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writes:It's been a while since I've posted, but last night I hooked up with my friend and now I don't know how to go about it. We're both girls and I'm straight but alcohol can do funny things. What began with me rejecting her kisses turned into fingering her until she came. We talked about it today and everything seems to be fine, but I am worried and think I need a little bit of help. So, help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2015): I hooked up with a girl once. I was drunk too. Not only that but I had just gotten out of a bad relationship and was going through a phase where I had grown skeptical of men. I think I hit on her. We made out. Then I passed out on her bed.
When I woke up I was mortified. I tiptoed out of there and never talked to her again. Terrible, I know...I have since dated guys only and am in a relationship with a guy and have no desire to revisit the girl on girl thing. Me and my boyfriend ran into the girl at Whole Foods about a year after it happened. I had told him about it. It was no big deal. I no longer felt as mortified as I had right after it happened.
One of my best friends did the same thing after getting out of a bad relationship. She hooked up with a girl. It was the first and last time, she has no regrets though. She is now happily married to a guy.
It happens. If you feel awkward about it, then take some time away from her and to yourself to think about it. Over time, what happened will become less important. And may even be something you and her will laugh about.
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