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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Have I been friend zoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - What could it mean when a guy treats you differently than he does other girls or his other friends? Like he may hug/flirt with other girls but he doesn't ever do that to you. Like, this is my situation, but what is confusing is like, we are in the ...

Is he trying to get back at me because I told him I won't cheat with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - There is this guy friend I have that's been doing his best to lead me on. He has a girlfriend but he was always acting like he was single. We were involved in an emotional affair you could say and nothing physical ever happened but not because he ...

Is our "sex talk" just healthy acting out, or is it going a little too far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - My wife and I have enjoyed a fantastic relationship for the past 15 years. The problem is, we have been together for 17. The past couple years has been a little more up and down, but hopefully not something that we can't work through. It could be t...

I need some suggestions to help me understand why this is happening? I'm having some communication difficulties with a guy I met.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So there's this guy. I met him about 3 months ago on a friday at an event. It was a big weekend with tons of events and we kept bumping into each other. We talked about many things and really connected. A few days latter I found him on facebook...

I'm in love with a guy, who loves someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I have this best friend and I am head over heels in love with him. He makes me so happy and i just want to be with him. He was upset today and I asked him why. I finally got through to him and he told me. He said that he has been in this long ...

My g/f isn't "the one" -- but her best friend might be

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - so ive got myself in a bit of a jam. im 25 and have dated around a lot trying to find exactly what im looking for. I started dating a new girl about 3 months ago and a few red flags are up...I know she's not the girl for me. The problem becomes ...

Dating in Social Circles

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29 September 2012 (M) - Dating In Social Circles By Frank Kermit, Relationships Dating can be tricky. Does the other person like you the way you think he or she might? Do you really like that person enough to get more serious, or do you want to keep it more casual a...

He's depressed how do I cheer him up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a few months, weve been flirting and have met a few times but it's going nowhere at the minute. Recently he's been feeling down and upset and I don't know how to cheer him up? Like, what to say to him? Any advice ...

I think my friend is making a mistake -- would it be better just to keep my mouth shut?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - My best friend has started sleeping with a guy from work who is married. They live on a campus and he is her next door neighbour. She says they both know it is going nowhere but she is happy for it to continue. She had a terrible relationshi...

I feel jealous of the man whom my partner has chosen to be our baby donor

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - I am a lesbian who has been in a relationship for 7 months with a woman. Her best friend is a male, whom in the past, has declared he was in love with her! Nothing ever evenyuated and they remain extremely close. In the future she want's him to be ...

We have a lot in common but we bicker a lot. Is it best to leave him alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hello all, to make it sound lesser, I am infatuated with this boy(a friend) that I met not too long ago but before I tell you my reasons why, I'd like to tell you more about him for the sake of the question. So, he's a very intelligent, talented guy ...

Best friend's new boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I am 40, and have a best friend 32, who has just got a new boyfriend who is 20. This is quite a long story so bear with me. The relationship between me and my best friend is purely platonic, but a slight complication is that he has limited money so ...

Confused schoolgirl... what do I do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I met a boy a year ago on Facebook. We were only Friends when last week he asked me to meet him. I was really excited to meet him for the first time, he is 21 and am 16. he is very friendly and i started liking him a lot but when we met yesterda...

Does he still like me??? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I still like this guy that i used to date, even though i have a boyfriend. Things havent been going that well with me and my boyfriend lately. When the guy i used to date found out that i had another boyfriend, he called me and asked if i was in ...

I think I've found the one. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I think i have finally found my soulmate. I do a class at my gym, been doing it for about a year now. Our instructor arranged a fitness holiday in july to Turkey. On the holiday i got really friendly with girl from our class and we really hit it o...

Sick of being seen as one of the guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Once again I have fallen into the 'you're like one of the guys' category with another guy. I love having guy friends, most of my friends are guys because I don't get along with girls my age. I get along with older women really well, but most girls ...

After I posed nude for her, how can I be comfortable around my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2255 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - Ok this is really embarrassing, but a female friend of mine is this really awesome sketch artist. It's a little hobby of hers, but she's studying to be an interior designer. After sketching my face a couple of times, she asked me if she could draw ...

I recently met two great guys and can't decide. Should I just date both of them at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4434 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I don't think i'm doing anything wrong, not yet anyways. I need to make a decision, which I think deep down I know I've already made but it's the wrong one. So i'm hoping someone can help out. I've never been a girl to care for dating more than...

What can I do to remember important things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I am nineteen. I always forget important things from my family, friends, college and I hurt some people by forgetting about something I said I would do for them or similar. I am not trying to forget things or ignore people; it just happens but then ...

From his message, does it seem like he is interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I am a bit confused here. First of all pardon me if this is going to be long, but I actually need another mind to think with me and tell me if I'm reading too much into this or not. I am a 33 yo divorced woman with a kid, and I have this male c...

Am I wrong to feel jealous that he flirts with other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I'm now talking to this guy who is a couple months younger than me. We aren't dating but I get really jealous when he flirts with other girls and he says it's just his personality. It really ticks me off knowing that he knows I like him and I get ...

I like my friend, I don't like his uncle tagging along

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Ok, so I have a male neighbor, younger than me, that I have been spending a lot of time with since I moved up the street 6 months ago. Before I became a neighbor, we were casual friends, as he brings his grandmother into the beauty shop where I ...

I'm seeing my crush after years what if my feelings return for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I need a bit of advice and second opinion in a situation that's come up in my life. First, a bit of back story. I am a gay woman in a serious relationship. I have been with my partner for two years. We have a flat together and are planning in ...

My friend keeps devouring my food...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 September 2012 (M) - My friend Bridget drives me absolutely crazy with her eating habits because she is almost ALWAYS sponging off my food. It doesn’t matter if she just had a meal as long as food is around she always wants a bite or a sip or a few of whatever I’m ...

Is it reasonable that I am wary of my Bf being curious about other girl's sexual preferences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4439 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has recently been coming up with new ideas to spice it up in the bedroom. We've been both having fun with it and enjoying ourselves and our relationship to the fullest. Recently, his best friend has been having relation...

Should I be concerned about my boyfriend hanging out with this certain girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have argued about this girl he talks to before. She sent him a text a while back asking him to call her before he goes to sleep so she 'can give him something good to dream about' he never called her and when i confronted him he ...

My best friend and ex-boyfriend: inappropriate friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hey Everyone, I found out some information last night that is bugging/hurting me and i just would like opinions here. I was with this guy for three months(who i still really like) and he had hung out with my best friend a few times i guess...

What is everyone's take on your boy/girlfriend being friends with their ex's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - So I've got a very basic question and would appreciate all the feedback I can get. I've been seeing my girlfriend for 3 months now, and minus a few bumps in the road here and there, we have a very stable, healthy relationship and a lot of trust in ...

I'm pregnant trying to be friends with ex and the girl he got pregnant but its making me sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I am 6months pregnant with my first child.The father and I are not together because he was very mean to me and mentally abused and took advantage of me and lied all the time.But for the sake of the baby I still remained friends with him because he ...

I wish I had stopped her wedding but I didn't so how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - looking for any advice about this situation. i have been friends with this girl since we were 8 years old, we have grown up together same schools and friendship groups. we got close at 15, seeing each other all the time, skyping and texting ever...

I need to get a grip -- flame out with one guy is getting in the way of another

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I was seeing a guy for a couple of months. At first he was keener than me, seemed a "decent" guy so I decided to give him a chance. Mistake. We dated once a weekish and things began to feel strained. I noticed I was texting him first. I began to ...

Why wont men try and be friends with women they are not attracted to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I saw a question on here that made me think, and made me want to ask one of my own. Why is it that women will try to be friends with men who they aren't attracted to, but men won't try to be friends with women they aren't attracted to? I know this ...

How do I tell my friend that just because she's dating doesn't mean that everyone wants to date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi. Yesterday i took my best friend to the restuarant to eat. While we were there..a certain guy who works there asked for my numbers and i told him that my phone just got destroyed so i had no cellphone at that moment (i lied). Well sure he didnt ...

I have been told that guys won't bother to try to spend time with a girl as only a "friend".

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - It's the age old question: Does he like me as more than a friend? Simply put: A coworker continues to invite me to lunch. He is from another country so he is hard to read. I feel like he is just trying to make friends, or he is being polite by ...

How do you stay positive when you're single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - How do you stay positive when you're single? I see all of my friends and some of my exes, happy anHow do I get my husband to stop being so insecure ?d in relationships... Don't get me wrong, I'm truly VERY happy for them and wouldn't wish anything ...

Married lover and I want to end our affair but keep going back for more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I've been having an affair for a year now. Married for 9 and a half years with 2 children. My husband is great and I honestly am not sure what lead to my affair? I have been in this affair with our neighbor who we see all the time so it's extremely ...

Is it ok for a friend to sleep with your FWB?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

24 September 2012 (?) - My very close friend slept with a fwb of mine and has not come out and told me herself. I am so hurt by this, but other people who I have spoken to don’t understand why I should be as bothered as he is only a FWB and therefore he doesn’t mean ...

Should we let our friend make the same mistake or bring our concerns to her attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

24 September 2012 (?) - My sister in law and best friend was previously married to her high school sweetheart, but she had given him an ultimatum before he proposed and he asked for a divorce eighteen months later. No one liked him, friends or family, the unanimous ...

These two girls are using me for my popularity

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I'm so confused right now. I don't know if they're friends or not. After I joined like, a zillion clubs,these two girls come and I genuinely liked them, and we start being all buddy buddy. They liked the same stuff that I do and I was impressed ...

Did my comment scare him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Okay so I was having a Facebook conversation with this guy who I like but he has a conversation and we were joking around when I says " it's weird we haven't talked in ages, I kind of miss you" because we used to be close but then we stopped talking ...

I miss my crush but he's going out with girl who doesn't like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - i have an crush on this boy but he has a girlfriend who is in my class and I've known her since we were like three and for some reason she dosent like me. Anyway i was friends with her boyfriend and had a crush on him(they were not going out then) ...

Both somewhat newly single, but we get along so well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts/uncles. Here's my situation... I just got out of a relationship of 1 year. It started out somewhat mutual but then it became me breaking up with him. I had been feeling off for a while, at least 2 months, and was already done with the...

Boy advice needed. He clams up all the time and I can't work it out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I need some boy advice. I dated boy A, for a good year or so. When boy A finished it, I was pretty distraught. His friend, boy B then confessed that he was "in love with me" and had been for most of mine and boy A's relationship. I ...

Why do people give up their friends when they get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Why do a lot of married people give up their friends? I'm in my mid twenties, and I'm married as well. I've lost quite a few friends since they got married, and I don't understand why. I think part of the problem could be that most of my friends ...

Have I missed my chance with my high school crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, There is a girl that I like in high school. Ill name her "E". E likes me too, I know because we would often stare at each other for more than 30 seconds back in high school. she is so pretty and nice, but I am not sure if she hate...

I just want a little TLC when we are out together, but he gives it to everybody but me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - What is there to do in this situation? My boyfriend is a hopeless flirt and the life of the party. I find it incredibly uncomfortable being in public with him. What on earth can I do? At parties, he engages everyone, except me. He has said...

Is it dangerous territory if my platonic male friend is interested in me? My Bf doesn't like me seeing this other guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (?) - My male coworker and I have become good friends. I never really hang out with him outside of work because he is really infatuated with me. It even caused some tension in the beginning, when I was just getting to know him. He's not my type at all a...

How to regain my girlfriend's trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - I while ago I broke up with my gf because my (former) best buddy lied to me and made me believe that she had tried to cheat on me with him. At the time she told me it was the opposite; that he was the one who wanted to be with her and could not take ...

My jealously issues with boyfriend and friends are starting to concern me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I'v been having a lot of jealousy issues lately its not only with my boyfriend but even with my girlfriends..like if I think that my 2 girlfriends are getting close to each other I get jealous cuz I want both of them to be close to...

I'm straight and my best friend is in love with me, how can I help him get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - The situation I’m in, is pretty bizarre. I’m guy and my best friend is in love with me. I’m 27 and he’s 28, we know each other for almost 10 years, we're like brothers. I never knew he was gay. I’m not trying to judge gay people, I don’t know much ...