been a great support as a friend. have been good friends for a couple of years but relation is platonic. I have started to depend on him emotionally. how do I find out if he also views me...

What is the meaning of different ways people greet each in a bowling environment. Is it just for fun or a form of flirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

22 April 2015 (M) - What does it mean in a bowling league environment where everyone else is doing high fives (strikes or difficult spares picked up), or fist bumps (spares not made), that most of the times my partner (who started out as a sub and I don't know real ...

Receives phone calls from alleged strangers. Secretive with phone. Would it be OK to ask her to change her phone number?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - A few facts; I am in a same sex relationship I’m 26 and she’s 28 We have been together a year and a half I am her first ever same sex relationship. So my partner's phone is always on quiet, not even vibrate, just silent. When she wakes up ...

Should I confront her to stop her over the top behaviour toward my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend for the last year has a female friend who has always made me feel uncomfortable when she is around him, he loves all the attention, he always has loved female attention and it's something I have got my head around but this particular ...

My boyfriend wants to spend all of his time going out with his friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Hey guys! I really need your advice about my relationship. I am 20 and my bf is 21. Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 1,5 years. Some of this time we were in a distance relationship. I felt that he was perfectly in love with me, we...

Should I be too scared to say anything, just in case I'm reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Im in love with a guy and every time I see him im heart stops but im not sure how to read if he likes me. I have known him for 8 years now his ex step daughter and my daughter are friends we both stay in the same street when I see him he always g...

20 year age gap. I like his mind. Shoud I pursue this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi Agony people, I'm in my mid twenties and have feelings for an older man. I dont find him beautiful or a sex bomb. I love the way he thinks and uses his mind. He is similar to me in this way. His career or lifestyle doesnt factor into...

I am worried and think I need a little bit of help, please? It's about a girl. I consider I am straight.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3495 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - It's been a while since I've posted, but last night I hooked up with my friend and now I don't know how to go about it. We're both girls and I'm straight but alcohol can do funny things. What began with me rejecting her kisses turned into fingeri...

Doing things we shouldn't do, and I feel bad about that. He's been prosecuted and I suffered domestic violence. Will people ever learn to trust us again?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Modnote: DearCupid does not condone the use of illicit drugs. But you clearly feel bad about using illicit drugs and have promised to stop. Seems that you really do need some advice, despite your past use of illicit substances, when feeling under ...

Is it wrong or weird that I'm kind of jealous of younger women?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

19 April 2015 (M) - Women it seems, are generally valued for their youth more than men are, despite me being a guy, as in human male, there are times I am jealous, envious of how women are valued for their youth more than men are. The reason why is because i'm a gu...

I like someone online but I have a real boyfriend. How do I get over this crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - There is a lot I love about my boyfriend of 3 years but recently I have an online crush with someone from a videogame I play. About this time a year ago, I started to like someone online as well and even told my boyfriend about it because we usual...

Can someone explain it to me? Why would a girl subject herself to being used and discarded?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - I have a friend who has the most uncanny ability to be a jerk to specifically women he just hooks up with and still have them at his beck and call. I've seen it with my own two eyes. It's the weirdest dynamic I've ever seen. Most recently, he had a...

How do I talk to him about what we have happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - A few months ago I ended up sleeping with my friend after we both got drunk at a party. Since then we've been hooking up semi regularly, I sometimes stay over at his house and we always have sex and fall asleep cuddling. However I've had feelings ...

I'm having difficulties in socializing with other people due to my low self esteem and feel socially awkward

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Hi everynone.. im having difficulties in socializing with other people due to my low self esteem and socially awkward. I feel shy whenever i meet people that attractive and confident. Im not kind of thia person before. I used to have many friends to ...

My grieving friend has been a part of my life since childhood. What can I do now thar she's distancing herself from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - I have been friends with this girl for about 16 years and I have always been there for her. Sadly a few years ago her father passed away and I was there for her as much as I could be. I would meet her after work, I would take her out for food and be ...

I'm pretty much a social reject!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - I can't seem to make any friends because I'm single with no kids. Everyone views me as desperate or needy and stay far away from me as possible. Even when I don't announce my relationship status I still get the lonely and desperate tag. At work, ...

How can I deal with the hurt? I am in love with my best friend. My feelings are not reciprocated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

16 April 2015 (M) - I'm in love with my best friend and don't know what to do. We first met about 2 years ago and ever since have been the best friends. I had always fancied her but had never taken it any further for fear of it affecting our friendship. The previ...

Am I mad to keep thinking of a friend from childhood?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

16 April 2015 (F) - There is something going on my head that is making me want to contact this bloke I knew from School years. We were really young when we first met, both went to the same pre-school, then kindergarten, etc, pretty much stayed together all the way thro...

Should I be apologizing to my Bf over something I don't believe I did? He's mad at me and he has pictures of me that his friends want to see.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

15 April 2015 (?) - Hi :) I'll just skip to the main thing.. So today, my boyfriend told me his friends are trying to get hold of his thumbdrive as they assume that there are some special pictures in there of me. However, this friend of his happens to be in one of ...

A friend of two years, do I let go or keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - Heya all help needed... I've been mates with this boy for 2 years and we have shared so many memories and we were like bro and sis! He decided to stop talking to me and started making up all these excuses on what i have done and we haven't talked i...

Can and girl ask a guy out? And how does it impact on the relationship if the girl earns more than the guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - Straight to the point! should a lady ask a man out? Whats your opinion on the impact on a relationship if a man earns less than the lady? ...

How can I cope with my bitter and jealous feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - I am very happy for a friend of mine-but also jealous. A friend's husband just got an amazing job promotion. They are going to move to another state and he is going to be making a "once in a lifetime" salary. He was already making considerable mon...

Should I respond or was she giving me the brush off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (M) - Hi, I met a girl nearly a month ago we met at a party and we've been exchanging messages ever since. She has been on holiday and came back to start a new job. I asked if she wanted to meet up again this week and she said sure what time etc. Well ...

How can I turn this situation around? I think my own actions caused the problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - Ok so I've always had trouble making friends, I guess I don't really have much is common with other girls and im more of a guys girl. I only have one female friend, I've known her my whole life, we live down the same road, our mums are best friends ...

Does anyone have any suggestion/herbal remedies for a crying always hungry baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - This is not a relationship question but I hope it will be printed anyway ... because it is for the good cause of helping a distressed new mother. A younger friend of mine just had on March 3rd her first baby. The baby is healthy, beautifu...

Why does this older guy ignore me after knowing how I feel for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - Hello there! well I'm 18 years old girl ,studying in college English honours.I'm an artist as well as I'm an independent singer/song writer. I'm in love with a person since two years who is 26 years old. He's my friend's cousin brother. Ofcours...

I am feeling uncomfortable with my friend's husband

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid.. Am feeling uncomfortable with my friend's husband as of late. We are friends for almost 3yrs . before it was all fine but for the past 5 months i just feel awkaward around him. i find him too much focused on me when we meet, ev...

Should I talk to my co-worker before going out for a drink with another co-worker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - I'm looking for an outside opinion on this please, as the people I know are way too close to the whole thing I think. Ok I'm almost 30 and I've worked for my current employer for 2.5 years, and in that time I've become very good friends with two...