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writes: Hi :) I'll just skip to the main thing.. So today, my boyfriend told me his friends are trying to get hold of his thumbdrive as they assume that there are some special pictures in there of me. However, this friend of his happens to be in one of my classes and he is seated next to me. (It was random seating) anyways, my boyfriend's upset that apparently he saw me talk to him and laughing. But I swear to God I don't remember doing that at all. All I remember was standing with one of my girl friends and then I over heard something and turned around and said "what" to a bunch of boys (my classmates). I thought they were talking about me. Initially I thought my boyfriend's upset with me for sitting next to this friend but it turns out he was upset that I was laughing with him. But I really don't remember doing that because I haven't seen him the whole day until my last lesson. I really don't remember. So my boyfriend finally told me what he was upset about which was the fact that I know that he's after his (boyfriend) pendrive and yet I still talk and laugh with him. Which I don't remember doing at all. So I'm not exactly what he saw. Anyways, I said apologised for making him upset even though I don't remember any of it. So what should I do about my boyfriend? He's mad/upset about this. Should I apologise again? And like the fact I don't remember doing it is strange.. By the way, my boyfriend actually had my photos somewhere else which is safe away from school. But he's mad because despite what happened he saw me laughing with his friend and all. AND I DONT REMEMBER DOING IT! I DONT KNOW WHATS GOING ON.. Am I suffering from a memory loss of something? :O Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (16 April 2015):
 You BF is being a immature and insecure brat. Since when can't a girl LAUGH at something a boy or another girl says?
Mt advice - GET those pictures back if they are in ANY WAY something you don't WANT your parents, family or friends to see.
And STOP apologizing for stuff you didn't do.
I'd straight out tell your BF that he needs to get a grip, laughing WITH someone is not any thing bad. People do it all the time.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (15 April 2015):
Whether you did it or not, what would be so wrong about talking to someone and laughing. Your boyfriend's insecurity is off the charts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2015): Let him get over being mad. Leave him alone until he can calm down.
WHY are you apologizing for something you didn't do?
You need to stand firm and let him know you didn't do it. End of story. He needs to take it and trust you. End of story.
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